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myLot reputation of 83/100. igvirene (310)   ranked 2,035 out of 38,061 in life7 months ago

You're willing to forgive but you are afraid of the same thing will happen again for sure and the person is not learning the right thing. Will you give your forgiveness or not?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. beachstarz (894)   ranked 3,538 out of 38,061 in life   7 months ago

Hi igvirene, Maybe I'm wrong but how I believe is that you can forgive, but be careful the next time. I think you can forgive but not forget. I think that's how we learn lessons in life, by remembering painful situations . My answer is yes
I would forgive the person, but that does not mean that I would trust him . I would be careful. Forgiving and letting go of the bad feelings and resentment, but being careful in the future

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11167)   ranked 650 out of 38,061 in life   7 months ago

the best thing for u to do is either accept the way they are & expect it again because it will happen again or walk away. i am not a very forgiving person when i get hurt. know u are not suppose to be that way but w/me what u see is what u get.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (8530)   ranked 2,463 out of 38,061 in life   7 months ago

Yes I would forgive the person but I probably would no longer stay in contact with that person. I would go my separate way.

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. reckon21 (2338)   ranked 1,151 out of 38,061 in life   6 months ago

I will forgive that person if they will promised me not to do
the same mistake again. But if the same thing happen over and over again
despite of all the promises to change. Then I will close my heart and wont
forgive that particular person who hurt me. cry

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. eLsMarie (1159)   ranked 30,034 out of 38,061 in life   6 months ago

hi igvirene! if i were in your case i would forgive the person especially when he/she is special to me... just warn them that you also have tendencies to get tired so better not abuse your patience...:)

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