who stresses you most? and why?
By bhabytart
@bhabytart (1116)
Philippines
May 6, 2009 2:20am CST
hard..... question isnt it? a lot of things around us makes us stress..... when you cant find your things.... your bf or gf is late for your date.... your parents wont let you go out.... somebody bullying you... sigh..... is it your parents? friends? staff? boss? or yourself? why?
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9 responses
@roxancuacoy (441)
• Philippines
6 May 09
Honestly, my relatives stresses me most. They sometimes ask you something and if you don't they will back fight at you. I really think now they are not capable to be called 'relatives'per se. They are just somebody, I know it sometimes sound selfish but it hurts and stresses me more.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
6 May 09
thank you for the comment.... yes relatives sometimes stresses us...
@j00nior (182)
• Canada
6 May 09
My relatives stress me out too! Mostly at family gatherings, I'm so agitated and weird, awkward and sometimes I just go silent because I don't know what to talk about with some people and where the boundaries lie with them. What can I talk about and what can't I. Also my immediate family stresses me out, that's why I opted to live away from home rather than getting a car when I moved out last year.
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
11 May 09
My mother in law stresses me the most out of anyone and anything. I feel like I can not do anything right in her eyes and as if she is always second guessing all of my parenting decisions. I know that I am the one that gives hre this kind of power but I am so done with it. I have started standing up to her and letting her know that this is my house and I am going to do things my way.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
11 May 09
wow.... your mother-in-law stresses you.... maybe you should answer one of my topic... its.... MOTHER-IN-LAW OF MONSTER-IN-LAW.... thank you for the comment.... and sorry for the late response...
@Ozarkgirl (774)
• United States
6 May 09
I can honestly say that no one stress me out, the only thing that stesses me out is situational things such as bills, or when I or someone else is sick.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
6 May 09
you have a lot of stress tolerance..... thank you for the comment...
@aikhong (661)
• Malaysia
6 May 09
This is not a hard question for me,haha. The first person appeared in my list is my manager! I think he's the one who stressed me the most, in my life so far. Although he's not really that strict and demanding, but i'm always 'encouraged' to perform and do everything to the level he wants, else i'll be able to predict my performance rating at the end of year. You get what i mean,lol.
By the way, i've no stress from my family, relatives or friends.Everyone around me is nice. :)
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
6 May 09
i know what you mean..... hahaha.... managers...... thank you for the comment...
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
11 May 09
Me...hmmm well, I think what stresses me out is the work I am doing, sometimes I have nothing to do and just sit around but then when they need me, and have to complete a deadline at that same day or better yet that week, it really really stresses me that up to the point I wanna give up and quit work, but I then I manage to pull myself together and finish what should I be doing and then I can breathe. I hate stress as much as other people but it is always present. It's just the way how one should handle about it that depends if you will go crazy or not. Hehe
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
11 May 09
thank you for the comment and sorry for the late response....
@eshaan (6188)
• India
6 May 09
for me its my forex trading, if i have taken a deal and its going against my expectation, then i am out of this world, i want myself to be all alone and even a bit louder voice of my kids appear to be screams to me, i have many calculations going on in my mind till i have closed that deal and if i can make profit in such deal.....sigh....i feel like i have climbed mount everest !!!

@astrosoccergirl (71)
• United States
6 May 09
I definitely have to say my family is a huge source of stress for me, but also school, work, and deadlines in general. At the moment, a good portion of my stress also comes from the unknown, particularly revolving around what I'm going to be doing for the summer, where I'm going to be living and working, etc.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
6 May 09
i hope that stress will not turn into a gap between you and your family....thank your for the comment..
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
21 Sep 10
Well for me its different pollution and dust always set me off and i feel to clean my home and things from dust.









