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Trensue (1236) ranked 360 out of 38,039 in life

8 months ago

Cancer patients often refer it is as the elephant in the room. It doesn't have to be cancer it is anything that we all know should be talked about, but we choose to try and ignore. Eventually is rips us apart. What is the elephant in your home that no one is talking about?

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cream97 (8287) ranked 813 out of 38,039 in life

8 months ago

Hi, Trensue! Well our elephant would be not talking about how to deal with people that hate on us. My husband likes to ignore what others may do to him. But, not me. This is a topic that I like to discuss. So, talking about how to deal with mean people that mistreat me is a topic that he wishes to not talk about. He does not care about what others think. I shouldn't either. glare

Trensue (1236) ranked 360 out of 38,039 in life	8 months ago
He must have a lot of self confidence to not really care what others think. I wish I had that kind of confidence! I find myself worrying about what other people think and sadly I find myself being mean to people who are mean to me! Since he doesn't want to talk about it you can always count on me to listen.

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bird123 (1130) ranked 9,755 out of 38,039 in life

8 months ago

If you look there is always one around. A bull in a china store.I am that bull. Yes, there are a lot of broken plates but no elephants to be found.What is the saying? Share your pain with me and by the sharing, ease the pain of it.Communication is key to all relationships. When this fails is when elephants start to show up.Remember, when truth is hidden or unspoken, they can think anything.I could never live with that.BE BRAVE! CHASE AWAY THE ELEPHANTS! Isn't the worst that could happen just be a little drama? Drama is just a thing. It should never be avoided. With it usually comes learning, growing, and change.

Trensue (1236) ranked 360 out of 38,039 in life	8 months ago
Thanks for all your thoughts. They are certainly appreciated. I go out of my way to avoid drama, I don't handle it well.

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