did you ever tear your ex's photos?

yes,i have ripped and thrown out all my exes photos!i felt a little better though but i had alot of bad experiences wwith him he was not a very good person and was very regretfull for staying with him for so long.i was happy to rid him of anything that would remind me of him

Nah, i never tear any of my ex's photos yet. I think i would just regret tearing it because sooner of later it will be over and i have moved on. So i need at least something to remember about my past and nothing beats a vivid photo of my former girlfriend right? It will be the last evidence of their existence, and i don't want it to be erased on my memory because they became a part of my life.

i know how sad and painful it is. i'm about to do the same thing myself, end a relationship of more than 3 years. i haven't told him yet, but it's already tearing me apart.

i'm not sure if i'd tear up his photos though. maybe i'd keep them somewhere so far and so deep i'd forget about them for some time.

coz tearing up photos wouldn't ease the pain, but the reminders will be less that's for sure. i've deleted some digital pictures from my computer and my fone... i guess that amounts to the same thing...

i am moving on... though i haven't told him yet that i'm leaving him. i'm gathering enough strength, enough to face him and not fall apart when we are faced with each other. i'll tell him when i'm good and ready, and it would be soon.

ending a relationship is never easy. as for me i'm buying some time to compose myself and be in control of the situation. coz i don't wanna be swayed again in staying in a relationship that is not moving forward.

i'm not crying, but sometimes i feel so miss her, i want to life back to that time. but life must go on and i must leave all memory i use it for my best teacher

I don't tear photos. It's just too much. I just would place it somewhere i can't see. Some psychologists believe that exposing yourself to people, places or events that caused you trauma could actually help relieve the pain faster. So instead of running away from them, face them with courage.

Yes I did and I think that's why I was able to move on. Being sorrounded with all the things he gave to me felt like I was still trapped cause I was so inlove with him.

I hate to do that, even it hurts me so much and perhaps pushing me to loneliness sometimes but I still keep my ex photo. I still love him but I understand situations between us and it somehow keep our memories. I'm moving on now and thier phtos are still intact.

NO...I didnt ever tear the photos of my ex...
YOu see when you begin a relationship... when you make a person enter so close into your heart how and why do you allow him or her to steal your heart?

It is maybe coz you like all the qualities they display as humans...all their personal traits and characteristics...

Then how do you ever hate them so much as to tear their memories...
One mus learn to compartmentalise his life.. see whatever happy moments you had together.. let it be as a toke and souvenior of that time...it was a gift...

Just because your exes now doesnt mean that you should act stupid in tearing off their pics..because i feel it hurts even more.. to see them finally go out of your life...

It is a universal truth that when someone is deceived or heart broken then that causes a lot of pain and depressions... but that should develop u as a stronger person... not a weakling who tries to get rid of his past.. just to stop feeling lonely...which he or her is already!

I havent ever and will not ever tear the pics of my ex!

I have so many failed relationships in the past. To tell you honestly, I always tear the photos of my ex-boyfriend. It makes me feel good and to easily moved on with my life. Psychologists claimed that if you are angry with someone and you can't hurt that person, tearing his/her photos is the good way to release your anger. My past relationships are already history and I am currently happy with my bf now.

Qiao, i know how you felt. I did not tear the photos, i actually burned them, i put all the letters, photos into fire, and i thought that's the sign of ending, but the ture is i still can't forget him! And i start felt regret that i burned all the photos. 2 years later, now, i still think of him sometimes, but the feeling is not painful anymore, all you remmeber is the beautiful memories that i have with him. I think you can come over this time as me. Just hand on there and be strong!