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Do you have the right to interfere on your bestfriends life? email this discussion to a friend?

christian1 (75)   ranked 1,956 out of 19,384 in questions & answers8 months ago

My bestfriend is the one i trusted most.sharing secrets,laughters,and sorrows.and shes the first one i asked whatever i need an opinion.and what she says most of the time are considered.but in terms of personal life,do we have the right to interfere for her betterment but you have to risk the friendship?to be clear,i dont like her boyfriend for her because i proved hes fooling her but i dont want her to be hurt and keep away from me.

 
 
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moujha (79) response was accepted on 5/11/2009.
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tags:  friends, bestfriend, interfere, best friends, life
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. Oceanblueeyes (795)   ranked 375 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

As a friend, I think it is okay to offer our opinions and thoughts about our friend's life but I don't believe we should interfere to the point that the friendship is jeopardized. It is not up to us to make choices for our friends, it is up to us to be there for them if their choices turn out to be the wrong ones. Have a great day and happy mylotting.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. tuyakiki (1330)   ranked 13 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

I agree with you in this regard.If he or she is my best friend,then I will feel really bad if something worse happened with him or her. But we might not have the right to interfere in his or her private life,but that is not everything..If the person is somebody,whom I consider as my best friend then it is my duty to pull him or her back from doing something,which is not right.In this regard,I personally feel,that I would have not cared about our friendship. If it worsen up our relationship,they I will have to move with it. I think,at some point of time in the future,with a very prudent mind,my best friend will obviously understand,what I have done for her betterment.

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3. nidz_16 (55)   ranked 5,965 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

If she is your best friend then she will surely understand.whenever you needed her she was always there for you,now its your turn....Are u 100% sure that her boyfriend is fooling her?? if you are not very sure then dont tell her,if u are sure then u should tell for her betterment...take a chance and tell her the fact,if she is blindly in love with that guy then she will feel bad or even scream at you....but you should be polite and nice.dont worry..everything will be fine...All d Best!

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. dlr297 (2794)   ranked 1,070 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

Being best friends you would think that you could give your opinion and leave it at that..You have to think if you would want to be told that your boyfriend was fooling around on you, or would you want to be left in the dark. Because it could go either way she could get mad at you if she finds out that you knew and did not say anything.

You are in a bad spot, it is a hard thing to be put in the middle like that.

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. syankee525 (3489)   ranked 447 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

my best freinds yeah i got a few. but one thing we all can agree on if we go out and do something totally stuipd we will tell each other that was dumb. one thing i can say about us we're honest with each other.
but if they decide to do something we might tell one another what we think. one way our freindship is built on is being honest and straight forward about everything

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6. pinoymelancholy (93)   ranked 10,532 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

no you have no right to interfere with anybody's life so long as it does not interfere with yours, you can give advices but never ever get in their way

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7. newmind_in (94)   ranked 2,582 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

see its not about interfering your friends life .. you can just see it as an advice. You are her friend, you know whats wrong for her and whats right .
If you think that you can save her from getting hurt go ahead and make her understand your point .. just down command her . just tell her what you think and why? and whats right for her .
i hope she will understand you and all will end well

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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. bonbon664 (2304)   ranked 3,062 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

I would express your concerns to her, and it's up to her how she wants to use the information.

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9. myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1341)   ranked 1,530 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

i think as a friend we have the right to offer our opinion, give advice and tell them when we disapprove of something.

i dont feel that we have the right to interfere, as the saying goes "you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink".

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10. myLot reputation of 75/100. PinkyPosh (165)   ranked 6,790 out of 19,384 in questions & answers   8 months ago

according to me.... the answer is No...

How much closer a freind can be... but when it comes to personal life... I think it will not be right to interfere.

May be a note of suggestion when asked or a piece of advice can be given when the friends life going out of track.

But unless there is a definte need of interference in one's life... I feel that have one step back is good for everyone.

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