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myLot reputation of 87/100. lorraine27 (143)11 months ago

hi have you ever fallen for a guy/girl who you knew was no good. he may of been a player. someone who you know has cheated in the pass. he/she may drink or have a drug problem. or maybe they hit you but you still sayed with them. how did you make it better, or how did you get away or end it.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 54/100. Jlyn22 (196)   11 months ago

My ex was no good. I met him when I was 14 at a teen club and I was "head over heels" for him. We didnt officially get together till I was 18 and were only together for a month but I was with him everyday from age 16 to 18. I knew he wasnt any good, he had other girls he would talk to, he did drugs and drank all the time, he was in and out of jail all the time, he was pretty much homeless just staying at anyones house that would let him stay there. But he manipulated me into staying around him, and making me think he loved me. I stayed cause I mainly felt bad for him cause of how bad of a life hes had and wanted to help him get a better life but no matter what I did he wouldnt change. He only dated me because when I graduated I got a lot of money for it and he knew if he wasnt my boyfriend I wouldnt spend any of the money on him. So basically I went through $2000 in one month mostly spent on things for him and once it was gone thats when he broke up with me. I should of left after that since I knew what happend but I was dumb and didnt. I stayed around still and then a few months later he did something very stupid got me in trouble, he went to prison for 3 years I got put on probation and had to pay thousands of dollars for something I didnt even do, and he still manipulated me in to sticking around once he got back out. It wasnt until I met my fiance in Sept of 2007 that I finally gave up on this kid. I talked to other guys while he was locked up but they were all the same way as him so I think thats why I kept running back cause I didnt think I could find anyone better, but I have and now Im with a nice guy that doesnt treat me wrong and doesnt use me and really does love me.


myLot reputation of 87/100. lorraine27 (143)  11 months ago

wow really that bad. but i know boys know the rigth things to say to girls. to get them to do what they want them to do,


myLot reputation of 97/100. rmuxagirl (6617)   ranked 649 out of 649 in had my heart broken  11 months ago

wow I am so glad that you were able to find someone who was able to help you get away from that guy. Sometimes it can be hard to get completely away from someone who was so bad. But glad you have someone so wonderful now.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. rmuxagirl (6617)   ranked 649 out of 649 in had my heart broken   11 months ago

I have fallen for a guy who I knew was no good for me. he treated me bad and did have a bad past in drug issues. It didn't get any better, and I just ended it. I told him if he couldn't give me what I needed he wasn't allowed to call me and I didn't take his calls or anything.


myLot reputation of 87/100. lorraine27 (143)  11 months ago

yeah its good that you got away from that if he startd taking durgs again. he may of tried to get you to take them. some women think they have to do anything for there man, when really we have to care for our ownselfs.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. ericajoyce (1641)   11 months ago

Hello lorraine. Yes, I did fall for my ex boyfriend who was no good. The moment when we were a couple, he started getting on my nerves. He cheated on me twice and he smokes and drinks. What I did was, I forgave him when he first cheated on me and I trusted him little by little, but then I found out that he cheated on me again. That was the time I told myself that its over.


myLot reputation of 87/100. lorraine27 (143)  11 months ago

he really was no good i hate men like that you put your trust in them, and then they betray that trust. it takes a lote to trust someone again agter something like that. am sorry to hear that thins happen to you. but glad that you got out. now you can trust someone who will not break your heart. all i will say is dont rush into a realationship untill your sure. but when you do fine that someone then go and enjoy it.

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4. myLot reputation of 91/100. kquiming (516)   11 months ago

yes and i couldn't help it. so i tried my best to work things out, of course i had my own shortcomings and mistakes. but after some time, it ended anyway. and i knew it was bound to end in the first place. but now it's offer well i'm not too sad about it anymore. the important thing is i learned a lot of lessons.

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