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What is the one thing you miss when being single? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single8 months ago

When i was single I miss sometimes the life of a couple and now I am in a couple I wonder what other singles may be missing? So what is the one thing you miss when you are single?

 
 
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1. shira0524 (80)   ranked 336 out of 790 in single   8 months ago

I have been single for close to 5 years now. I'm very sad about it, too. I miss most the affection that two people who love each other have. Cuddling and just how that feels. I've been very depressed being single, and I have a hard time meeting people, and then feeling comfortable with them, so being alone has been very depressing for me.


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

Hello there! Why don't you find someone to full that space? I think you deserve one to be with you, someone on whom you can trust and count upon, I am sure you will find that person very soon.;-)


shira0524 (80)   ranked 336 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

I would like to. But I have a hard time meeting people. I'm very shy, and I know that I can be a bit difficult to get along with, so that has made it hard for me to meet people for romantic relationships. I would really like to meet someone, though.:(


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

Maybe all you need is to place back the confidence in yourself and maybe then you will feel ever ready to meet new faces in your life,you are not confident then you will wind up being very shy, so dear friend stand up, have confidence in yourself, trust your capabilities and move ahead in life.

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. Oceanblueeyes (795)   8 months ago

I have been single for over a year now and for the most part I am content. I came out of a very bad relationship so I am overly cautious now. My friends are very important to me and fill most of the voids in my life but sometimes I just want someone to take me in their arms, cuddle me and make me feel like a woman. I sometimes wish I had someone to wake up to but for now I choose to be single. Have a great day and happy mylotting.


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

I think you need more time then to be able to feel better and hence to meet other person and I wish you find someone who is just made for you. I can understand how much you can miss someone to cuddle with as I have felt that too. But shortly after I left my ex I met the one who is with me right now. Sometimes you can see that even sad moments can be overturned by good ones. If I was still with my ex I would have never met the one right now. We are more friends than lovers and we are each other's best friend too. I wish you also good luck;-)

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (182)   8 months ago

Still i am single:-( and i miss the touch, the kiss of true love, i miss the hugs. i miss someone saying me "i love you" 3 times a day. but i am sure she is somewhere waiting for me.


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

Then why are you wasting your time here dear Deepak, you should be searching for her;-) And yeah you said 3 times I love you you means like three meals in a day?;-)


myLot reputation of 80/100. Deepak_Online (182)  8 months ago

actually not wasting time here. i am searching:-D Ya i want it 3 times in a day, nothing less than that will do:-) 1 in the morning when we just wake up. 2nd when i leave to college/office. 3rd when i return from office. and i will give her all the happiness possible in this world.truth..


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

And what you get more per day, will you refuse?;-)

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (15279)   ranked 647 out of 790 in single   8 months ago

I think it's the freedom. I could do whatever I liked when I was single. Even if I came home late, it didn't a matter. I could have more my personal time. I think probably this is the best thing when I was single.

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myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

So you mean you are not very free now after your marriage;-) Well to be honest then I heard the same comment from my dad too and I was laughing because he acted as if he is caged up.

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5. myLot reputation of 68/100. Maryam27 (296)   8 months ago

I guess freedom is something you are going to miss, to wake up when you want to and to sleep when you feel like sleeping. Marriage brings lots of responsibilities, you have to take care of your husband as well. His moods, his needs and wants. The kind of person I am, I always put him first. Do whatever he likes to do and just sit beside him and watch so I guess I'll miss being by myself. Meeting friends and cousins. Sitting on the computer most of the times:P


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

Yeah freedom, as the previous responder said, I also think the same way now, when I was single I was doing everything according to myself and now since I am not I feel I have to answer to someone.;-)

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6. ddbrayden59 (54)   ranked 756 out of 790 in single   8 months ago

I am single, and have been so since my husband passed away in October, 2001. I miss being part of a couple for the companionship, the love (if lucky enough to find it!), going to movies and dinner or even bowling. I miss sharing thoughts and feelings or not sharing anything at all except a comfortable silence while sitting on the couch watching a good movie or gazing into a roaring fire. There are many wonderful things about being part of a couple, but as we know, even the most loving couple needs time to themselves or the relationship gets stale. Don't forget the "me" time, too!


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

Yes I am in a relationship too and I find it good soemtimes though I have to admit that I still miss the time when I was not supposed to give some explanations,;-) but in every relationship we have to compromise now, Before I found it very hard to wake up in the morning and prepare breakfast but now I can wake up in time to prepare breakfast for both of us, I do household too so i quite enjoy in our couple,I wish you find someone to be love, it is important.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. 4pawsx4 (715)   ranked 3 out of 790 in single   8 months ago

what i miss being single? someone to cut my grass, otherwise, i'm perfectly content.


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

I am sure you will find someone else apart from you to cut the grass for you,;-)


myLot reputation of 99/100. 4pawsx4 (715)   ranked 3 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

yeah, i'm thinking about getting a goat! it wont talk back, find excuses to not cut the grass and is low maintenance! LOL!

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. chookie1971 (1530)   8 months ago

I have been in my current relationship for the last 15 years. I miss the times when you can just get up and do things just for yourself. You don't have to inform any one of what you are going to do. You don't have any arguements.

Like tonight, I wanted to play music, but my husband wanted to watch tv. I can't even remember when the last time I played music in the night. I told him that I wanted to listen to music.


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

Yeah you are right, I remember one day I wanted to read my book in my room on the bed and he was in the bed with the guitar then I came to remember the days when I was alone on bed and reading my favorite book alone, in complete silence.

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9. yetishen (5)   8 months ago

Single from Oct 2008,since almost one year has pasted,the most things i missing is where am i and where will go?
Eecept working hard there is no direction for my life.


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  8 months ago

I feel you need a break from work, you have been earning this for long I believe so give yourself a small break and go for a vacations, maybe there you will be able to get all the answers to your questions.


yetishen (5)  8 months ago

Thanks,agree with you,i plan to use annual leave on the first of Jun,and have a travel to seadide,hope this can help me find out the way.
Have a nice day!

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10. myLot reputation of 87/100. lampar (1855)   7 months ago

It is weird, i just do not have any "missing" feel from my single years, nothing is missing as hard as i can think of..... wink


myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 6 out of 790 in single  7 months ago

That is really cool from you seems like you had done everything you wanted and now you are just ready to tackle another stage after the bachelor's stage.

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