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myLot reputation of 95/100. marguicha (3595)   ranked 87 out of 19,384 in questions & answers9 months ago

if you find out your very best friend is not heterosexual and he/she didn´t tell you about it?
How would you feel? Would you respect his/her privacy? Would you stop being best friend?
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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. prinzcy (2166)   ranked 1,550 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   9 months ago

I will respect his/her choice. Personally, I don't care about her sexuality as long as it's not me that show in her mind. Beside, being a friend is about accepting who they are and support their choice. You can give advice but it's up to them to listen or not.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. sameroad (2653)   ranked 4,558 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   9 months ago

it wouldn't brother me at all but i'm lesbian lol
it wouldn't stop be from being friends with someone. sometimes its really hard to tell people because you don't know how and you don't want to lose them so you keep it from them. maybe give them a way to tell you or bring it up

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3. myLot reputation of 77/100. Dugsmom (220)   ranked 1,328 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   9 months ago

I would be understanding. Coming out of the closest is a scary thing and it takes some people time to build up the courage to confide in their family and friends.

I would definitely respect his/her privacy and I'd also let my friend know that I'm here if he/she needs to talk. It's always nice to have someone you can talk to, right?
I would never stop being a friend to someone because of their sexual orientation. It doesn't change who the person is.

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4. myLot reputation of 31/100. redhotpogo (1214)   ranked 3,355 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   9 months ago

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5. grid_runner22 (82)   9 months ago

there is nothing wrong with it as long as he/she does not invade your privacy as well... If you are not open minded I guess its time to let go of your friendship which can be sad

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6. myLot reputation of 73/100. abhichat1980 (225)   ranked 4,355 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   9 months ago

I would surely respect his or her feelings. For me the sexuality does not matter in anyway. And if my best friend had not told me about it before I may ask why he/she didn't tell me. I expect the reason can be that somebody can be uncomfortable telling it in the beginning times of a friendship so I would understand that as everybody of us has some reservations about certain things and we would not like to bring up the topic upfront. So okay for me if some one has a genuine reason for not stating something like this at the beginning. But if that is not the case and it was hidden purposefully that I would consider it to be a breach of trust and may rethink my relation with the concerned individual.

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