Is it enough in saying I love you to someone you love?

honestly, i like to do that cuz many girls will fall for it but i dont have any intention to hurt their feelings.And for your answer you must make sure that he just not saying that, but he do the thing to what he has said.For the girl, you dont have to be with them every sec, just when you see them together, you be with them and wait for their reaction.well idk what reaction they would make but you'll know .
IM not an expert in this, just my opinion.:D

While it is good to hear and to the heart when a person utters the three magic words would truly give joy to the one your really love however, acting out your words is totally much better. I couldn't necessarily tell that your boyfriend is cheating you over this girl, however, if he really meant what he is saying, he would not show any communication with this girl whatsoever, especially if he knows it does offend or hurt you. However, we can consider the fact that he might have friendship with this lady. But still, you need to open other posibilities, maybe you can ask someone you trusted which also stays from the place where he is if you are into suspection.

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You know the truth within yourself when you say these words. The real question is do you know what love really means? Have you reached a state of maturity to recognise that perhaps your boyfriend is probably not ready to settle for one girl who is far away. Boys will say anything they think their girl wants to hear. They will not always mean what they say. It can be hard to face the truth but it will show you are growing and becoming smarter & wiser.

Well, at list you know the truth and you don't have to guess if you are the only one for him or he is trying to get more friends.

It depends on how much you love him and need him really.
If you really love him you can go on and may be some day you'll be together and your relationship will be so strong that nobody will meen more for him than you.

But if I were you I would start communicating with other guys at the same site.
First he would feel the same pain as you, second - may be you can meet smb better, who knows.

Hello Glaiztisay, well about your problem, saying I love you to someone or to the person we love is not enough, but we should formost DO what we say and act to what we claim.

If your bf loves you trully, then he will show you how much he loves you and will put to an end the doubt that you have. I am sure that checking his friendster account about it would be a good way to start, just observe your man if he still sends sweet nothings to this girl or not, i mean just observe for time being, don't show any anger towards your bf, just stay cool as you are and observe.

If by any means he will still send anything beyond which is the limitation of friendship and flirting, then that's the time you confront your bf that this will not help you relationship to grow. Don't worry your still young and i am sure that you two can work things out. Happy Mylotting!

Hey Glaiz,

I've been in the same situation... I haven't lost trust to people or for that matter guys yet but saying "I love you" or being told "I love you" is not enough. If it's accompanied by actions that will show you how much he is seriously keep his commitment to you then that is enough for you to know he loves you and will be faithful to you...
It's not good to ask a guy directly on what he had done because he will just keep on saying it's nothing and don't worry when all the time he might still do the saem things he did and will not let you catch him on the same act again. But I also think that a sincere communication will do good. Let the things out and tell him that you are not going to put up with unfaithfulness in your relationship.

Actions speak louder than words. I think its very easy to say those 3 little words I love you but To show someone love means alot more to me. I would tell your boyfriend that him talking to other girls makes you upset. Let him know that you love him and ask if he still loves you. GOod Luck

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I do not believe that saying I love you is enough. I don't believe that saying I love you even means that you really love the person. I've had people say that they love me, yet show otherwise. That saying is so true, actions speak louder than words. If you love someone then you will show it, you won't only say it. I'm not sure if it's just here in the US or if it's all over the world, but the I love you thing is just tradition....Honestly, I would get tired of a guy if he was constantly saying "Oh, I love you, baby!". Maybe it's just the way I was brought up, but like I said, actions speak louder than words. I want to feel the love, not just hear it!