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To a lady,to find a good husband is imortant or have a good job is important?  email this discussion to a friend?

cindyliu0822 (6) 3 years ago

do you think to a laday, what is important in her life? yes we may say both the family and the job are important. but now i want ask, as a successful lady, which is more important? if she cannot do well both of these two things.
for me now a question, there is a good job where i can be exalted. but i must leave far from my hometown,my parents,my friends and... and the key is i haven't a boyfriend now. both my parents and my friend think that the important thing for me now is to find a good boyfriend. yes i know it is important for me for this age in China. but i won't like this, i want to be successful in my work, and in future i want to own my own business. is it wrong for a lady?

 

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tags:  husband, lady, both, boyfriend, fate
 
1. myLot reputation of 90/100. damojinghong (245)   3 years ago

dear cindyliu0822 this is also a very hard choice for me ,a man .We come from the same country ,so i understand you very clearly.Traditionally many parents hope their daughters can find a kind husband .they think this is the most important thing in their daughters' life.But it is all old views.
In the modern society more and more girls choose a good job and then get married.You can accept this job and find your half part in your working!


cindyliu0822 (6)  3 years ago

thanks very much! yes accept this job has been my decision. i am just afraid if i can find my half part in my future woring.

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2. myLot reputation of 54/100. fasyahime (612)   3 years ago

i will choose to find very good job than husband because you won't know how long the marriage will last!finding great job will guarantee me a better life and future!i care less about man or marriage! it's disgusting to even see myself bow to the man!i make my own decision and marriage will hold my own freedom because in my culture i have to ask my husband's permission if i decide to do something!i hate that kind of rule and that's why i will be single for the rest of my life!


cindyliu0822 (6)  3 years ago

very thanks for your suggestion,and i learn it now

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. myfb2009 (3278)   3 years ago

Now, we are in this modern era, where woman have equal rights to the same job as man. So, if your new job worth it, you can go and try it. About finding a good boyfriend, it may takes time and perhaps depends on a person's fate. Who knows, maybe you might find your future boyfriend in your new working area. We can't predict our own future. Wish you good luck..


cindyliu0822 (6)  3 years ago

thanks a lot,yes we can't predict our own future,so just live at present should be well for me.

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4. myLot reputation of 100/100. astonysh (4492)   3 years ago

I am prone to answer that both are equally important - if you want both. Slightly cynically (and realise that I am a man) I might add that finding a good job is not easy in the current market-place, and finding a good husband may be even more difficult!
If you already have a good job, then fine. Remember that a lot of women combine a successful professional life with a happy and successful marriage. In many parts of the world, women have emancipated to the point where being forced to stay home, while the husband is the bread-winner, is simply not the case any more.


cindyliu0822 (6)  3 years ago

hello,thanks for your answer,yeah as a perfect person for career and the family both are important, but my mean is if we cannot decide who will be my half in future what should we do? because to find a good BF who will be my future husband is sometime a big problem,not very easy.
My idea is:sine i cannot control my present personal life(means to find a good BF),i will pay more attention to my career.anyhow we should be successful at least in one aspect.

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