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Dop you think that man who cry are not real man? you saw a man who cry? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1813)   ranked 37 out of 2,934 in be happy7 months ago

I remember about my father, every time when was hard times, or we lose somebody who we loved, he have few tears in his eyes, but never let us to see that he cry, and all time he hide, don t let us see him
All time i wonder why he hide?
Do you think that man who can cry in hard moments are not real man?
Do you see a man who cry because of love?
Can a man to be so sensitive and cry for who he love more?confused

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. francheskie (835)   ranked 1,289 out of 2,934 in be happy   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1813)   ranked 37 out of 2,934 in be happy  7 months ago

Real man are real human too, so..if he is human he can cry, as woman cry too

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2. myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1341)   ranked 519 out of 2,934 in be happy   7 months ago

i see nothing wrong with men crying although they probably are ashamed so they tend to do it in private. men are usually made to believe that only girls and women cry, this stems from childhood and is often told to them by their parents or friends.

i think a man who cries is a man that is not ashamed of his emotions and by showing his emotions in this way he is proving that he's human and not a stereotypical macho male that most would like people to believe they are.


myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1813)   ranked 37 out of 2,934 in be happy  7 months ago

Hi Robert, i don t like macho man, who never cry, are very proud, and when they are alone, they cry as baby dohappy


myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1341)   ranked 519 out of 2,934 in be happy  7 months ago

very true. i forgot to mention the last time i saw a man cry was when my dad cried at his brother's funeral. he tried to hold it back but he went outside for some "fresh air". it's an uneasy experience to see a man cry but it is also a sign of their vulnerability and compassion.

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. strawberrychocodahi (2471)   ranked 589 out of 2,934 in be happy   7 months ago

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4. wyuhong (57)   7 months ago

Now I will talk about my father, my great father.Though my father is only at school for 6 years, but everything he did is successful.His temper is very bad.Now I'm 22,my father only cried one time,one time in the 22 years perhaps that is the first time and is the last time too.My parents are both farmers and they earn money very hard.Last year,my mother was cheated eighty thousand yuan,that is most of their nest egg!That time my father cried,but he wasn't angry with my mother,because my mother wantet to make more money for our family!What moved me is that he didn't angry with my mother even his temper is bad!He is the greatest person in the world!

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. mermaidivy (3298)   ranked 960 out of 2,934 in be happy   7 months ago

No, I don't agree because I think everybody has emotion, man might hide when they cry because they tend to show people they are strong and tough, they don't want anbody knows they get emotional and cry.

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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. lelin1123 (4640)   ranked 2,573 out of 2,934 in be happy   7 months ago

For me when a man crys he is more of a man than when he doesn't want to show that emotion. I grew up where my Dad would well up with tears over a commerical that got to him. Thats one of the things I love about him that he can be strong but also sensitive. Being able to show both emotions is what a man is to me. When you feel because you are a man that you shouldn't or can't cry that is not a man to me. I call that type of person a phony!

 
7. myLot reputation of 97/100. polachicago (7892)   ranked 1 out of 2,934 in be happy   7 months ago

Cry is as normal for man as is normal for woman. Our society is teaching us that man not supposed to cry, but it is not true....For me man can cry when feels like to avoid having depression...

 
8. myLot reputation of 97/100. Pose123 (5839)   ranked 550 out of 2,934 in be happy   7 months ago

Hi icesmile, The idea that a man should not cry is an old one and few people would agree with it today. Tears are an outlet and no one should ever hold them back. I have cried myself, in solitude when my father died but very openly when my mother and my wife died, and I doubt if I have cried all my tears yet. I have also saw some strong men cry when a loved one died and I respected them for it. It is time to leave such notions that men should not cry in the past where they belong. Blessings.

 
9. myLot reputation of 89/100. Sandra1952 (1671)   ranked 2,767 out of 2,934 in be happy   7 months ago

Crying is a perfectly natural human response, and there's nothing wrong with men or women crying, as long as they don't burst into tears at the least excuse. Men have feelings too, and it's good if they can let them out. To me, that makes them more of a man, not less.

My husband is 75, and he was brought up in the 'stiff upper lip' era of the 1930's and 1940's, but I've seen him cry several times in the 20 years we've been together. I don't like to see him cry, as that means he is either very unhappy or very moved, but I like it that he can open up enough to cry in front of me.

 
10. myLot reputation of 94/100. jugsjugs (3247)   ranked 118 out of 2,934 in be happy   7 months ago

I have only ever seen three men cry.I saw my dad cry when he was told he was going to die which is understandable.I have also seen two other men cry over women breaking up with them and relatonships.I think alot of men try not to cry but when they have too stronger feelings they can not help themselves.

 
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