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ataeri (1)   ranked 82 out of 798 in single10 months ago

Hmm.. so I am back to square one. After several years of being single, i broke the jinx when i found someone i really loved and she too loved me (well that's what i was made to believe). Life was really cool and i felt on top of the world. we had wonderful times together and got together at every single opportunity (i know a lot of you have been through this before). this lasted for a little over a year.

then through no fault of mine, my girlfriend called me on the phone one day and said she was no longer interested in the relationship. I met her and we had a heart to heart talk. I wanted to know if it was something i had done or had not done for her but she said i had done nothing wrong and that the problem was with her. she had just lost interest in the relationship. so we broke up.

now i am back to the single's jungle. i am here to mingle with people in the same soup as me. it's just a few months that i entered the jungle but I really think it's difficult being single. however i am afraid to get into another relationship for fear of being heart broken again. any suggestion for me. i'd really appreciate it.

 
 
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tags:  single, love life, singles, get a girlfriend, heartbreaks
 
1. bobbyjoe23 (52)   10 months ago

I'm single at 36. It's difficult at times. But I'm surrounded
by 7 sisters, 3 brothers and 12 nephews and nieces that keep
me from lonelinees. the good thing - no nagging wife, no
noisy kids, no big money problems.....

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2. xMonk3yx (16)   10 months ago

I am sorry to hear that, its almost the same thing that happened to me awhile back, so I know what your going through.

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3. myLot reputation of 62/100. jiacky (122)   10 months ago

I am single and want to find a girlfriend! but I don't think it is difficult,but very happy .I want to find girlfriend because I want to taste of another life!
good luck to you!

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4. mayyao888 (8)   10 months ago

I am sorry to hear that, But i have heard some friends got the same situation as you, so i absolutely understand you. I suggest if you could just keep friendship with some other female for a period, maybe you can nuderstand each other more from the conmunication, and then you will know who was the right girl

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. daliaj (2865)   10 months ago

I understand your feelings, this is not something happens only to you. This happens to lots and lots of people always. So, don't be sad about that, don't be heartbroken. You still have time to find a good girl. Wish you all the best!

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6. myLot reputation of 74/100. Nisha_Verghese (450)   10 months ago

Firstly, i am very sorry to hear about your relationship failing.. But you know, that is how life is... you win some; you lose some.. We are not going to get everything we want in life.. Be glad, that your Ex-Gf realised she isnt interested in the relationship before you both got married.. in this way, the heartbreak is less painful..
I understand that you feel it painful to enter into a new relationship again... i am facing the same problem in my life as well.. anyways... Dont despair.. dont rush into any relationship... just wait... your princess is out there somewhere... when the time is right, you would meet her...
Till then, enjoy your life.. Dont waste it away for someone who didnt want to share it with you...

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. cherriemae (2212)   10 months ago

hi there ataeri.. i'm single too.. single mom with a 4yr old daughter.. me and my former boyfriend broke up last january, but i'm happy with my decision because he always makes me fool, he makes things that always hurt my feelings and it's enough for me..it's not difficult to become single friend it's because you are free from expectations, no hurt feelings.. just hope and pray that one day you will find the right girl for you..of course, you can find one, maybe your former girlfriend is really meant for you.. goodluck and happy mylotting..


myLot reputation of 77/100. punk_gal (679)  10 months ago

well, i am committed to my bf..but i don't feel if he is or not..but i still into him..he is so busy with his work..tat he does't get any time to msg/call me..he has changed a lot...its very difficult to continue with this long distance relation...

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. Niah1976 (435)   10 months ago

my god! just enjoy it. you are soooooooooo free. you ahve no responsibilities, no problems. you can do whatever you want, go wherever you wanna go. it's a blessing. you are indeed lucky. don't look for love... it will just come on the right time.


ebreeze1 (28)  10 months ago

niah1976 i completly agree with you enjoy what you know not.

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9. JayTheJedi (14)   10 months ago

I think it is hard to be single especially after you are heart broken and you have been through some relationship problems. But i think it is even harder to stay with just one girl for most men. I think you should just try to stay single until you feel like you can handle another relationship, and when you do start dating try to stay with one woman. It isnt easy I should know. (taken for 3 years)

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10. randiss (90)   10 months ago

i've been single all my life. and i don't find anything wrong about it. the right person hasn't just come along yet. while waiting for that person to arrive, just enjoy the company of your family and friends. continue to meet people and have fun.=)

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