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myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life 3 years ago

Ok so as most of you know...I make incense burners. This girl requested one with an image of Jerry. She wanted a pic of him in his later years. I found a great pic of him playing guitar...beautiful smile...etc. Above his pic, I also added an emblem of the dancing bears with the words...grateful dead printed around the bears. She didn't like the bears altho they do symbolize jerry....could be wrong but arent they his artwork? anyway....she wanted simply a pic of him done up. I did another with just a larger pic of jerry...pretty much head shot. Everything in me wants to add the year of his birth and the year of his death. My daughter said ...as fussy as this lady sounds...just give her the pic. place your vote and input please?? This has to be done by thursday. After that I am moving and wont be working on anymore of this stuff until May. I actually am packing all of my craft stuff up in the morning so if something is to be added it will have to be before noon tomorrow. I wish I had a camera so I could show you the burner but alas...that is a circuit city story. lol

 

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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. OLIJULSAR (1063)   3 years ago

Taking her being as picky as she sounds, I would just go with the picture.
Maybe she don't want to be reminded when her idol died and that would give you another one to try and get rid of to someone else.
I would just go the safe route and just put the picture on it and get my money and call it done..pack up and hit the road.
she is happy and you are happy and have your money for a job well done.


myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

Thanx...that is pretty much what my daughter said. I actually have the bottle done except for the final glaze which I'll do tomorrow. After that it is done...if she doesn't like it...someone will. It looks good as is. It is for her own personal use and not a gift so I can just do another if this isn't what she wants...she'll just have to wait. How desperate could anyone be for an incence burner..right? You'd actually be surprised...I do get requests that need to be done...next day..NOW! Thankfully, I have a great partner and she works her real job opposite from mine and we can do these sorts of requests...usually. happyhappy

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. mechanicNOT62 (1590)   3 years ago

Will you please help me here?
WHOTHEHECK IS JERRY ??? What Jerry are we talking about?
Well, OK, if it means that much to you, and you're the artist, go ahead and put in the dates, but I'm curious, what about the customer? Does SHE have an opinion? Does she care? Does she matter?


myLot reputation of 77/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2961)  3 years ago

Jerry Garcia of the Grateful Dead...


myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

Hi mechanic!happy

Thanx mykl....couldn't have said it better myself.lol


myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

Oh, Mechanic...to answer your other questions...Yes, the customer matters a lot. She wants it this week and I won't be seeing her and my bad....didn't get a phone #. As for if she cares....I don't know. My personal opinion is that the dates would be a cool added touch...then again, I thought the dancing bears were too so I 2nd guess myself.


myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

Ok so I finished it up...opted to leave it with just the pic. If she wants more added on then I can do that but can't take it off without wrecking it. I am actually packing to move in the next week so I'm not even going to mention this to her and hope she just likes the final product. So tomorrow morning i'm packing up all my craft stuff until the big move. Oh and mechanic...all of my curiosity had to do with pleasing my customer...it's very important. I guess I was just taking sort of a vote as the artist in me doesn't always appeal to everyone. I wanted to make it "special" for her but was afraid of disappointing her. Doesn't matter...I did it exactly for what she asked.


myLot reputation of 86/100. mechanicNOT62 (1590)  3 years ago

I sorta figured that MYKL, but I wanted to make sure.
Anyway, Sid, what about that picture of the thing? How about it? BEFORE you give it up!! I'm curious. w00t
Thanks Y'all!


myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

Hi Mechanic,
you are so cute! It was a close up of Jerry Garcia....great smile just shortly before he passed. I did opt to leave off the dates and as I knew if she wanted that...i could add it. Well, she picked it up tonite....and absolutely loved it! I told her what I wanted to do and she was glad that I did not add to it. I should have listened to my gut....the mere fact that I was questioning this should have been my clue that deep down, I already knew the answer. happy


myLot reputation of 86/100. mechanicNOT62 (1590)  3 years ago

CUTE!!! CUTE??? w00t Whatheh*ll's this world coming to!?!? shocked
Little puppies, babies and chicks are cute, but guys like me aren't called cute!!!
Just for this once I'll accept handsome, gallant and magnetic, but CUTE!?!?!?
Oh, but I did remember afterwards that you said you had misplaced your camera, so thanks for the description of your creation and I'm glad you accomplished your task. Maybe next time.
Thanks Sid!!! and congratulations. thumbup


myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

surrenderok...ok. i'll retract my poor choice of words. Handsome and gallant it is. cool


myLot reputation of 86/100. mechanicNOT62 (1590)  3 years ago

w00t thumbup lol

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3. myLot reputation of 62/100. Anora_Eldorath (3661)   ranked 11,858 out of 32,957 in life   3 years ago

Sid-

This will be one of my "shorter" responses lol. I really can't believe how picky some customers can be. Though, I'm a perfectionist as well, so I can understand you wanting to do it just right. And for pete's sake-it's Jerry! I like the way you described the first one. I would have liked the dancing bears lol.

Anora


myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

Thanx Anora!happyI wish I could take a pic and show you...it actually was a cool bottle and other's thought so too. Its ok...that just means it will sell....to someone. I'm not taking a loss and my main goal is to have the customer happy. This one is very picky and I could tell that by just the way she described how she wanted the paints blended etc.....I do them different each time! She isn't a jerk or anything so I think she is just particular about things. geez...I only charge 6.00.
Pm me your mailing address and I'll send you the rejected one for free...just tell people where you got it! ching ching...you just won the door prize.happy


myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

I'm very serious on that....I will mail it out to you if you want it...door prize.
I'm actually doing quite well with these things and I look at it as advertising and getting it out there. If you burn incense...you'll love it! I started making them for myself and then family & friends and it just kind of took off from there...it was not a planned thing at all. I enjoy working on them so it is not a loss or very often even frustrating to please a customer. I just tend to 2nd guess myself and I really wanted to get it right for this lady and I could tell she was very particular. I wanted her to love it. Well anyway...let me know...I'm dead serious on this. happy


myLot reputation of 62/100. Anora_Eldorath (3661)   ranked 11,858 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

Sid-

I'm sorry I didn't get back to you until today lol. I wasn't ignoring you, I do my responses in the morning (trying to find my schedule in between the things I do). I'd love to see pictures. I'll send you a quick pm in a few. That's a good price for an incense burner. Heck, I've paid a great deal more. I just bought a dragon one which is metal for a bit over 20. And yes, we burn a ton of incense so having one more would be very cool. And the hubby loves Jerry too!!

Anora

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4. myLot reputation of 100/100. JenInTN (10171)   ranked 122 out of 32,957 in life   3 years ago

I agree with your daughter about the pic. Some people are very picky and just want what they want. They can be very closed to extras.


myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18646)   ranked 112 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

Hi Jen,
I know. I ended up giving it to just as is and opted not to add anything extra. It worked out well as she loved it. I told her it'd be easy to add on if she wanted but she did not. She wanted just a good close-up pic of him and that's what she got. happy


myLot reputation of 100/100. JenInTN (10171)   ranked 122 out of 32,957 in life  3 years ago

That's good she liked it. It's hard when you want to express your artistic ability and have to hold back. Maybe you can make another just how you want to. Oh..I have a stuffed doll of Jerry Garcia. I love the Grateful Dead.

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