is it really hard to belong to someone else when the right one comes along?  | |  I have a friend who had a boyfriend 4 years ago. They lasted for 3 years before they broke up. she really loved that man that all of her life was sacrificed for him, her studies,friends and her dreams.They really loved each other but there was only one factor that blocks there way, their family. Her boyfriend's mom was so ambitious and my friend tell to herself she would never make that woman her mother-in-law.
After several months of breaking up, she found a man who she said he could be the right one. They loved each other and they took several months together until they reached a worse situation. She got pregnant before she found out her second man had another woman before her. This man could not make a break up with that woman because they were already 3 years together before he found my friend. He loved my friend but he is waiting for his woman to make the first step for them to break up.
When my friends pregnancy was about to reach 2 months, her first man came back to her and proposed her to marry him. He promised to treat the baby just like of his own. He also promised not to live with her mother to avoid trouble.My friend was afraid she would give birth to a baby without a legitimate father.
I do not know if she really made the right decision. She married her first man. after several months, her second man was telling her at last he broke up with her woman and he was ready to accept his responsibility.
If you were her, what decision you would make?
Should she regret
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| | | | | | | | 1.  jands1 (431) | 10 months ago |  I followed the ancient tradition that says men are not necessary in the world of child birthing save for fertilization. I chose to not be with my son's father. I also enjoyed the company of another man during my pregnancy, but when he became close to me, I removed him from my life.
But then again, I was raised oddly. Taught that female children are much more important than male children. Female children could continue the lineage, end feuds, expand lands and holdings, etc. Male children only cause feuds, spend money, etc.
If I was such a person that felt it was important to have my son in wedlock, I would marry the man that was the kindest to me as well as the quickest to beg my hand in marriage.
Tell your friend, that the second man is too late. That if he really cared for her, even in the slightest, he would not have made her "the other woman". He would have not gotten her pregnant when his body and heart was with another woman.
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 tontunan (172) | 10 months ago | hi jands1
For me, I would love to have a son or a daughter. i won't mind the gender as long as they all come from my womb, i would treat them equally. male children could protect the family. i would love to have both a son and a daughter. | |
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| jands1 (431) | 10 months ago | That is an excellent stance to take tontunan! I have learned also that the love I have for my stepchildren parallels my own child's love.:) | |
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