important dates

It was 2 years running my husband forgot our wedding anniversary. I was really upset. I feel that the marriage was not important to him. The wedding anniversary was a very important day of the year where I remember the day when we exchange the vows.

If he forgets this year, I don't think I will be as forgiving. It will mean that he would have forgotten 3 years in a row. I certainly don't want that to happen. It will be nice if he remembers.

hi Joyce that has happened all the time in the 7 years we are together now, almost 4 of them married.
I am the one who always tried her best to observe important relationship dates such as the day we first exchanged e mails, we first met in person, we got engaged, we chose the engagement rings which are also our wedding bands and so on.
Unfortunately my partner never ever thought of these days, on the contrary, things happened like me taking a day off for it and then him getting into a quarrel with me as a thank you for my efforts.
There is only one good way out of it which I practise now, I just wont pay attention to these relationship days any more myself. It was his birthday roughly two weeks ago. I got a small present for him and we went out for ice cream with my mother in law who was near here for vacations at that time but I didnt make special efforts and didnt do any more than that.

I'm usually the one that forgets special dates until the day hit me in the face, my husband is very good with remembering special dates. So now I write the dates down on every calendar, and blackberry to ensure I remember our special dates. No reason to get upset if it does happen. I think if you try and appreciate each other daily forgetting an important date wont hit home that hard. And make it for it later.

I am the type that appreciate birthday and anniversaries. It's not much to remember and I don't intend to recall almost all anniversary, just the date for our special day like wedding and such. There's no need to remember when we first meet, our first date and all. If even that is hard to remember, I'll be really angry. For me, the dates signify how much he appreciate me and I don't ask to remember too much if it's too hard to do. Keep forgetting isn't a good idea.

I think our wedding anniversary is important date to me .i hope he remember the date.when it is coming,i won't remind him.i will give him a pleasant surprise,and i wish he will give me too.if he forgot it,i would have got angry and not spoke to him for a whole night.Because i think that he don't care me .