What is the definition of a GOOD Boyfriend or Husband?

one that knows the woman is always in charge and does as he's told(?). just joking. i would say one that works, helps out around the house and isn't abusive.

The definition of a good husband is my boo. He puts God first and family second. He provides for the family and has many friends. Hes a hard dedicated worker and makes sure all the bills are paid. He listens and is compassionate.He doesnt cheat and understands a woman's perspective. Hes awesome and I wouldnt trade him for the world.

Don t exist a definition for a good man, as don t exist a definition for a woman.
A good man is man who you love and he love you. And if he love you never cheat on you, he is never abusive or he try to work for his family as you work too.
Is simple. as much he love you will be the best man for you.
Maybe i am a idealist, but i was in a marriage withaut love and all was like hell...so, for me if love exist all will be good for both.

A good man is someone you can depend on and someone you can trust. A good man is someone who feels that you are important and*wants* to do his part to make life enjoyable for the both of you. A good man is not selfish, he's willing to work hard (if necessary) to help support the household and he does NOT abuse anyone in any way, either directly or indirectly by his behavior. An alcoholic who is good to the kids is still a bad father because he is setting a bad example and letting a treatable illness scar them. My ex is an alcoholic so I do know what I'm talking about here and your friend is going to find life pretty hard in the future as her man continues to lose control to his addiction. A good man is dedicated to his partner and his family. A good man has his priorities straight and his family comes first.

Did I mention that I'm married to such a man?

I think a good boyfriend or husband stands by you and your children and wants to support them. He loves you in action and words. He dosen't cheat, abuse, and helps you as much as he can and helps you with your children. Bad habits can make a relationship suffer and only the person who is with them has to decide what is best for them and their children. a committed man or boyfriend is one I think is good. as well. Also, he loves you just for who you are, not what he wants you to be. I wish you and your children the best.

I think that my husband is a great husband.

he would do anything for me and our children. He goes out of his way to make sure I am happy. He moved me from Chicago to Atlanta just because I wanted to be closer to family. He provides for our family and I do not have to work. He works hard all day long and still when he gets home he has time for me and the children.

He give our kids a bath and does bed time routine every night.

He goes out of the way for me, he is a provider, a good father and a great listener. he is my everything.

how did I get so lucky.




If you think you are with a bad man and want to make a change they you have to make that change you have to have a talk with him and let him know what he is not providing for you and what he can do to fix it.

Good luck..

I agree whith you what you said,I sympathize with your experience.

I believe that man is the main supporter of the family. I mean he must has a steady job or business that can be used to feed his family.

It's ok for him to be between jobs and stay home to help around the house, but not for a long time, because his main responsibility is to provide foods on the table.

As a mother, I think it's you who should spend more time in the house to take care of your children. Because the children's mental health is really depending on the education that their mother gives them at home.

So tell your man to get a job and keep it for a long time. Be straight forward, this is for the sake of your future.

He is not a bad man, he's just need extra motivation to fight for his future, you, and your children. So be supportive to him always.

I think he should have faith in God, good provider
and loves me and my children and family.

In my opinion, a good boyfriend or husband is a man who always treats you with respect. He will always consider your needs in making decisions regarding everything from the house to the children to his career. A man who respects you will not abuse you or your children, he will help out around the house, fulfill his financial obligations, and will not cheat on you.