I dont like it when people say "I LOVE YOU"

Me too, i don't like people or a friend saying "i love you". I can count the people whom i spoke with this three words". I think they are only less than twenty and they are really the loved and love of my life. When using these 3 words you should be sincere and sincerity for me is "when you say the words you mean and mean the words you say".
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" I love you!!" This is not simply a sentence. This is the way to reflect the feelings of some one. This has lot of values. Every one could not use this for every one. This is gift of a heart. this appears out of a heart penetrates in to the heart for home it is used come from heart to tongue or lips of some one. If you are attractive for your friends they will naturally call " I love you" If some one tells that he or she loves some one he or she should also prove his or her statement. The saying person could also examined that was he or she true or not.

see my thing is i am very straight forward with everyone, and if it was me and i see her doing this or whatever i would say something to her about and how she makes you feel. the worst thing can happen is her getting mad at you.

I agree with you. For me, a person, be it your bestfriend, dont have to say these words. I think they'll express these if they appreciate something out from you, if they want to thank you for a thing done or favor done, and sometimes i love you is said just to kid you around. For me, though how globalized we are in this generation, I Love You is still a special and sacred word being utter by a person who dearly love you till the end of time.

well in that case i can say your never wrong,even i dont like a friend who btrays behind my back,those sort of friends are never to be trusted,and who knows what they will do in future as a friend.and you know sometimes some people mean what they say only thing is that to have a proper understanding,always keep cool in what you do sometimes it is best to let go of past and forgive for what they do..

I never used to say that I loved anyone. But then I had children and I tell them every night that I love them when I put them to bed. As for other people I have learned to say it, yet, it still seems strained and people that I say it to usually feel weird that I do say it. I would not say it often but sometimes I think it is nice to let people know that I do care cause I have lost people in life that I think I wish they knew that I did care but now I never have that chance.
I can count on my hands the amount of people I have said that I loved them and I have three children.

hey u r very bright .u know most of the ppl say it when they dont mean it .they just wnna show off or just wanna keep u happy .i got many frn like that too and some times i had to say t not tht i didnt loved my wife less but just to show her that i love her that much that i had to say it in front of others to show my love.but in any ways if it makes her happy ad contented i wouldnt mind repeating it many times a day.

We all have friends who only come to us when they have a problem and don;t really listen to what we say and do. I felt betrayed by a friend who was like this and then I just realize that is who she is and I don't share secrets with her and listen to her problems.

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HI, solemnsoul17

Personally you are right. I seriously think the same thing. you don't just go around
all the time telling people you love them. I think that this is a habit that some people start saying and cant stop. When you love someone you show it! It is not just
verbally expressed into words. I really don't think your friend is a friend. I mean everyone has people in their lives who say they love you and who do love you but you will find the ones that truely do love you don't wear these words out they are saved for special moments in time not repeatedly used constantly like a broken record.
and not only that but if she bad mouths her other friends to you then she really
doesn't care about them either. I have 2 best friends, one is a male and one is a female. I like to keep things simple. And i don't abuse the words I love you they are important words with a lot of meanings behind them. And i also notice they are not over used towards me by them that makes it genuine. Good Luck with your friend if it was me I would go with the friend you already have.

I can understand why you would be questioning her true feelings. After all if she is talking about the other friend behind her back who is to say that she is not doing the same thing to you.