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How many times do you say "i love you" to your loved one everyday? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover9 months ago

Hey,my friends.
I know you all comes from all over the world. Some of the people say "i love you" quite offen, some don't. Take me for example, i am from China. We don't say " i love you " much. In the past 25 years, i never say "i love you" to my mom or to my dad. I mean we do love them from the bottom of my heart, but we just don't used to say it. Even to our lover, we can write or type i love you, but if say it face to face, we kinda feel embarrassing. I don't know why and how does this happen.
I saw the people on the movies, the parents say i love you to their kids, kids say i love you to their parents, lovers say i love you to each other every day. I envy them.
So, have you ever say ILOVEYOU to someone? How many times do you say iloveyou to your loved ones every day?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 74/100. denisedora (133)   ranked 460 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

well for starters i tell my kids i love them everyday before they go to school and every nite before they go to bed. I tell them i love them often and when they day they love me. I tell my fiance' and i tell eachother we love each other through out the day. One of my worst fears is that God forbid something happen to my loved ones and I did not get that last I love you in we should tell our family and friends we love them as much as possible daily.


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Hi Densiedora, so you really can't count how many times you say i love you in one day, right? You can say it as much as you can. That's very nice. God will always bless those good people.


myLot reputation of 74/100. denisedora (133)   ranked 460 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Not really but I do say "i love you " alot to my family and frienz. It's important for them to know they are loved sometimes just the one lil I love you will fix everything and make them realize they are not alone with all the stress of the world. I know when I am stressed and my family or friends say they love me it always make me feel better.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. bluangel628 (115)   ranked 25 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

I know it's kind of exaggerated but I say "i love you" in every chance I get. My partner also does the same thing. Every text message we sent to each other, two or three lines of that message contains two "i love you". I hope both of us won't change the way we are because I find it sweet and very touching.


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Hey, i felt touched when reading your message, it's so nice that you know someone loves you and you have someone to love to.

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3. myLot reputation of 87/100. donsky14 (2557)   ranked 287 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

I always say I love you to my boyfriend...every single day. I want him to feel loved through my actions and words. happy


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Wow...That's very sweet of you. i am sure he will feel your love deeply.

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. silverglint (1479)   ranked 1,106 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

I can totally relate to you, maybe that is because of the Chinese culture not to get too emotional,those there are some that I know who are sweet to their family members. I don't say "I Love you" to my parents either nor do they say the same to me. But my husband and I, we made it a point to be verbally expressive to our kids and to each other. Sometimes we still have to say the words as affirmation to the things we do for our loved ones. I say "I love you" to my husband and kids at least once a day.


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

May i ask if you are chinese? Because if you are chinese and you can say i love you to you husband and kids, that's a big progress, i am sure i will do that with my kids and my husbands in the future.

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5. myLot reputation of 73/100. abhichat1980 (225)   ranked 1,103 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

Well frankly speaking I have never kept a track of how many times I say I love you a day. But whenever I speak with my family these three magical words generally comes out quite impulsively at the end of the conversation. Ok let me give some background I live in a different city currently due to my job and my parents family they stay in another city ..... so I kind of miss them. They will be joining me after some time but today we are quite a distance apart ..... so I guess it's very natural to end the conversation with I Love You and Take care.


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Hi Abhichat1980,
Thanks for sharing with us. I know the feeling of being missing someone that is not in the city. I am working in one city, and my parents living in the other country. But it's still hard to say i love you or i miss you to them every time we talked on the phone. I just told them take good care of yourself, don't worry about me, stuff like that.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. icegermany (1580)   ranked 806 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

it is a good thought and observation, no even we dont tell í love you´regularly or frequently wheather it is a parent or a husband. it is very rare i tell i to my husband and even he but i dont think i have ever told it to my parents. i think it depends on the family people like in my family we dont do that we respect and also love our parents but we never tell i love you instead i think there are more oher ways to make them feel our love and affection towards them and caring. remembering and wishing their birthdays, surprising them, helping them when they are lonely and all will express this and they understand how much we car for them and i think it is not important to tell them i love you. each one have a different way to express their feelings but i love you is not common to us.


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Hello Icegermany,
I think you are very right. Although we don't say i love you, but we can show our love by actions. That's what most of poepl do in China i believe.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. wahmivy (540)   ranked 530 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

With my husband, at least three times (when he wakes up, when he leaves for work, and before going to sleep). With my daughter, innumerable times. Can't say it enough.


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Hi there, i think you love your daughter more than your husband! Just kidding, they are the same important to you. They are lucky to have a such good mother and good wife.


myLot reputation of 95/100. wahmivy (540)   ranked 530 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Thanks. I'll tell my husband more, but he's not here for the most part of the day. I always add it in my texts though.:)

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8. valerya89 (1)   ranked 1,101 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

Hi, i say I LOVE YOU lots of times a day! To my husband and my mother sometimes! So i'm a person who says that important phrase everyday of my life! Call me whatever you like, but i am just like that!
Cheers!


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Hi Valerya, i like that! I wish i can hear as much as possible i love you from my loved one.

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9. myLot reputation of 88/100. mimimeow (192)   ranked 35 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

I don't like saying that not to my bf nor to my parents. I hope they can feel it from my actions. I am just not used to saying those 3 words.

My bf always has to force and bibe to say these 3 words while I am trying everyway to avoid them:P


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Hi there. I think he would love to hear those 3 words from your mouth. Lots of people thought other people can feel those 3 words from their action. But sometimes words are more improtant than actions.


myLot reputation of 88/100. mimimeow (192)   ranked 35 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

But why?? why do people like to hear it said to them? For myself, I don't really care if someone says "I love you" or not to me. I need their heard not words.

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. mikeysmom (2000)   ranked 740 out of 3,605 in lover   9 months ago

i say it to my son several times per day and i hug and kiss him too as i believe human physical contact is so important to impart a feeling of well being and calm and security. it also shows love and nurturing and i think if more people showed their love instead of thinking they have to hold back it would be a better world. people, especially children need to know they are loved and they need to feel secure. i love you is nice to say and should be said but they are just words and how you treat a person is important too.


myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 47 out of 3,605 in lover  9 months ago

Hi Mikeysmom, i am 100% agree with you, with the hug and nice words, not only kids, even adults, they will feel they are important to someone and they are loved. That actually create the better world.

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