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myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375) 3 years ago

I just heard on Good Morning America that Madonna wants to adopt another child from Africa. This whole adoption issue is bringing up controversy in Africa because they do not allow single mother's to adopt children. Do you think Madonna should adopt another baby, now that she is single again? Why is she doing this? Do you think it's right?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 80/100. veganprince (3402)   3 years ago

I do not know why these celebrities all want to adopt children from Africa when they have children of their own. Do they get tax exemptions from this? Angelina Jolie for instance is on top of the list when it comes to adopting children. But no one can beat the octomom to date for wanting to have many, many children of her own. It just amazes me to think about all these wanting to have many several children when we know the cost and work that goes with having even just one child.


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375)  3 years ago

I agree, I have five kids and it's alot of work. After having my fifth child I tied my tubes. I stay at home with my kids, along with homeschooling them. I can't see a celebrity who is busy making films and barely has time for their own spouses having the time to deal with a child.

Madonna just got a divorce so is she lonely? Angelina Jolie might have the help of her boyfriend Bradd Pitt but they haven't been together too long to say it's forever. Octumom is another story, she is so busy making money of her lifestyle to have so many kids that I think she stopped focusing on what she really wanted, which was being a mom.


myLot reputation of 81/100. la_chique (1193)   ranked 229 out of 1,263 in have kids  3 years ago

I know why they adopt from Africa...

1 - its easy - theres loads of babies in Africa needing to be adopted

2 - its one of the few countries you can get BABIES for adoption (I mean kids younger than about 2)

3 - it increases their popularity/publicity as a celeb. There's so many charities set up for overseas aid, its obviously a subject close to many people's heart

Madonna probably needs all the good publicity she can get at the moment in light of her recent divorce.

In my opinion the worst thing about this is her age in relation to the children she's adopting. She could have grandkids and even great grandkids at her age, not adopting tiny babies!


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375)  3 years ago

My mom tried to adopt a child in her late 30's and the adoption agency told her that she was too old. I don't know how or when the laws changed. I think you are right that this is a tax deduction, good publicity, and it is easier to adopt babies in Africa rather than here in the United States.

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. krajibg (4937)   ranked 941 out of 1,263 in have kids   3 years ago

This is simply great. People should be like Madonna. If you are great show in your attitude and approach that you are great. Now Madonna's adopting another child from Africa is just a sign of her humanity and love for mankind. I do not think there is any sigh of selfishness there beneath the carpet.


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375)  3 years ago

Do you really think so? She just got a divorce, probably dating again too so where does this child fit in with her new life? I think her having her own children already is great, why couldn't she just donate money to the local orphanage there to help the facilities? Why not help donate money for other couples to be able to adopt or even help in other ways?


myLot reputation of 91/100. krajibg (4937)   ranked 941 out of 1,263 in have kids  3 years ago

Ok andalond, I accept ur view. At least Madonna is doing this much but what about the other celebrities across the globe? What good are they doing? Our eagle eyes stop there where we see a celebrity doing something and we become eye closed cuckoo in case of those. Is not it netter than nothing. At least she is doing something for people and we must respect or take into account people's whims.


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375)  3 years ago

Yes there are some movie stars that maybe do it with a kind heart from the beginning. Nicole Kidman with Tom Cruise? I know she adopted kids but she hasn't adopted any more children. She adopted her two children when she thought her life was set with Tom Cruise. Angelina Jolie is great and I think right now she is doing good with Brad Pitt. I think it's great that Madonna is adopting but only if she plans on being a full time mom who would rather commit to her children than a man again.


myLot reputation of 91/100. krajibg (4937)   ranked 941 out of 1,263 in have kids  3 years ago

Yes you may be right but what a gallon of water in the Sahara Desert? Have a great day.

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3. myLot reputation of 81/100. la_chique (1193)   ranked 229 out of 1,263 in have kids   3 years ago

I think from the child's point of view that its a really good thing. Madonna is rich as anything and even if the child ends up being raised by hired help, its going to be a hugely better life than it could ever have been given in Africa.

I think Madonna is too old though to adopt. I dont think her relationship status matters.


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375)  3 years ago

Yes that is a good point that this child will definately have a better life than he/she ever could of had in Africa. If this adoption goes through then maybe it will be something that is meant to be.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. tjades (1602)   ranked 139 out of 1,263 in have kids   3 years ago

I have no problem with it.

A nuclear family is the ideal but not always the best. If she has the resources and most of all the love and capability to raise children on her n then she should not be judged because she is single.

Many persons do so much better in life after walking away from a failed marriage, both for themselves snd their children. These children may have a far better life with a single mom than they would in the conditions which they presently exsist in.
I would want to adopt one day whether I am single or not just so I can help a child who has been abondoned. I wouldnt want to be denied the chance because of my marrital stauss.

Ideal situations in reality are not always the best at all. She should be judged on her own merits. How well has she done with the first child she adopted? Has she been coping well since her divorce? Are her intentions pure etc... Not whether or not she has a man by her side.

The fact that she has decided to adipt again should count for something positive.


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375)  3 years ago

I have nothing against a single mother adopting a child because first of all she is single and the child is already born. I just think that a person should be doing it for the right reasons. Is she really willing to be a mom to these kids and not just let a nanny help her raise them? Look at Octumom who is a single mom and said she wanted children. Yes she might have wanted children in the beginning but I think right now her mind is set on how much money she is making out of this whole circus. Believe me when I was told I couldn't have kids I wanted to adopt. I was criticized for not being married and going through a divorce. I didn't have the resources Madonna has to have made it go through but I am just wondering is it for the right reasons?

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5. myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 151 out of 1,263 in have kids   3 years ago

From the age of 10-18, I was a ward of the court. I am 39 years old riht now and I can honestly say that I am so glad that Madonna never got the chance to adopt me. A lot of people assume that money is everything, but it isn't. They think that money somehow makes people good. Children need normal healthy environments in order to thrive.
I do not know how she lives her private life, but if her public life is any indication, thank God I dodged a bullet like that. I wouldn't even want a mother who did the things that she has done in public. I just hope that she is adopting these children for the right reason and will be good to them. They need all the love they can get.


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375)  3 years ago

I think so too that those kids have already been abandoned by their parents. They need a mom who will honestly love them, not just a companion to keep her from feeling lonely or young. I would love to see these kids years later and really wonder if they knew they were loved besides all the materialistic things she gave them. Look at Lionel Richie he adopted one daughter and it was to have a daughter. Maybe just to experience being a father. I doubt he wanted to adopt alot of kids just to save the world. I'm sure he wanted to have a child.


myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7134)   ranked 151 out of 1,263 in have kids  3 years ago

Actually, from what I heard when they were on the Oprah Winfrey show, she had pretty much been abandoned by her natural parents and she was just hanging around and they took her in and adopted her. So they did not go to an agency looking for a child, they just happened upon a child that needed a family. I do not know how much of this is accurate, as we all know, celebrities are very good at changing the truth to suit their own agenda. All I know is that in the case of Nicole Richie, it seems as though her parents were attempting to do something good.

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6. myLot reputation of 83/100. Carpathian (482)   ranked 361 out of 1,263 in have kids   3 years ago

Not to be mean but with all the babies right here in the USA that need help and all. Why does the rich keep going to other countries to adopt? And, why adopt one child when they are so rich the could just buy a new building or fix the one's we have to help take care of the one's that need it. Save one child and spoil them with Gucci or save a hundred and give them K-mart! You see what I mean? Let me know what you think!

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myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375)  3 years ago

I think your comment is the best. I was just thinking of Senator John McCain whose wife adopted a child. I think in that sense she really fell in love with that child. Yes there are so many things these kids need why not set up an orphanage or a women's home to help these mom's keep their babies? Now that might bring about a healthier child who knows his/her mom was given help to raise them. I love your response.

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (17670)   ranked 1 out of 1,263 in have kids   3 years ago

Lately many celebrities are adopting babies and children from countries in Africa. I think that it is great that they are giving the babies and children a wonderful future. Angelina Jolie is top of the list of the ladies that are adopting from overseas. The mother of six children that had eight babies at once is a great fan of her. I know that Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman adopted two babies from America. However lately it is more popular to adopt from overseas. If a couple adopt a baby their marriage might break down in the future. Then the mother would be single again. I think Madonna should adopt another child that is poor and needy from Africa. Madonna is a lovely person and it doesn't matter that she is single. Tom and Nicole split up and funnily enough they both had a baby with the current partner.

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. ShellyB (3093)   3 years ago

I believe she should adopt another baby if she can, it will be wonderful for the baby, the bummer in here will be the law of Africa and what will they do to cater to Madonna, will it be fair in the eyes of the people of Africa or they even care?
And being single in her case, is that really a big deal? I was raised by my grandmother, she did not have my grandfather to help her, with enough love things can get done.
I am not sure why she is doing that, and I am not worried if it is fair. It would be nice if we got to hear that some celebrety wants to adopt an orphan from the USA but I guess we are not exotic enough and well our orphans must be privileged too.


myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3375)  3 years ago

I want to get adopted if Madonna would leave me her inheritance. happy I think I heard that the adoption would go through which means that they catered to her because she is a celebrity. I know there were issues of whether they would let her adopt since she was a single mom, I guess the money won.


myLot reputation of 96/100. ShellyB (3093)  3 years ago

I remembered now that the first time she adopted from Africa it was said she needed to be there and that she let herself be seen for a few occasions but to some people that did not met the quota of living, I forget why, so yes, they are willing to cater to her because the government is corrupt.
I would love to be adopted by Ellen Degeneres lol, I can make my own money after that thanks wink
Now that I am more sleepy and wanting to go back to sleep, I remember Joan Crawford and the two kids she adopted, was that a love story or what? Even my kid remember no more wire hangers now.
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I hope all those kids have a better life.

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