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myLot reputation of 86/100. Number1Femme (356)   ranked 2,564 out of 35,410 in people11 months ago

I was watching this television show where they asked this woman "Could you ever forgive the man who almost killed your son in a car accident?"
The woman said absolutely not. And then suddenly, the man who had done so, appeared. He apologized and said he was worried about her son (her son was in the audience) and had always wondered if he was all right and what had happened to him and he has been on the driver's mind since and that he really is sorry from the bottom of his heart.
The son then walked up to him and said something like, "Listen; everything happens for a reason and it's ok" and then the two embrace and hug. The mother than says "If everything you said was true, I most certainly do forgive you from the bottom of my heart." And then the mother and this man hug.

I found this very touching. And it really made me think. Drivers who cause other people to be victims are not all necessarily bad people. They just happened to make a wrong turn, overlooked something, etc. If these drivers really are good people, it must be very hard for them to live with themselves.
I am not saying that the victim I cannot empathize with; but I can see where both are coming from.

What are your thoughts? Would you be able to forgive this man?
I personally, found it very admirable what the mother and son had said and done. I cannot say if I would have done the same; but what they did was really touching.

Please share your thoughts and contribute to his discussion.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. sunil_008 (655)   ranked 5,084 out of 35,410 in people   11 months ago

i am telling you one story which is real. few years back a couple from australia came to india for missionary purpose. they were working in some remote part of india.they had 2 sons and 1 daughter.one night few men set the man and his 2 sons on fire while they were sleeping in the car and outside the home...
the men who did all those things got caught and were in prison.the lady of the dead man went to meet those men and said that "i forgive you"...
now tell me what you think about this?...


myLot reputation of 86/100. Number1Femme (356)   ranked 2,564 out of 35,410 in people  11 months ago

Wow! That I would never be able to forgive someone for. To take the life of another human being? That is not a mistake. That is a sickness!


myLot reputation of 88/100. sunil_008 (655)   ranked 5,084 out of 35,410 in people  11 months ago

she did forgive them for their sickness...and she is still working in the region...one of her girl child who wasn't there during the incident is studying somewhere in india...she refused to leave that place after the incident...

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. fasttalker (2195)   ranked 4,214 out of 35,410 in people   11 months ago

I think forgiveness is somehing that a person has to find within themselves. It's a point that a person has to reach t be bale to let go of the pain that has ben inflicted upon them by another. Once you reach the point that you can let it go rather than allow it to consume you then you will find forgiveness. I don' think it would b easy to forgive someone for an incident like this but just think of the relief she must have felt once she was able to.


myLot reputation of 80/100. psychodjin (115)   ranked 30,071 out of 35,410 in people  11 months ago

I agree with fasttalker. No one perfect in this beautiful world. I think forgiving someone who hurt us free us up to a new relationships with them. Forgiveness may have benefits physical health too.

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