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Ha ha, that sounds like a want ad. 
I’d been thinking about how many single people are on myLot and how many of them are such lovely people. Now…..no…I’m not starting a dating service. Hee! I just wanted to ask some questions and give single people an avenue to shine or share, or whatever. Maybe even get to know each other better along the way.
I’m not single, but I thought I’d toss my thoughts out there to get the ball rolling so to speak. Heaven forbid I should ever be single again, but if I were I’d have to be honest and say my man would have tempered my preferences quite a bit. I'm not prejudice, a man is a man, no matter if he's darker or lighter than I. I’d want a strong; take charge man who made me feel protected, safe and cherished. I’d want a man that could laugh a LOT! I’d want a man very “masculine” in appearance(even that can be personal preference because my "masculine" many not be someone elses). But we all know I’m partial to facial hair.;) I don’t want, need or like “wearing the pants in the family” so that would be important to me. In the same vein, I’d want to be listened to and respected. Yes, it can happen!;) Also I think it would be very important to be honest up front. I’d want to become friends and then share more and more about myself. Friends first, is important to me because that gives you an openness and avenue to communicate and you can see if the person would really be accepting of more and more honesty. If that makes any sense? Ha ha! I can’t imagine going through all the teenage turmoil of wondering if the person will soon be moving on and I think that honesty, up front, would weed out the posers! So that would be some of MY personal ideas on it all.
Don’t be shy, this isn’t an invitation for others to criticize what you like or are looking for, but it’s a place for you to say it and be honest!
So if you are single, available and over 30: Are you actively seeking a life partner? What are your PERSONAL criteria, everyone is different, so what do YOU like in a man or woman? Do you feel honesty is important up front?
Share your good or bad experiences if you’d like, feel free to vent because other singles can learn from your experience!
Just share whatever you’d like to discuss and have fun!!
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | Well there you go, our first brave soul. That's great! Thank you!
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | OH that's wonderful Loud! Ok, I'll talk to you later then!
Hey, I like a "burly" man myself!;)
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sconibear (2558) | 10 months ago | <-----------not real thin.......at all!
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | Ok, are we gonna get into a "size don't matter discussion"? LOL!
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | ;irish shakes head; UH uhhhHHHHHH!
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AnnieOakley1 (1683) | 10 months ago | Sorry, but I just have to chime in here.
My current man, is 5ft 8inches and only weighs 140 lbs, but he is hung like a donkey. It is one of his few good points.
Sorry, to burst your bubble, Loud. 
And NO, I'm not sending you pictures to prove it, either so don't ask. He would kill me if he knew I told you anyway. Well, maybe, I dunno.
Just our little secret, ok? 
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LoudnProud (6260) | 10 months ago | I was jokin about the size & thin men .
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Scoop_Dogg (1934) | 10 months ago | Annie, don't you know?
BIG MAN, BIG C0CK, small man, all c0ck
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AnnieOakley1 (1683) | 10 months ago | Scoop, you are fuckinghilarious!
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | YOu GIT you little fart! heee hee
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | I got a water pistol and I KNOW how to use it!
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4. p1kef1sh (5720) | 10 months ago | I'm not single but The Boss is very accommodating. I'm not thin, but I'm not Krispy Kreme overdose fat either. I don't have facial hair except every morning shortly before I shave it off. I love to love and receive love in return. I love to kiss and cuddle. I am wild about attached homesteading women in Texas with men that have facial hair and a wee boy. Of Irish ethnology isn't so bad either. I'm 12 - any chance of a bedtime story?
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | ;pats sofa; Hop on up here then, love!
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p1kef1sh (5720) | 10 months ago | And lemonade. We gotta have lemonade Dahr'lin Sis.
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | Fresh squeezed Lemon Squash...just for my friends!
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p1kef1sh (5720) | 10 months ago | Me love in!!! Awwwwwww Siiigggggghhhhhhh!
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | Some good stuff here, JJB, and I think that one thing to note is that these are often attributes sought by a more muture person, don't you agree?
there's nothing worse than having to go through life being afraid to be yourself! EXACTLY why I brought up honesty, just get it out in the open as one can't carry a charade like that for very long.;)
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | Got it, for jjb, either a clean shave male or a woman!;)
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | Nothing is more worthless than a poser in my opinion!
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dawnald (10097) | 10 months ago | I don't necessarily mind facial hair...
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Scoop_Dogg (1934) | 10 months ago | My wife complains if I leave it in the sink for HER to clean up!
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6. dawnald (10097) | 10 months ago | I'm not single (yet lol) but I can say that more communication and more standing up for myself when things bother me would have gone a long way in helping keep my marriage from getting where it is right now. Not that I'm blaming myself or anybody else. We tend to do what we know and in my case, with my so-called rotten upbringing, I didn't learn to communicate well at all and the same with my husband (for other reasons). Being heard and being understood and being respected in a relationship is more important than all the chemistry in the world.
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | That's SO true because once your understood the chemistry often follows!;)
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dawnald (10097) | 10 months ago | Or if you're not understood, the chemistry goes away. Not saying that chemistry isn't important, but if it's all that there is, it's not going to be a good relationship.
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | You're absolutely right. I can be mended, believe you me...just sayin........
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dawnald (10097) | 10 months ago | You need to be mended? (puzzled look) lol
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | IT, IT can be....oh never mind. LOL!
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dawnald (10097) | 10 months ago | I knew that!
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7. dumblnddzzy (10281) | 10 months ago | LOL What a fun post! I am no longer single, but when I wa I was looking for a man that could make me laugh, & that was kind & nice & masculine in his own right, I also was looking for somebody that had fun with their life, that wasn't REAL serious, but yet serious enough{??}. I think i'm very lucky as I am now with this kind of man. He's wonderful to me, wear's the pants[!] which is important also. Lori
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | Hey girl!!!! Nice to see you! It still will help others to know what might be attractive, so I'm glad you posted!
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MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2981) | 10 months ago | Even the kind that can tolerate me for longer than 24 hours at a time?
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palonghorn (3741) | 10 months ago | Sure, just make sure you either have enough batteries, or a plug..........for the inflater! LOL j/k
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TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (1443) | 10 months ago | Hey Mykl,
Wait till you see my post...
I'm thinking we need to go wabbit hunting,
I know that them wabbits is hiding the whole love mystery thing somewhere in a special place that they only have the key to...
Now to find a way to use our keys to unlock the doors that prevent us from coming in.
I think the main thing is to provide a source of comfort and love, with a huge dose of protection. The downside is when the one you wish to protect actually becomes the protagonist or attacker from within...
My advice is watch that you don't end up with a terrorist in your own back yard, worst of all in your bed...
Having your heart torn out and ripped to shreds is not fun... Worst is when you get accused of being the one to be the vile villain when it is only a projection from those that have been allowed to get in close to your inner circle and they start piling up one lie upon another.
Whew! What a rant, but I think you know what I'm trying to say...
Most women like honesty, and a little risque, with boyish charms, but most of all respect, and security... One thing they should not be doing is attacking their own Lover...
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9. 3cardmonte (1749) | 10 months ago | I am looking for a life partner, I am single,available and under 30,unfortunately finding a lesbian is much harder than finding a man where I live! I have been trying onlne dating,so far no good and as for the text dating I have tried, people are freaks!!!!! and I mean that sincerely! the words slim pickins spring to mind! Its actually starting to get me down. I would want someone kind,considerate and that wanted children. I recently discovered that I DO want kids and I want to be the one who stays at home, bakes cakes and cleans the house!!! thats quite a revelation for m as I never realised that was what I actually wanted until this week,*sigh* its been a week of many questions, big questions,who am I? where do I see myself in 5 years time? ben and jerrys or haagen dazs?
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | Neither, Blue Bell, made in TEXAS! hee
Yip, I faced that one a long time ago. I never could figure out why I just couldn't get into college or the whole rat race. It was because it wasn't ME! LOL!
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3cardmonte (1749) | 10 months ago | Thats a long way to go for a bit of ice cream! but if its your shout, Im there! I wish I had discovered sooner, mind you im probably to blame, I didnt come out for over 3 years, maybe if I had done sooner, I would have what I want by now.
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | yea, but one can't dwell on the what if of the past. The what ifs of the future..now THAT can be fun!;)
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mommyboo (3376) | 10 months ago | Yeah.. I couldn't get into college and the rat race either. And it makes me angry every time I encounter someone who asks me WHY, sincerely, as if they think there must be something wrong with me because I am not a sheeple! I know that's a very unflattering term for people who ARE into college and the corporate career rate race but honestly, that would be hell on earth for me!!!
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | Me too, and it's harder if you don't have a competitive bone in your body. I play putt putt by knocking other peoples balls all over and laughing my butt off! I can't compete, I just want to have fun. I drive people crazy, heee
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10. mommyboo (3376) | 10 months ago | I'm not single, I would hate to be single again. I didn't like it the first time around. Anyway, here are a few things I have learned over time. Number one, when you have a longterm relationship or marriage, the person you choose to spend your time and life with needs to back you up just as you back them up. Completely. This means what is important to me (and likely many other women at least) is that their other half or spouse backs them up with parenting and household decisions, backs them up when it comes to disagreements with their mother (I don't like 'momma's boys') and retains some of their own friends but doesn't balk at making new ones ie YOUR friends. This means that to the both of you, each other is the most important and other people are well, incidental. This means hubby doesn't 'side' with his mother or his friends. This means wife doesn't 'side' with her mother or her friends. It means you stick together and provide a unified front in front of the dueling kids and screaming baby etc.
Communication communication communication. And the SAME expectations. If they want to know when you're leaving work, don't shut off your phone and drive around for an hour to upset them on purpose. If you want to know when THEY'RE leaving work, then they should call you. If you need to plan your whole week on Sunday morning because you have a bunch of kids and busy schedules, then you should plan together and make sure things are written on the calendar or stored in notes on phones or planners so everybody knows what is expected during the week.
Appreciation and help. We are equal. Don't make me feel 'less valuable' because I don't earn a paycheck. Make me feel just as valuable because I do all those things you don't have time to do because you're at work all day . Now this isn't happening to me but I'm just saying. This is important for couples to remember, no matter HOW they divide the work load.
Basically just no double standards. For any reason. This is one of the biggest issues in relationships. And that's all I have to say about that.
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Irishfrndly65 (7435) | 10 months ago | You gave some very good insight for those still single. Every little bit helps. I agree on the "momma boys". By that I mean those that are led around by the nose by momma after they are out of the house. A man can respect his momma and still be "one flesh" with his wife. My man has, more than once, stood up to MY momma for ME. She can be a real pill and I really appreciate it. He will also take the blame if she's giving me grief about something. He'll say, "just tell her I told you no and that's it!" Hee hee...I love that.
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AnnieOakley1 (1683) | 10 months ago | Right on, mommyboo. You're EXACTLY right!
So many relationships go the wayside because of lack of communication or understanging. It's not "everyone for themselves". It's a team effort.
And appreciation and compliments mean alot, too. It shows that you value them.
Blessings.
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