She's meant to be gay

First of all she is bisexual, even if she didn't know it at first. And as far as being a friend and waiting for him to hurt her that isn't right. Just hope it works out and if it doesn't then comfort her. Don't say anything along the lines of "I knew it" because there are only two out comes from that statement. Either, "Why didn't say something" or "Gee, thanks I'm glad you had faith in us working out as a couple."

oh gosh this is a very very awkward situation for you.i think that you should handle your friend with care. now you can just wait for the time when she will be betrayed with that man, but now at least she is straight, now when she is broken heart you can push her to be with mens and improve her . who knows finally she can get a good man for her.

i think she didn't know that she was a bisexual. anyways you have previously told her about what a scum bag this guy was just remind her and tell her to be careful. reassure her that you're happy for her being with him. make sure that she knows what she's getting in to and always reassure her that if anything is wrong she can come to you for help. let her know that you will be there for her no matter what and if she needs help just to call. good luck and god bless. i think you're a truly nice friend. cheers mate.

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Oh~ I think you can do nothing to help her realize her situation.
Because she know what you said to her but don't really understand it.
something could be found only by herself.
I think she is very luky for having a friend like you!

At least feel happy that she realized the woman in her.Let us hope for the best to happen in the life of the couple.Why should not they make a good pair apart from all his bad habits?Let love rule their hearts and help them come out successful.Cheers!

She must be bi-sexual which I really know little about. As for how you are going to be when and if this guy hurts her....you need to syke yourself into just being a good friend and a shoulder for her if that time comes.

I think she is likes both men and women. I have a friend like that and her marriage is an open one. It works from some relationships. I think this relationshipt that your friends as is still young. It isn't like she went into this blind, you told her what he was like. If there is a falling out with them, then it was still her choice to see what would come of it. You, as a friend, warned her.

If something happens, don't let it be an 'I told you so' situation. If she gets hurt then all you can do is be there for her. That's what a friend does. You don't always have to approve or like her actions/relationships, but that doesn't mean you still can't be there if something bad happens to her.

Actually she is Bi if she is with both sexes. About the only thing you can do is stand by and hope that it works out. She has to make her own decisions no matter what you may think or know about him. If you say something she might get mad and say something along the lines of, it is her life .. blah blah blah.

If he does hurt her console her and just be there for her.

It may be hard to watch but its her life and her decision... Just be there for her when it happens. She has to learn for herself too...