I got rejected by her mom:(

Thanks for wishing me luck my friend I need that. Well You are right though, for now I just let it pass and go on with the relationship even knowing I can't never have her.

Hi modstar,
Thanks for the encouraging words you have. And yes I will never give up on her for I love her so much and I know she loves me too. I didn't stress her out though to fight for what we have and let her decide what is good for her future. Maybe someday fate would somehow lead us to be together.
And for your question, my parent is rich but I am still on the verge of making my dreams come true. We came from a different country, different religion, and many more... but this doesnt stop me from loving her. Not now that I finally found her.

I used to have a girlfriend with a different religion and i fought for her. I succeeded though we broke up but not because of our difference. There was a third party involved on her side so i should really leave her. There's always a way, you can marry through civil wedding. That's not bad right? I think you just have to make a good impression to her mom. Convince her that you are worthy of her daughter. I'm curious, how old is your girlfriend? Because if she's the same age as you then i guess you're lucky because she would rather spend her lifetime with you than to spend her lifetime with noone. lol!

Well first we really are not yet planning on getting married anytime soon my friend. We just let her mother know about this so she would know at the beginning that my intentions are clear for her daughter. I havent prove my self worth yet to her parents but they shot me down just like that. Would my present status really matter why cant they give me just a few more time to prove that I am worthy to be with their daughter.. She is only 24 and I 30 so its still to early for us to be together right.

hahaha The thing my friend is that her mom hasnt seen me yet. doesnt know me personally, her decision to let her mom know about us was good for me so she would know what my intentions are. But how can she actually say I am not worthy while in fact she doesnt know what my capabilities are. I even dont let my mom decide what is good for me. I decide what is right coz it is my life. Cant she take decisions for herself?Well bro thanks for the advice, I am never pessimistic about this small glitch in our relationship though .... I just got rejected recently what lies ahead is yet to be seen.....

It just proves to me that this Mum will never think someone is good enough for her "baby". And the daughter is still too immature to stand on her own two feet and make her own decisions.

If your girlfriend truly loved you, she would be convincing her Mama thet you are Mr Wonderful any way she can...but she chooses to stay with her mother even though her mother is judging you without meeting you...so unfair.

I'm so sorry, but this mother has put you in a NO WIN situation...your lady had to choose...you or her mother and she did not choose you.

My friend if only I am near her but we are miles apart... how can I do this. I know theres no excuse even distance could not tear us apart but convincing her mom would somehow be difficult for me for now. I really have to talk to her. And that is so far the right thing for me to do as of now.

Well first of I didn't told her mom yet that I am asking her daughters hand in marriage, we only told her that we have a relationship, but as we know parent do think in advance so thats why she reacted in advance as well. I havent set my best foot out front yet and have been moved backward already. I didnt let her choose between me and her mom for I love her so much who she love I also love who she respect i also respect. my friend thank you for your concern on me but this is what they call life full of challenges.... It would all depend now on how we take all this challenges right....

We both feel the same way for each other but I guess mine is stronger enough to hole us both till one of us want to let go. Yes you are right my friend if He is willing anything is possible.

First of thank you my friend. Well I am really not sure why she say all this I mean her mom. First we have different religion next I am older than her and next my family is rich and I am not meaning I still am half way to reaching my goals in life. This so far is what she know of me.But the thing my friend is she is letting her mom decide for herself....that I have no hold of... yeah more patience is needed in deed. thanks for the luck

Hmmm, no wonder. I see there. So the most bugging thing of all is the difference of religion. I think that's what her mom thinks, though I'm not sure what her real thoughts are. You are very much welcome. Don't worry, if there is fate for both of you, I'm sure things will work out. Though I know it's more easier said than done and you are the one feeling the pain. Sorry, buddy. I wish that things could work out for you. If this one fails, perhaps one day you'll get someone that loves you totally and will always spend her time with you. Take care.

No need to be sorry my friend, a person who love always ends up the winner, I always say this to myself for no one ever looses if you share your love to a person even if that person wont be mine. I consider myself still lucky even if I wont have her for in this lifetime rarely do you find true and lasting love but luckier are those who are married to them. Take care too my friend

Not only are you a person with a good heart, you are also honorable to say that. Suddenly I remember the saying, 'If you love someone truly, you would let that person go'. The meaning is vivid now. Thanks buddy, and to you too..time will heal you.

not a change of heart my friend but i think she needs more courage to fight for what we have, thats what she need. But this I am not forcing, she has to give in totaly not by force. I never asked anything in my life not even if when I needed anything badly I never ask God for anything but this time I am begging him to give me the only person that I ever love. I never had been selfish in my life before but just this once I am asking him to give her to me.
But as I grow old i found love in a different way I love her enough to st her free ....some say fight for it but I rather not force fate to be on my side now.....The hardest part of it all is still loving her but she telling me to find another person to love....this is my second love but for me the best love I ever have. i dont believe in first love never dies I think it's the second love that is lasting

if you must... then love her and wait until she comes to terms with the situation. let her know you'll wait. but also let her know that while you wait, she's free... that you both are. and that you respect her decision. but it won't stop you in finding ways to recapture that love again, and be accepted by her family for what you are. let her realize you'll do what you can to fight for your love but that you are also willing to let go of that love if it would make her happy.

for now, just give her the space. if she is for you... she'll come back to you.

I dont thinks it's the religion coz my gf told me its not it but the I think it s the status in life. For now I cant prove anything yet but if she can wait then I know I will be there. I think what she means about I only know how to love is mear feelings cant make a relationship work..it needs more. But what she does not know is because of this love it can move mountains anything is possible I guess.