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asanderson (4)10 months ago

My son will be 3 in May. We have been trying to potty train him for a while. He is interested in it, he will get up in the morning and go straight to the potty. But that's the only time. We had problems at daycare with his potty training as well. He seems to find it funny to use the bathroom on himself.

He will stand there, watch himself wet his pants and it run down his leg, and bust out laughing and say "I peed" or he'll poop in his pants and grin and look at me and say "Mommy, I got poo poo"

This has caused many rashes so far, and it's really frustrating. How can I convince him that he wants to do this in the potty, and not in his pants? Does anyone have any tips or little tricks they've used with their sons that might work? Someone please help me!!

Amanda

 
 
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kennyrose (4041) response was accepted on 2/28/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 85/100. okkidokitokki (1387)   ranked 1,981 out of 14,909 in parenting   10 months ago

My sister got her son a potty watch. it goes off every thirty minutes and when it goes off you go and use the potty, whether you need to or not. My sister is a kind woman with a lot of pacients.

I am not. By three years old if your child is not potty trained then mom and dad need to remember who the adult is and set their foots down. I know that all of the parenting books will tell you to let them decide when they are ready but quite frankly I think they are full of it.

Some people feel that it is wrong to spank their children, that is fine, if you do not want to do that then you can still punish him for acting like a baby instead of the big boy he really is.

Please forgive me if this sounds harsh to you, it is just a pet peeve of mine. I really do wish you the best of luck and that potty watch really worked.


myLot reputation of 21/100. kennyrose (4041)   ranked 1,175 out of 14,909 in parenting  10 months ago

Your sister is being a good and responsible parent hat's off to her,spanking a child while they are potty training is a very bad idea, period.
Matter a fact spanking a child in my state has landed parents in jail and other parents the state has removed the child from the home into protective custody for spanking a child,this law is moving into many states so if your a parent that spanks you need to know your state law on this issue.


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2. myLot reputation of 21/100. kennyrose (4041)   ranked 1,175 out of 14,909 in parenting   10 months ago

When my grandson was about your little boys age he pooped his diaper,he was a little ways in being potty trained,his mom worked and she was having a hard time getting him potty trained,this certain day my grandson popped in his pamper,afterward he came to where I was standing and looked up at me with a sad little shy look,I brought his little head over close to my hip and said honey it is okay every one has accidents,he looked up at me again and said Nanny you not mad at me,I said oh honey Nanny could never be mad at you,I love you and your going to one day run to your potty chair and poop,He said in his soft little voice I will Nanny,I said you will honey.

That was the last day my grandson popped in his diaper and with in weeks he was completly patty trained,each child is very special and there own person,your little guy will be potty trained in his own time,give him a lot of encouragement with special kisses and hugs.

Maybe your little guy is doing this because this is where he feels he has some control as he knows he poops or wet his pants.
You mention he goes to day care,he may be doing this for attention as well,it may be best to just roll with it Amanda in his time he will be potty trained.
Just never get to busy not to remember to encourage him and give him a lot of kisses and hugs this will reassure him he is loved even when he poops or wets his pants,best of life to you.

Regards,
Rose




myLot reputation of 21/100. kennyrose (4041)   ranked 1,175 out of 14,909 in parenting  10 months ago

Thank you Amanda,best of luck to you,this to will pass honey,lot's of hugs and kisses goes a long way and so special to tuck away in your heart treasure chest for them year's they are no longer little boy's but grown men,good luck.

Rose

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