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myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy9 months ago

Everyone has tried something only to find it did not work out right. Do you consider that a failure?? Will you keep trying to get it right, or do you give up?? I think if a person learns from it and trys aain, it is a learning experience. BUT if he gives up on it. It is a failure. My thoughts are dont ever give up!!! Even when it looks like there is nothing more to do or say. Dont give up. You are closer than you think. Keep going. payday is right around the corner.

So how about you. Do you fail or do you learn??

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (13861)   ranked 230 out of 2,910 in be happy   9 months ago

I believe that out of bad comes good, so even if we have a bad experience or failure something good comes out of it, like the learning of how we failed and next time, as they say forearmed is forewarned we are more prepared and we go about it in a different way, handling it differently and hopefully succeeding, sometimes it takes more than one go to succeed, and there can be many barriers on the way to success if we fail at the first hurdle we need to continue to reach the next hurdle etc... It is all to easy to give up but if we don't try we never get anywhere, sorry it's full of cliches and maybe if I was to practice what I preached then I wouldn't be so nervous about trying again each time.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

LOL Wolfie. You saying everything that I preach all the time. But I do for the most part practice them Thnks sweet Wolfie xxx

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. Pitgull (1064)   ranked 1,574 out of 2,910 in be happy   9 months ago

If you do not learn from the experience of goals you have attempted-- but are yet to achieve--you have failed. If you learn from your past mistakes, and attempt to better yourself, working towards your goals--you are a success. When you don't give up, but face life--both the good and the bad--as the person you are, you are a success.

A learning experience, precisely. "Do or do not, there is no try." Yoda, Jedi Master
When people give up or are afraid of failure, it is because they do not have faith.

Luke Skywalker- "I don't believe it!"
Yoda, Jedi Master- "That is why you fail."

We are always closer than we think. We need to have faith in ourselves if we want others to have faith in us.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

Nice answer, I bet you succeed most of the time:)


myLot reputation of 82/100. Pitgull (1064)   ranked 1,574 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

mssnow,

Success is always within the realm of possibility, if you work for it.:)

I found a quote today and thought of you, so here it is:

"It doesn't matter if you try and try and try again, and fail. It does matter if you try and fail, and fail to try again." - Charles F. Kettering

You only fail, if you fail to try what you desire to accomplish.

We fail ourselves when we do not reach for our dreams.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6719)   ranked 1,109 out of 2,910 in be happy   9 months ago

I am one of the ones that keep going pal, I hate anything beating me, ( not games though,that doesn't bother me being beaten in games ) but things I try I will keep going until I get it lol

Wee xx


myLot reputation of 97/100. polachicago (7871)   ranked 1 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

I am sure you can do anything after you success with weight lost... happy


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

Thats great to hear my dear friend. Too bad we live so far apart:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6719)   ranked 1,109 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

Thanks Pola xx

Thanks pal I bet we could tell some great stories:)

XX


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

xxxx i agree my friend:)

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. polachicago (7871)   ranked 1 out of 2,910 in be happy   9 months ago

It depends. In general I can try many times and learn from my mistakes. I am very patient. If I am doing something with ultimate goal to reach in few years, than I can be very patient and take 'baby steps'.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

One thing i am still trying to over come is my patience. I want results right now. So sometimes my patience gets in my way lol But I am learning

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5. myLot reputation of 84/100. luvmysons (328)   ranked 875 out of 2,910 in be happy   9 months ago

I never consider it failure. You learn from the bad or things that dont work out. I agree with you that you should never give up. I think it makes you a stronger person


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

yep it sure does make you stronger. i see you have sons too. How many do you have/? I have three all in their twenties


myLot reputation of 84/100. luvmysons (328)   ranked 875 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

Yes I have 2 sons. My oldest is 3 years old and my youngest is only 10 months. I also have a stepson who is 17 years old


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

Thats cool. so you have three sons then too:) if you ever need advice just holler lol

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. margaux08 (495)   ranked 1,247 out of 2,910 in be happy   9 months ago

Hi mssnow,

I guess it all boils to one thing - motive. If the motive is pure and good, then all endeavors are worth the second try (or third.. or fourth...) At times, what we want to achieve is something that god doesn't want us to achieve because He has something else better in store for us.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

That is true but eventually we find out it wasnt the right thing.

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7. darknessfalls (88)   ranked 907 out of 2,910 in be happy   9 months ago

In everything awaits an opportunity! Everything has its good and bad points. I learn from things everything I do. If I did good, I'd do better. If I did better, I'd do best. If I did best, I'd do bestest. And more to come...:D

On the other hand, falling means learning how to stand. Our feet were created for us to stand so don't put it to waste. In everything we do, we must improve otherwise all we did is in vain.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 115 out of 2,910 in be happy  9 months ago

I agree with you tottally:)

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. lynnemg (3570)   ranked 700 out of 2,910 in be happy   9 months ago

I agree with you, the only time something that doesn't turn out right is a failure, is when we give up on it. "Don't quit" is my motto. Looking at things that don't quite turn out as a learning experience helps us to succeed.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. MaryLynn321 (479)   9 months ago

There's the saying "If at first you don't succeed, try try again" It is so very true, just keep trying until you get it right. You learn from everything you try, each step is a learning process.

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10. myLot reputation of 87/100. sophie_dfuss (2072)   ranked 989 out of 2,910 in be happy   9 months ago

A failure is good for us especially if we want to learn something new.

"Practice makes perfect"

"Try and try u ntil you succeed"

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