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myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people 3 years ago

This just goes to show that any religion or faith can have it's bad apples.

http://www.denverpost.com/news/ci_12083195 and

http://coloradoindependen...


This 42 year old man thought he was hooking up with a 15 year old girl he had met on-line.

Jefferson County District Attorney Scott Storey touts the arrests, since 2005, of more than 235 adults for attempting to meet children and teens for sex.

How does it make you feel when you hear of a person who should be over all a good person, someone in the position of being looked up to, falling way down?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20643)   ranked 825 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

How does it make me feel?
Disgusted but NOT so much with those people who fall but with all the others who put them in the position they have and all those who only want to be part of the 'in' crowd and think that if you 'know' someone high up you're a better person! angry

Some of the best people I know are those that are humble and doing what would be considered as 'low-class' jobs but they are honest people, both in their deeds and in their thoughts. I know too many people who have a received a 'push' to get to the postion theyare holding now and that makes them false.

I was reading elsewhere here on the Lot today of people being concerned because our privacy is being gradually taken away by the powere that be and 'Big Brother' type of actions. If we have nothing to hide and have never done or thought anything wrong them we have nothing to fear. There are way too many people who are holding inportant positions and are worse than a lot of the criminals who are alredy inside.

Maybe I went a bit off-toic but it seemed appropriate. There are too many people in which we put our complete trust JUST because they hold a certain position but they are SCOUNDRELS deceiting us! angry

Never in any age was the saying 'The cowl doesn't make the monk' more apt!


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

thumbup You once told me you didn't get into thinking type of discussions because you weren't good at it. I told you then and I'm reminding you now... you're wrong. You have a lot to add and in the case above you proved yourself wise.

You are so very right and I don't think off topic at all.

If you talk to those deep in politics they will tell you all about the people who have sins that would knock them down faster then a pin drop if it was known. But up there they sit.

And you are also right about there being the best of class in the lowest class. Hard working moral people. People forget that there would be no rich with out the poor. They look down with out ever seeing the good people. Sad.

*Tips cap* Thank you for such a great response.


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20643)   ranked 825 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

blush Chimes I remember saying that to you but Ishould have made an exception I think. When Ireceived the notifier for this Ireacted on impulse because it sparked a nerve, the same thing that always makes my blood boiland in a nutshell is 'cheating'!

The person you mention was cheating on his fellows and cheating on society. He was cheating on those who had his complete trust! I was not brought up to cheat but sadly I see it all around in almost all walks of life. It is only the cheating that has caused the need for humans to be spied on by others. If there were no cheaters there would be a lot less distress caused too. Imagine the feelings of a person who discovers the evil actions of a person in which they had placed complete trust. It causes loss of faith in the entire humanity and alters the rest of the lives of the people concerned.

I get 'heated' when something like this is brought up hence I respond (and I make lots of typos too due to my wrath blush)


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

I'm not one to notice typos because I make enough of my own. I just read what I know is there. (Their, There, and They're LOL) So no worries there.

It does touch so many when some one higher up, messes up. I think when someone takes on a role that has people look up to them, they should try that much harder to do the right thing, live a good life, and walk a straighter line.

It's a respect, responsibility kind of thing. Make sense?

And when it is something as serious as this, it's that much harsher for those touched by it. Imagine if he had actually met a 15 year old somewhere. Sick.


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20643)   ranked 825 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

Sick, evil and depraved! angry
It is taking a huge advantage of the role they have been given too and so unfair (that is not the right word at all). Stealing to survive is one thing. Stealing trust from others to feed your own disgusting pervertions is worse than being an animal!

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. mechanicNOT62 (1590)   3 years ago

I know we're all sinners and all that, but I believe it's a terrible blow and an extremely bad example for the youth and for inmature Christians (for example) who think people like that should be perfect, and a great help for unbelievers, who like to classify the rest of us as hypocrites. I think it's especially serious with an organization such as Focus on the Family. I bet Dobson is flipping out, although he has remained fairly cool about things like this in the past. ANYBODY can fall.


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

Anybody can fall but I would hope that people who are in the spotlight, or in trusted spots would try to be above such things. I think that when you take on such a responsibility you should honor that. I know that doesn't happen (look at politics and other church or faith stories) but I wish it did.

I think it has had a major effect on the younger folks. When parents turn away they tend to take their kids with them. When harmed by an adult you run from their path.


myLot reputation of 86/100. mechanicNOT62 (1590)  3 years ago

I know... you're right on target as far as I'm concerned. Problem is finding the way to stay the course.
Why is it that has been said that "power corrupts" ?
Especially people with the charm to attract followers need to be careful and more humble than anyone else, but like they also say, "It's hard to be humble when you're wonderful."Gee, I'm glad I'm not wonderful!!! It's too much responsibility; like rich people that stand to lose so much!
AHA! It's in The Bible, isn't it? "Whom much is given, much will be required." I need to think about that...


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

Too bad more folks don't think about that.

Hugs my friend.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. tamarafireheart (13724)   ranked 4,540 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

Hi TLChimes,


Nothing shocks me these days, I just think a man like that can be so disgusting, I am lost for words, what I cannot not understand is why are kid allowed to have access to computers without their parents being there and why are kids doing that sort of things, if I was a 15 year old and I had someone like that at the other end, I would let my parents know and they could have report him. I am glad he got caught but what kind of punishment would he get? he should be locked for years.


Tamara


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

Sad isn't it, the nasty things people do to kids?

The punishment will not be enough!

I'm a mean mom and am over my kids shoulders but then... They know it and are ok with it.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. Pose123 (8270)   ranked 755 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 266 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

Sadly it does not surprise me much anymore! There are good and bad in all walks of life, all social and economic backgrounds and all faiths and cultures! I just wish it were easier to tell who to believe and who not to - would makelife much less upsetting don't you think? xxxx


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

I vote we start adding neon signs to the foreheads of people proven to be bad guys. That would make it easier.

It's sad that we can't just take peole as they come without having a small voice talking in the background about how careful we need to be because you never can tell.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 266 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

I second that proposal honey and just wish they were born with such a thing! HUgs xxx

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6. myLot reputation of 69/100. BlueGoblin (1914)   ranked 5,506 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

He could have turned to religion because he had urges he could not control.


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

True. But it didn't work. Does religion work for combating bad urges? I think that would be a good question to pose as a discussion. Thank you for a wonderful topic idea. I am interested in what others will say.

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. 1hopefulman (3142)   3 years ago

I am remimded of:

Matthew 7:15-20 (New International Version)

A Tree and Its Fruit
15"Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. 16By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? 17Likewise every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. 18A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. 19Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. 20Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them.

It's not what we preach that counts but what we do! The two go together! It's very discouraging and disappointing when we see people that should be good examples turn out to bad apples. It gives us all a bad name.


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1753)   ranked 1,412 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

"Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves"

Darn right! and we see this all the time. Sad that we can't trust people and they give good people bad names.


myLot reputation of 94/100. 1hopefulman (3142)  3 years ago

I've often been reminded that our example or conduct is the best sermon. So we must not only give a sermon but also live the sermon.

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