Do you believe that man and woman can have pure friendship?

Yes I believe one can have a pure friendship between the two. Why are we still living in that same rusty thought of the old world where man and women could be friends and friends only was not acceptable. Why cant we accept the fact that yes they can have pure friends. Dont degrade love so much. If one knows a 100 people from the opposite gender, does that mean there will be 100 relationships. They can be just friends.

Yes, there are some who can maintain pure friendship with their relationship. One of my very best friend is a man. I am a lady. Our relationship is just pure friendship. He will tell me his secrets about women and everything. I will also tell him about my secrets. We can trust each other because if not we are doing blackmail if we will spread our secrets. He ask advise from me and I also ask advise from him. My feelings for him are only for friendship and the same way with him to me. He is now happily married and I am also happy with my boyfriend. Before his wedding, he even ask their wedding planner if it could be possible that his best man is lady. The planner just laugh. Until now, our friendship is still the same.

I do think that a man and a woman can have a true platonic friendship. Nothing more and nothing less. Not all things or friendships for this matter always have motives. Sometimes, one just really want to be a good and true friend to the other gender. I speak from personal experience. Since elementary, I have always been friends with this guy. He is my best friend even until now. We both have a purely platonic friendship. Actually, we always update each other on our love lives. Take note, he is a real guy. haha. I think your friend is a bit jaded. Sorry but true. My guy friend and I never thought to enter into a relationship. We actually both laughed so hard when someone asked if we ever thought of being boyfriend and girlfriend.

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I think it is hard to say and well debated matter. But i think it is possible to be just friends. May be self control is required for that.

If a man and a woman be a budy, there must have something connected them

Well of coure there is a connection....dont you have a connection to your friends? If not they why are you friends? What brought you together and kept each other in your lives/

I have numerous male friends and I cherish all those friendships BUT there is NO sexual connectino at all...they are like my brothers and I am like their little sister. We are friends THATS IT..

hello,wivianchen.
of course i believe man and woman can have pure friendship.because i have several woman friends all the time.i really likes them,but never think about love,or benefits or something else.i just like to play with them.talk with them,share feelling with them,when i have some ideas i will very will to tell them,so do they,the like to be together with me too.we all have our own girl friends or boy friends.we are pure friends.

I used to believe that. But when I consider one of my friends as a good friend. I feel he likes me. So, I think if you want to have pure friendship, don't let him misunderstand the friendship between you and him.

in this kind of world and time now i dont believe that maybe at the begging it cant happen but soon or later the felling will start and grow.

I believe in some ways that a man and a woman can sure have pure friendship. But I guess there is this so-called exception. Sometimes in a friendship with the opposite you either develop a feeling for that guy/girl or you could have been simply be buddies. Most of my guy friends disagree with this because most of them thinks that whenever they like someone,their first move would probably be seeking a connection with the girl first and that involves friendship. But some also like for example childhood friends, they tend to be friends up to when they grow up, while some has some kinda mutual connection one way. We can't really end a word by saying that, "We're only friends til the end" because as what we may know, we'll never know what will probably happen next or rather time is a bit unpredictable. Rather than concluding on plainly believing only in friendship, be at least open-minded on some issues above it. He's a guy and she's a girl.,opposite attracts and that's human nature.^^