To a lady,to find a good husband is imortant or have a good job is important?

dear cindyliu0822 this is also a very hard choice for me,a man .We come from the same country,so i understand you very clearly.Traditionally many parents hope their daughters can find a kind husband .they think this is the most important thing in their daughters' life.But it is all old views.
In the modern society more and more girls choose a good job and then get married.You can accept this job and find your half part in your working!

i will choose to find very good job than husband because you won't know how long the marriage will last!finding great job will guarantee me a better life and future!i care less about man or marriage! it's disgusting to even see myself bow to the man!i make my own decision and marriage will hold my own freedom because in my culture i have to ask my husband's permission if i decide to do something!i hate that kind of rule and that's why i will be single for the rest of my life!

Now, we are in this modern era, where woman have equal rights to the same job as man. So, if your new job worth it, you can go and try it. About finding a good boyfriend, it may takes time and perhaps depends on a person's fate. Who knows, maybe you might find your future boyfriend in your new working area. We can't predict our own future. Wish you good luck..

I am prone to answer that both are equally important - if you want both. Slightly cynically (and realise that I am a man) I might add that finding a good job is not easy in the current market-place, and finding a good husband may be even more difficult!
If you already have a good job, then fine. Remember that a lot of women combine a successful professional life with a happy and successful marriage. In many parts of the world, women have emancipated to the point where being forced to stay home, while the husband is the bread-winner, is simply not the case any more.