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Why can't I say thank you in my lot?? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1420)   ranked 1,168 out of 32,833 in mylot.com9 months ago

I was reading the my lot guidelines and I did not know that I'm not allowed to say thank you at the end of my posts and discussions. I figured this was probably why my earnings have been decreasing lately as most of the time I put thank you at the end of my posts.

I find that very odd as I always say thank you everytime somebody does something for me. Now I dont expect to be paid to say thank you as indicated in the guideline, but I dont understand why we are not allowed to say thank you. Where I come from thank you is a form of gratitude, politness and appreciation.

Could somebosy be so kind to explain to me why we are not allowed to do so?...

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 31/100. redhotpogo (1246)   ranked 8,081 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

who said you can't say thankyou? i don't believe that for a second.


myLot reputation of 95/100. BlueAngelRS (585)   ranked 6,131 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

It says in the mylot guidlines!


myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1420)   ranked 1,168 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I know I didnt believe it too when I read it. I had to read it three times to make sure I wasnt loosing my mind..


myLot reputation of 75/100. mike1976 (1100)   ranked 1,790 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

You are right. You aren't just supposed to post thanks for responses. You can comment and then add thanks at the end but it must be a worthwhile comment.


myLot reputation of 31/100. redhotpogo (1246)   ranked 8,081 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

sooo many ridiculous rules.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

depends which side of the fence you're on I guess wink


myLot reputation of 31/100. redhotpogo (1246)   ranked 8,081 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

i suppose. but then as a internet marketer myself, not seeing the point in some of them. but maybe they're new to it, and learning. they'll figure it out.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

New? Who? MyLot or the users?
MyLot is here since 2004 thumbup


myLot reputation of 31/100. redhotpogo (1246)   ranked 8,081 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

mylot management. wow 2004, and still making those mistakes. guess they're not going to learn. eh as long as they can keep the money coming in its all good. luck is on their side.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Eheheh it's not them making the mistakes. They are doing a fine job and still paying after all this time too! thumbup


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

rasp


myLot reputation of 97/100. GardenGerty (20657)   ranked 264 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

The person or admin who pays the poster is entitled to make the rules. If you dislike them, start your own paying site.


lilsexythang909 (3)  9 months ago

where do u find the mylot guidelines at? im still new at this.. and how much do u normally get paid per participation message and everything else? cuz i participated 1 time and i got 1 cent for it..is my lot really that tight with money???


myLot reputation of 75/100. mike1976 (1100)   ranked 1,790 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

http://www.mylot.com/o/guidelines.aspx

Its
not a paid to post site.

You don't get a set ammount per discussion/response/comment etc.

Its based on things like the quality of your post.

It's probably best for you to look at the above link to the mylot guidelines.

'Post anything that inaccurately explains the myLot earnings algorithm. Our myLot mathematicians have worked long and hard on our elaborate payment system and we wouldn’t want any of our users to make them feel inadequate by breaking their algorithm in minutes'.

If members post replies trying to explain how much you are paid per post then they're probably wrong and they are definitely breaking the rule above.

This site won't make you rich but its one of the best around and it's good to have discussions with people you can learn from and get paid into the bargain thumbup


myLot reputation of 75/100. mike1976 (1100)   ranked 1,790 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I missed the DON'T out of the guidelines quote. DON'T post anything that inaccurately explains the mylot earning algorithm!!!! Sorry sleep


myLot reputation of 31/100. redhotpogo (1246)   ranked 8,081 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

It is a paid to post site though. Pay is based on participation. And posting is how you participate. Need to correct that or people will be confused on how exactly they earn on here. You get paid to post.


myLot reputation of 75/100. mike1976 (1100)   ranked 1,790 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  8 months ago

The problem is that it isn't really a pay per post site as such. Generally a pay per post site will have a specific ammount that is paid per post. Mylot may pay nothing whatsoever for a post if it isn't up to scratch. If you posted 1000 2 line responses I doubt if you would be paid very much,if anything,perpost. If you wrote 1000 quality responses then I expect you would be paid quite well.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. BlueAngelRS (585)   ranked 6,131 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

I have no clue why we are not allowed to say thank-you either...I can't help you with that one...I do however agree with you that it's a form of gratitude and appreciation to the other person for helping you! I say it too...The only thing I suggest is contacting mylot and asking I have thought of that myself...I'm just a curious!


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Does my response underneath make any sense about what it means?

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3. myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

That rule should be rephrased in my opinion as it is very misleading doh

it is not meant to tell us not to say 'thank you' but to inform us that only saying 'thank you' will earn us nothing. When we comment we can add something else and then say 'thank you' but not just 'thank you'.

MyLot is a discussion site so if you stop and think a minute about the discussions we have offline you will see the point. When you start a discussion you ask someone their opinion and they give you it and you say something back to them depending on what they said. If it is a discussion you were having with them and not just asking them a simple question (which myLot is not about) then you would not say 'thank you' at all. Does that make sense?


myLot reputation of 31/100. redhotpogo (1246)   ranked 8,081 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

ah there you go. i knew it sounded too odd to be true. they just want you to add more content to keep the thing going. get more views.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1420)   ranked 1,168 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Yes I agree that there are times that Thank you is not necessary here in my lot. I think they probably meant that saying thank you won't get you paid. Afterall i don't anybosy expects to be paid for saying thank you..


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I find that if you say it in your comment tothe responder it also sounds like you are not welcimg any further comments from them, as though it's the end of the conversation. By leaving it out your comment is open for further discussion and in that case you can add it on the next comment after they return and you comment back - or leave it out until you feel the responder has no more to say on the topic in question.


myLot reputation of 58/100. sulynsi (235)   ranked 5,935 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Helpful, as always.

This is a useful post, as I was wondering the same thing.

I think your explanation makes a lot of sense and I was doing that intuitively. But, being Canadian, we always punctuate everything with a "thank you" or "sorry"
lol

So we can go ahead and not be thankful, without fear of deletion? lol


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

... or you can say a whole lot more
and add it on at the end (whenever that is whistle)


myLot reputation of 83/100. onlinerep01 (419)   ranked 7,335 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Hello Mysdianait,
Now I want to take this time out and say thank you, for explaining this in a very imformative manner, this really makes good sence.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Pleased to know it was useful to you too onlinerep01 happy

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. Sandra1952 (1860)   ranked 56 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

I think it's probably to encourage people to write quality posts without padding. That's the only reason I can think of. I agree it may sound strange, but think of it this way. Your posts on Mylot are mini articles. If you wrote an article for a newspaper or a website you would not say 'thank you' at the end, would you? It would be unprofessional. That's my take on it anyway, though I may be wrong. It's a good point to raise, because not only are you clarifying things in your own mind, you're helping others to write better posts.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1420)   ranked 1,168 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

true.. I didnt look at this from that angle but now it's beginning to make sense.

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5. karlanthonyedwards (68)   ranked 12,886 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

It just takes up room most of the time.

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. happythoughts (2139)   ranked 2,568 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

I had no idea that it said that at all. I guess they want quality posts and not just a few word answer or extra "filler" in our replys. I wish that Mylot would come on here and explain better or rephraze the guidelines.

Am I really not aloud to say thank you like I would in normal conversation?


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Of course you can - but add it on to something else too just like you would in normal conversaton. I find it very rare that I say just 'thank you' offline so it's just the same here. As long as it is not allby itself but with a few more words it's ok.

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. LadyMarissa (2768)   ranked 1,364 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

You may get a thousand different answers on this subject....all different. I've heard this said in a ton of different ways. In my personal opinion....and it is ONLY MY opinion!!! myLot is saying DON'T make a comment of just thank you to a response as you won't be paid for it. I'm convinced, if your comment is of any length & at the end you say thank you, then it is OK. I'm not a member of myLot's Admin so I could be wrong...but I'd bet a month's pay that I'm NOT!!! So, never make a comment of just thank you. Say what you need to say to make it a discussion & then, if you want to say thank you I think you will be safe!!! wub I find it rude not to thank people for helping me earn!!! cry


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Yes indeed! thumbup They are not telling us we have to be rude. It is a lot of common sense but maybe it's not so common now whistle


myLot reputation of 94/100. LadyMarissa (2768)   ranked 1,364 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

It seems like common sense to me!!! shocked However, I've been told by veteran lotters that I'm breaking the guidelines for saying thank you during my lengthy comment. confused Since myLot is looking for healthy, happy discussions, I just continued on my path figuring I'd be able to tell if I was wrong!!! I think that once we've acknowledged the response, it is perfectly polite to say thank you for your contribution!!! happy


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I agree that IS common sense and common courtesy. I too add it somewhere but not immediately or it could appear as though I no longer wish to comment further. Once the response-comment-response-comment is over then I add it with the last bit.


myLot reputation of 94/100. LadyMarissa (2768)   ranked 1,364 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I by no means say thank you to every response. I do try & make a comment to every response. Every now & then I come across one that thank you is the only comment that works. I chalk those up to collateral damage. If there is nothing i can think of to say but thank you, then I'll forgo the earnings & just say thank you. I try at ALL cost to come up with a comment, but some just make it impossible!!!

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8. myLot reputation of 79/100. user316 (396)   ranked 4,883 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

My friend got booted off of mylot for using the phrase thank you in her postings.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Wow did they actually tell your friend the reason?
I thought they didn't do that blink


myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1420)   ranked 1,168 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

wow are they that serious about that? I thought the worst punishment would be decreasing your earnings.. I'm sure your friend did something else.. cant be for not saying thank otherwise 99% of us my lotters would have booted out as well..


myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2979)   ranked 2,544 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I think your friend had to have done much more than that to get kicked off...plus, they DON'T tell you why you have been booted...they just do it.


myLot reputation of 75/100. mike1976 (1100)   ranked 1,790 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Saying thanks will result in losing earnings not getting banned. She may have been banned for repeatedly ignoring warnings about her posts and that is fair enough.


myLot reputation of 94/100. LadyMarissa (2768)   ranked 1,364 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

If saying thank you would get you booted off myLot, I'd have been gone a LONG TIME AGO!!! lol My understanding is they NEVER tell us why we've been booted. A few have been warned that if they didn't quit their abusive behavior, they could be booted, but most actually booted were NOT told why!!! cry

Plain & simple.... SHORT comments do NOT get paid.... thank you is a SHORT comment. A full & complete comment including thank you is permissible!!!


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

AMEN Lady! thumbup


myLot reputation of 97/100. GardenGerty (20657)   ranked 264 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I have said "Thank You" many times, and as you can see, I am still here. No one has warned me, or banned me. I agree that this guideline may need rephrasing for clarification.You are not to add just "Thank you" as a comment to a response. Mysdianit is frequently right on target with what she says.


bugsycleave (24)   ranked 23,471 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

It should be that short comments don't get paid, although thats why they have the + and - next to comments, no need to say thank you just click the +

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. Jennlk84 (2289)   ranked 1,277 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

We don't get paid for comments, we get paid for responses, so I'm not sure why it matters. I guess maybe they don't want the page getting flooded with a few words? If you want to say Thank You, I guess you have to expand on it and write a few sentences a long with it .


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

We get paid for ALL our activities including comments.


myLot reputation of 94/100. LadyMarissa (2768)   ranked 1,364 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

I promise you we get paid to make comments to responses....that's a vital part of the discussion!!! My highest paying day was when I commented to EVERY response to my discussion. Lengthy (quality) comments are worth MORE than only one or two words. So, becoming a chatty Cathy in myLot is a HUGE PLUS!!! w00t


myLot reputation of 79/100. mysdianait (12443)   ranked 2,519 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Ohhhh thank goodness you confirm that Lady! thumbup
It's the WHOLE point of a discussion
and it is practically all I do thumbuplol


myLot reputation of 97/100. GardenGerty (20657)   ranked 264 out of 32,833 in mylot.com  9 months ago

Because they do not up your post count for each comment it is easy to believe that you do not get paid for commenting. I did believe that, until I did an experiment or two and convinced myself. I now comment on all responses if I can. Once in awhile there are some that just leave me speechless.

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10. myLot reputation of 79/100. zzyw87 (732)   ranked 10,615 out of 32,833 in mylot.com   9 months ago

Is it really true that we cannot say thank you in mylot? I was shocked to hear that. I did not even know there is a rule like this until I saw this discussion. I agree with you; it is a bit unreasonable for mylot to decrease our earnings just because we want to thank someone for their good advice or opinion. Saying thank you has always been second nature to me because my parents raised me to always say thanks when someone did something nice for me.

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