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Is it OK for a girl to have more guy friends than girl friends? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend9 months ago

I got alot of friends, but i think the number of girls and guys are pretty equal. i got some girl friends that often quarrel with their boyfriends, because they got more guy friends than girl friends..the guys are jealous if the girls spends too much time with her guy friends. sometimes these lead to their breakup or sometimes the girl minimizes the time she spends with her guy friends..

Is it OK for a girl to have more guy friends than girl friends?

 
 
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1. LawrenceLuo (16)   ranked 6,652 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

It should be OK.
I have a girl friend that gets a lot of friends,she never mind her friend is a girl or guy.Friend is just friend,it's different with your boyfriend.You share different feeling with different friend,also including boyfiend.All you need to do is sharing more time and loving with your boyfriend.


wxo200345 (93)  9 months ago

in your comment you say "she never mind her friend is a girl ro guy",she certainly doesn't mind,but the key is what about her boyfriend? does he never mind aslo? could her boyfriend accept his girlfriend'close contact with other boy?


myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend  9 months ago

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2. myLot reputation of 79/100. Boofybutt (198)   ranked 4,970 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

Yes it's okay. All of my friends are guys, and all of my husband's friends are girls. We don't fight about our friends, it's not about who you talk to and hang out with, it's about who you go home too. (or whatever the case may be). It's mostly about trust, if you don't trust the person why are you with them in the first place?


myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend  9 months ago

yes. i agree with you its all about trust. thanks for your response. happy myLotting.

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3. myLot reputation of 86/100. Jakker27 (3910)   ranked 393 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

I think some people lack something between their ears.

Yes it's clearly ok for a girl to have whatever friends she wants* aslong as they're friends ...

Why not? people shouldn't be together if they cannot trust their partner - thus the quota is irrelevent - but most people try to mold people and go for image or whatever then liking someone for maybe the 'good' reasons.

It's not like they do it on purpose and things can change fast anyway. If she's commited to the relationship if a guy friend tries it on - he'll fail if it's a working relationship anyway

goodluck


myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend  9 months ago

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. pratyushtamhankar (526)   ranked 336 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

Of course its ok. But the only condition is that the guys should be good and respectful. You know what the bitter reality is that only boys can understand boys and only boys know what kind of person another boy is. A boyfriend is always worried about his girlfriend's company so he keeps a watch on her and if the guys who call themselves her friends aren't good people then boyfriend's do complain....
That's why, it ain't about a girl or a boy being a friend. Its about their social character, its about the person inside them that makes a friend...
I hope you understood my point...
This message is for all those girls whose partners tell them that a particular boy isn't good. Its for your own good...
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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3208)   ranked 489 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

I have almost always had more male friends than female friends. Little girls are friends with little girls because little boys are not "sugar, spice and everything nice." As we get older and mature we make friends based on our interests. My interests have always leaned more to business and sports and not nail polish and shopping.

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6. myLot reputation of 68/100. chimrani (792)   ranked 3,795 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

According to me its not ok and my Indian culture too restrict girls from making boyfriends. angry

yes she may have 1 but more than 2.No No no way
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myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend  9 months ago

i am referring to purely friendship, not relationship between a boy and girl. are indian girls prohibited to have friends that are boys when she has already a boyfriend? thanks for your response. happy mylotting!..

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. maezee (4214)   ranked 469 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

I don't see what's wrong with it. I have a lot of guy friends, and I just relate to them better. I don't think it should matter the gender of a girl's friends.


wxo200345 (93)  9 months ago

it is the differentiation between the cultures,i think . for example in indian culture the girls are forbided having friend who is a guy,of course,the exception of his young man. but in your society,people can accept the girl having common boy friend. you are so luck with livinging in such a open society.


myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend  9 months ago

thanks for your response. happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend  9 months ago


wxo200345, thanks for your response.. now i understand your culture more. happy mylotting!

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8. Soteira (68)   ranked 4,348 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

I do not see a problem with it. I have always had more guy friends than girl friends. I don't like to sit around and talk about make-up and clothes like most girls. I would rather be out playing or watching sports and joking with the guys. Most girls are all about drama and gossip so I would rather hang with the guys and have fun without all the stress.


myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend  9 months ago

same with me. i also do not like also the drama and gossiping that some girls do. thanks for your response. happy mylotting!

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. Jezebella (1310)   ranked 2,393 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

I think it is okay for a girl to have as many guy friends as she wants as long as her boyfriend knows that the only thing between them is friendship. If I have made a point to try and get more girl friends because I am incredibly close to my guy friends and I don;t want my man to feel weird about them,


myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend  9 months ago

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. sinokirin (506)   ranked 5,639 out of 12,334 in friend   9 months ago

I think it is okay.
You have the right to choose your friends, no matter they would be guys or girls, you can do your decision.
i have a lot of guy friends and less girl friends for i am a guy, i think it okay...
of course, there are many common talks among girls if you were a girl,and so does a guy..... happy


myLot reputation of 91/100. cuttyrish (2085)   ranked 3,657 out of 12,334 in friend  9 months ago

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