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myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family8 months ago

i am going to attend a wedding this june and i am already thinking what is the best gift for my friends who are going to marry??suggestion anyone?

please??? i am out of idea right now

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. janiceines (628)   ranked 554 out of 3,965 in family   8 months ago

we usually give a red packet for a wedding couple, this is what they need and what they like to receive .


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

if you dont mind me asking what is a red packet?


myLot reputation of 90/100. janiceines (628)   ranked 554 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

i don't really know how to explain . it's for putting some money inside with a red packet (like a small envelop, but it must be in red colour - red colour mean lucky ), like chinese alway use it for chinese new year, can understand?


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

ah..yeah we call that ongpao!! hehehehe and we put money inside right? but how much do you put inside? lol


myLot reputation of 90/100. janiceines (628)   ranked 554 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

it's all depend on yourself, for me, i will see how close we are, most people will depend on where they held their wedding dinner .


myLot reputation of 88/100. HelloMickey (1096)   ranked 1,209 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

I gave the wedding couple the red pocket and a wedding gift if the couples are my friend.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. itsonlyndream (321)   8 months ago

You can buy a dining set or a coffee set if you want... and have it wrap. There are some stuffs are already affordable prices.. Just buy only for the needs of home and couples. Don't buy the useless stuffs. It will hurt your pocket. Hope it helps. Just let me know if you still want more suggestions.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

yes thank you, i just thought of champagne glasses, or a bottle of champagne? or wine? i do not know really hehe but thank you, i might brainstorm with my huby later

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. jammyt (2635)   ranked 1,251 out of 3,965 in family   8 months ago

When we got married, we realized nobody gave us much for the bedroom. Therefore, whenever we attend weddings, we give a pair of pillow... yes, pillows. Because nobody thinks of giving them. That way also, the couple remembers us for what we gave them. LOL!lol Sometimes, giving bedsheets and towels are also the best. thumbup These are the items that the couple end up buying most of the time and it would have been better if they got it as a gift. happy


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

yes, i observed that most of the time the gifts given are usually for the kitchen or decorations right? hmmm thanks that is an idea.. imagine wrapping a very big pillow!! it would be the biggest gift at the after wedding party!!!


myLot reputation of 88/100. HelloMickey (1096)   ranked 1,209 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

Yes, that's the great idea. I am still using the bedsheets and pillow cases which was my wedding gift from my mum's best friend. It is quite useful.

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4. myLot reputation of 86/100. ebook_freak (530)   ranked 492 out of 3,965 in family   8 months ago

I am not married nor have I individually selected a gift. But I have a plan for people who may get married and a case arises when I have to buy them a gift. Here are some suggestions from my part:
-expensive item off of their registry
You can just analyze your friends conditions and decide on it. Give them something they don't think they're actually going to get.

-A luxurious hotel room for their first night:
You are married right?blush So no explanations.

-A gift to stand the test of time:
What would make your friend say: Look at this dear, do you remeber- 'Jazel gave it for our marriage'whistle.

-Make their honeymoon extra sweet:
ticket for a tour, that's what I meant.Or just give them a camera or a resort ticket. Or just give them some money tucked inside a guidebook of the area. lol

-Money:
That's really dependent on their financial situation. The first thing a couple of thinks is 'investment for the future','for our baby', etc. Sometimes they may even have to repay the loans they took as a student! Only you know the answer.

I think this should solve your problem. Tell them the best regards from an ebook freak!
~~A.J.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

Wow that was something.. lol first, a hotel room for a night is a great idea...but, there is always a but lol... its expensive..my budget is a little low hahahaha and the couple have more than we do, so if i gave them something they may have it already....so... i just might them pillows? blushblush


myLot reputation of 86/100. ebook_freak (530)   ranked 492 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

And a very nice blanket too. Warm and cozy one. thumbup
That would always help.

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. juls146 (569)   8 months ago

1. Money – Yes it's true; while it may seem impersonal or uncreative, money is my number one recommended wedding gift. Most young couples are saving for something big – a house, a car, a piece of furniture, or are still paying back their student loans. Money may also help them have an extra-special honeymoon or let them order that extra photo for their album. While it's rude for a couple to ask for money, it is never rude to give cash. If you still want to give a personal wedding gift, combine the two: attach a check to a beautiful picture frame, a kitchen gadget, or a long letter detailing your wishes and advice for their marriage.
2. An expensive item off of their registry – Often the more-expensive items on a couple's registry are dream wedding gifts that they don't think they're actually going to get. Whether you're wealthy enough to buy such a wedding gift on your own, or you organize other guests to all chip in, you'll be making dreams come true.
3. A luxurious hotel room for their first night as a married couple – Start their marriage off right by giving them a night to remember before they take off for their honeymoon. Check with the bride's mother or the maid-of-honor to ensure reservations have not already been made, and give your gift early so that they'll be able to include it in their plans.
4. A wedding gift to stand the test of time – Whether it's a bottle of scotch or fine wine with instructions to open on their tenth anniversary, a gorgeous vase, or piece of art, give a gift on which the couple will be able to look fondly and say "Our friend John gave us that for our wedding." Other ideas include the couple's wedding invitation in a beautiful frame, a handmade quilt or tablecloth, or an antique piece of furniture.
5. Make their honeymoon extra sweet - If you've ever been to the place where the couple is honeymooning, use that knowledge to get them a gift certificate for your favorite restaurant or resort activity. You could also upgrade their plane tickets to first class, give them a camera to help them take great pictures, or give them some spending money tucked inside a guidebook of the area.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

hmm... your suggestions are very much similar to the response just above yours... not the less i am still debating on what gift...one responded and she gave a suggestion of pillows and it sounds cute and nice..i might. lolblush


myLot reputation of 86/100. ebook_freak (530)   ranked 492 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

lol
I always wished I could have 500 posts.

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (8423)   ranked 114 out of 3,965 in family   8 months ago

Well I know different cultures do gifts differently. If your not sure what to give your friends for their wedding, think of things that others have given for wedding gifts, or if their is a tradition of gift giving, etc, if your not sure, look it up! If your friends want to know more about another country, etc, give them a gift from that country. I know in America the gifts given are usually for the home. If all else fails, give them a gift card.

I hope this helps, and tell them congratulations! My fiance and I are also getting married in a few short months, we're so very excited!

IS there a gift registry in your country? If so, ask if they have one! That will save the hassle and you'll know it's a gift they'll treasure!


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

Congratulations!:))

actually, already 3 mentioned about gift registry and really i have no idea what that is...i do not think we have that here, or i am not just aware...but i do have ideas in mind..

the usual gifts i could see people give here are often for kitchen, like a set of glass wine, or microwave or similar things like that.


myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (8423)   ranked 114 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

Thank you! As for a registry it is a name for a process of asking for gifts. Similar to a wish list, or maybe in some companies the same. In any case you take a scanner and walk through the store scanning the barcode of items that you want. I think there are a few movies that talk about this or show a woman or couple doing this.

The items you've mentioned are usually things found on a registry and are things that couple's generally ask for when getting married here in America. I hope that you have a fun time at this wedding and that you can find the best gift for your friends.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. lelin1123 (4679)   ranked 432 out of 3,965 in family   8 months ago

I thought Wedding gifts were usually money. Whenever I've gone to a wedding that's what I gave. How much money also I believe depends on how big the wedding is and how close you are too the couple. Good Luck to you!


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

i am doubting on money because my friend and her soon to be husband is actually on the rich side...they both have stable jobs and a home actually..so i do not think they would appreciate the money but then they may..but i would rather give something they could keep maybe..and remember too


myLot reputation of 88/100. HelloMickey (1096)   ranked 1,209 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

So if the couples are rich, it's better to buy them some can give them sweet memory and it should also show your personalities. Money sometimes can be quite practical but not surprising.

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8. myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1341)   8 months ago

i usually give travellers cheques if the couple are going abroad for their honeymoon.

buying a household item can be risky, they might get two or three similar items and they can only use one so the others wont be appreciated.

by giving travellers cheques i am helping them, they have extra money for their honeymoon and they can spend it however they want.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

ummm..may i ask what is a travellers check? i honestly do not know

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9. melinda2213368 (18)   8 months ago

give them money in a card or housewarming gifts

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. chookie1971 (1564)   ranked 646 out of 3,965 in family   8 months ago

What is one thing that every one has to preserve the memory of their wedding? Are you thinking? The hint is a visual memory.

If you say photos, you are certainly right. But a really good wedding photo needs a photo frame so they can hang it on the wall or place it on a a surface.

A wedding photo frame would be a nice gift. Not only will the bride and groom look at the photo to remind them of their wedding day, they will also remember who gave them the photo frame.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jazel_juan (1521)   ranked 239 out of 3,965 in family  8 months ago

that is also a great idea, thank you that is helpful..or i might bring a camera during the wedding and take their picture and give it after the wedding with the frame!

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