Have you repaid all the love and money your parents gave you?  |
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I feel that my parents have done a lot for me for my education and upbringing until now that I am able to live on my own. I am now trying to repay them by taking care of them. When I think about how much they spent on me, I just hope that I am able to repay all of their kindness towards me.
How about you?Do you feel this way or do you think it's just what parents do?
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1. cbhomework (434) | 8 months ago | My parents did so much for me that I don't think that I can ever repay them. Then again, they don't want to be repaid (in terms of cash) but in terms of quality time. So, I try to visit them as often as I can, and stay for a chat in front of a cup of something with my mum for example. I also feel the need to help them out in what they want. My mum doesn't drive and my dad is unable to any more, so if they need to go somewhere, I take them there, especially when they can't take the bus.
So like you I repay with the simple things... Well if I had the money I would definitely repay them by buying a new house for them... but that's another story.
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | yes, my situation is just like yours. I definitely do not extra money to spend as I just started working so I do my best to help them with anything they would need help for because they spend a lot of time for me. I will definitely try to give back what they have given me.
Thanks for responding...^^
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| 2. ray_ripz (72) | 8 months ago | well for now, i would say that i am repaying the love my parents gave me.. but for the the money, i haven't.. i am still saving up my money for my wedding.. and my parents don't need money right now because they saved up enough money for their expenses..
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | Yes, it's the same case as me. I am trying to find more money and repaying my parents is one of the motivation I have.
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faisai (623) | 8 months ago | Don't be too concerned that you don't have the money to repay them. I mean if they do love you, they won't care at all. As long as you have visit them from time to time, talk with them and spend some time with them, they should be happy. For money, just give them within your ability is ok.
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | Yes, thanks for your advice, faisai. I dont worry too much. Just feel debted
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3. myl999 (381) | 8 months ago | My friend i am sorry to say it is impossible to repay what your parents have done for you.It can not be calculated so how you are going to repay something which can not be calculated.I think you are still unmarried or you are still not having children once you become parent to cuties you will feel the thing but yes you can do something not to hurt your parents,you can make them happy doing what they like,take care of them as much as possible..by the way the chicken is too cute...
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | Haha... the chicken is very cute... I do not think I can repay all but I do believe I will try my best to because I feel debted.^^
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4. faisai (623) | 8 months ago | No, I haven't repaid all. Nor do I think I will ever replay them all. Love is not a contract, where you pay something you get back something. Love is unconditional and not asking for return. When your parents are spending their lives (YES, it is not money, not love, but their lives) on you, they haven't thought of nor asked for any return. This is unconditional. If you ever wanna payback, you should do the same: Spend your life (YES, it is not money, not love, but your life, your whole life!) on them.
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | Hurmmm... Yes I agree. I just feel debted whenever I think of how much they supported me through the hard times and i wish I can do something as return.
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5. prinzcy (2166) | 8 months ago | There's no way I can repay all my parents' love, kindness and money that they spend on me. Even if I took all my lifetime to repay them, I'll never be able to completely do it. My father already passed away so I live with my mom. I give my mom money every month and take care of her when she's sick. I love her as much as I can and try my best to be a good daughter. That's all I can do to repay her. It's not as much as she gave me but I am still trying to pay back.
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faisai (623) | 8 months ago | Sorry to heat that your Dad is not here now but I am sure that he will be proud of having a daughter like you who treats your Mum so well. In my place, we have a native phrase translated like this: The tree want to stay still but the wind keeps blowing; The son want to serve the parents but they are already gone. I always remind myself that sooner or later they will be gone so I try my very best to serve them well, not to make them angry nor worry and so go. So, let's just work hard to do all we can.:)
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | I'm sorry to hear that yoo but rest assured that he is smiling from up above...Cheers...
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | I agree with you that we never could pay back all the money that is spent unless we are very successful. I think what i wanna do is grant their wishes and also be a good person so that they will be proud of me. Thanks for your response.
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7. janyen (368) | 8 months ago | i think their will be no amount of money to compare their love and the things they gave us from the time we were born in the world. continuous love and care to them is not enough to paved all their work they did for us! i think i just have to show them how i feel and do what is best for them till the last breathe i will take.
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | I agrre with you that we should make our affections towards them clear as we tend to hold our feelings back and take it for granted.
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | Yes, I agree that's it is not possible to accurately calculate it but I try my best to estimate how much they spend for me and make it a reminder how much they spent on me so that I will always be grateful.
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balasri (9488) | 8 months ago | We sure can pay them back many folds with our love and gratitude and by taking good care of them.
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9. constaanta (449) | 8 months ago | There is no chance to calculate a balance in true love. What you might do is, to be as good as possible a father/mother as well. In case you wouldn't be able to pay back your parents, the Lord will take care of any remaining debt.
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | Thank you for a very good answer. I believe in God as it calms me and make it easier for me to accept unexplainable things.
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10. angelbelle578 (737) | 8 months ago | I also think about those things. I want to pay back everything my parents have done to me. They sacrifices alot for me and even I gave them so much head ache they still give me what I need and want. I also want them to enjoy their retirement. Since all their life they worked for us. It now my turn to give them some luxury and life of leisure.
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koharukusumi (853) | 8 months ago | Thanks for the response. My parents have supported and believed in me through some rough patches in my life and now that I am able to live on my own I cant help but feel obliged to return them with whatever I have to give them.
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