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myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz6 months ago

Most people say that they either love me or hate me but that there really isn't an in between and that is fine by me. What I can not understand is why someone tells me I am a no good this or that or that I am just rude so they no longer wish to have anything to do with me only to seek my friendship a week or two later. It isn't like I have changed or that I will so what gives?

What chores have you done today?

 
 
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mysdianait (11916) response was accepted on 6/11/2009.
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tags:  friends, huh, why, change of heart, explain
 
1. myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz   6 months ago

Hi Raz!

When people do that turnaround I often think they have a problem, not you (or me). They want to be like you and have the guts to act like you but daren't so they tell you you're this or that. Then they realise they have lost - so they then want to make amends. There's lots of them about.

I was good and cleaned the loo before I went to work today (do you call it a 'loo'?)


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Oh is that what their problem is? Just caught me off guard (I guess) because two people this week have tried to get me to talk to them again after calling me all kinds of things. I just don't have time for that bull. Ok I have the time but refuse to bother with it.

No I don't call it a loo unless I am talking to Ed.. .don't ask I have no idea why


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

They should be more careful about the choices they make and it's their loss not yours so don't give it another thought wink


who is Ed?blush


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

No kidding it is their loss but just odd when you are told you are not nice and then that person wants to know why you wont bother even saying hirolleyes

Oh sorry ... Ed is some loon from England I have been chatting with for years.


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Ah! That makes sense - seems that loos are English! thumbup


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

ever fall on your fanny? raspwhistlerasp


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

confusedwhistlelol


myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4937)   ranked 237 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

ROFL
I'm glad you asked that MysD I would've been wondering who Ed was too.. could've been Ed the horse for all I knew (T.V series from back in the day)
We call it a loo in Scotland too, but we can't fall on our fannies w00t


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Oh Iknow that I ask a lot of things that others might not dare to Alice wink and they reap the benefits when (if) they read the responses lol


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Nope not MR Ed.. Well ya could but you have to be doing a split at the time


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Ouuuuuuucccchhhhhhh! w00t


myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4937)   ranked 237 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

shocked ouch indeed!


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

whistle


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Oh thanks for the BR here Raz! happy
I seem to have overlooked and was not aware blush


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

:)

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2. myLot reputation of 81/100. KrazyKlingon (3171)   ranked 16 out of 261 in raz   6 months ago

I don't have an answer for the first one, but it seems that you have some story to tell.

Yeah - I just got back in front of my computer after mowing the lawn, & I feel like a vibrator.


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Nope, no story. I said what I needed to.

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. alexandra777 (447)   ranked 35 out of 261 in raz   6 months ago

Uh-uh...nobody tells me i'm no good. Either they are afraid of me or they don't want to hurt me. Or maybe they just don't notice me at all...they don't know i'm here...i'm invisible! [em]lol[/em

What chores? Pssst...it's not a chore, i am having fun hunting mysD! rasp


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

I'm gonna go with they don't notice you


myLot reputation of 85/100. alexandra777 (447)   ranked 35 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Oh, good! Perhaps it'll do me even better if i also follow you around and see why they say you are rude. I have a feeling i will not experience that rudeness whatever it is because you won't notice me. rasp


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Maybe but ya might want to find someone else to follow as I haven't been staying here very long. You will get bored just sitting around waiting.


myLot reputation of 85/100. alexandra777 (447)   ranked 35 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Don't mind me i'm used to waiting. Got lots and lots of practice! I'll just blend in with the crowd and disappear again for a while. Have to continue hunting... lol


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Hahaha Alex! lol

Looks like your 'hunting' is gonna please a lot of folks too - look at the responses landing here after yours on this one! thumbuplol


myLot reputation of 85/100. alexandra777 (447)   ranked 35 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Oh, HEY, SOMEBODY NOTICED ME!!! So you also figured out what is happening??? Gosh, i thought i was the only one getting excited about it and it is now giving me the adrenalin rush!!! shocked


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

yawn Alone have a pillow I can borrow? I need a nap


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

alone? Anyone sheesh


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

I notice you Alex even when you're not here winklol


myLot reputation of 85/100. alexandra777 (447)   ranked 35 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Want to share my pillow raz? It's time for me to go to bed anyway... I'll get to you again when i wake up (i might even see you in my dreams tonight...). Goodnight mysD... i just went thru an adventure... great hunting... raspgot my fill for the day...i am glad YOU are my friend...]yawn


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Sure.. don't mind the drool thoughlol

Have a good rest

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4. myLot reputation of 60/100. AngryKittyMSV (1862)   ranked 111 out of 261 in raz   6 months ago

So far the only chore I've done is change my baby's diaper.
You may not change, but others do, or their perception of you changes. It took a while for me to realize that you were cool and awesome and somebody that I WANTED for a freind, I had to get to know you and look past some of the crap created by a third party.
Your ability to just come right out and say what you want to say rather than sugar coat it, is a big part of your charm, as is your dead animal flinging sense of humor. Some people just don't "get it", I'm glad to be among the privileged few who does.


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Aww thank you blush. I'm the lucky one. You went out of your away to see past all that was being said and find out for yourself if I was really just a bytch or if there was more to me.

Don't ya just love third parties and all the stuff they say? It can be a real hindrance sometimes. They mean well in giving you their views but sometimes they can be so misleading. I have found that out (good and bad) about a number of people. I have heard some say this one is great only to find out that they are so far from that while others I have heard only negative things about and found that I get along great with them.

I get that some (like you) don't like me right off the bat but then warm up to me and that is all good I can totally understand why. What gets me are those that are friendly right off them change their minds and think I'm so awful just to turn around a few days or a week later and want to be my friend again... WTH?

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5. myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2981)   ranked 243 out of 261 in raz   6 months ago

Well, I don't think you are a no good this or that...I think you are a very good this or that.

I just woke up...that was a chore in itself this morning...


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

And what a chore it was... right?


Good Morning myk.........go get that coffee IV started


myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2981)   ranked 243 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

I came back from starting it and saw your comment... lol


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

happySee... I'm learning

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. 34momma (4785)   ranked 29 out of 261 in raz   6 months ago

Oh my goodness, who the hell cares what others think. you know i love ya and have from the day we started chatting! i think your a great girl.... hey where you been anyway? i have not seen you around here that much


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Its not that I care. It is that I just don't get it. Oh Oh can I be your friend please please, you bytch you're rude and good for nothing, oh wait I wanna be your friend again... WTF kinda crap is that?

Love ya too... I have been other places where I can say exactly how I feel/see things without the worry of the word sensor or upsetting the clueless. I am back for a little bit though.


myLot reputation of 96/100. 34momma (4785)   ranked 29 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

oh i see around town here and there!! you always make me laugh and i never tought of you as rude! any who... keep on rockin girl

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4937)   ranked 237 out of 261 in raz   6 months ago

hiya Raz

I don't know you well enough yet to be saying whether I love you or hate you. More often than not I take people as I find them and wouldn't expect them to change, you either take to a person or you don't, if they pi$$ you off, delete them and that's it! no in betweens (I do forgive though lol)
I've done sod all housework! I went to the employment office then came home again and right back on the Lot. wink

Alice happy


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Getting pissed at someone and then forgiving them is one thing but that is not what I'm talking about.

If ya get bored with the lot I got some housework for ya to do for me


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Correct me if I'm wrong but Alice never gets bored with the Lot (just like me) lol... and the house shows for it here too blush


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Well I didn't think that she did but I do have some house work that needs to get done so I thought just maybe if I made the offer she might be kind enough to take me up on it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4937)   ranked 237 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

You know me well MysD thumbup
raz.. if i'm not doing my own housework what do you think the chances are of me doing yours? rolleyes rasp


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11916)   ranked 137 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Heeheeeeeee lol


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

Oh rasp Wasn't like I really expected you to say you would


myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4937)   ranked 237 out of 261 in raz  6 months ago

awwwww I was just coming in to offer too! rolleyes whistle lol


myLot reputation of 97/100. Eskimo (1718)   ranked 11 out of 261 in raz  4 weeks ago

Alice, I live a lot closer to you than Raz does, I've got lots of housework for you if you want. wink


myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4937)   ranked 237 out of 261 in raz  4 weeks ago

Yeah? what's the hourly rate? lol


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  3 weeks ago

*smacks the cold wet nose* back off

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8. myLot reputation of 94/100. world2lot (296)   ranked 168 out of 261 in raz   4 weeks ago

Hi! I love every one equally and loving others is mankind. As like you everyone have the same relationship, some loves and some hates. I think its better to show love even to the people who hate us because we are just going to live for some years in this world, why cant we share love and stay in others heart even when we leave this world...!


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  3 weeks ago

I hate everyone equally till I am shown a reason to like then. It saves on hurt feelings and disappointments

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. Eskimo (1718)   ranked 11 out of 261 in raz   4 weeks ago

Raz, I've always found you very straightforward, you do speak (write!!) your mind, and while there may be a few things I've not totally agreed with, it is your right to state these opinions, and I wouldn't like to see you change. (Some people do think that if someone doesn't agree with them then they won't have anything more to do with them).

To have a proper discussion on a site like this then there has to be differences of opinion.

I've not done much today, as I am retiring from work in the next few weeks, get several days off each week to ease me into retiring. happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4937)   ranked 237 out of 261 in raz  4 weeks ago

A few weeks to go... then you'll soon have lots of spare time to do your own housework! lolrasp


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  3 weeks ago

Eskimo you know that if you agreed with even half of what I say/said you would might be locked away from society. Like you said there wouldn't be much to discuss if everyone's views and opinions were the same.

Retiring? really? Congrats...maybe then I might see that cold wet nose a bit more often?

Was that a jab at me putting my foot in my mouth and acting out of anger toward you?


myLot reputation of 97/100. Eskimo (1718)   ranked 11 out of 261 in raz  2 weeks ago

Raz, I don't ever remember you being angry towards me (perhaps I slept through it!!)


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  2 weeks ago

lol no no! you said "Some people do think that if someone doesn't agree with them then they won't have anything more to do with them). " and I know you had been around when I told a few where they could put them self and they shouldn't bother talking to me ever again...

I have NEVER had a problem with the cold wet nosed one other then he takes off for months at a time sad


myLot reputation of 97/100. Eskimo (1718)   ranked 11 out of 261 in raz  2 weeks ago

Problem is that sometime the canine mutt just follows his cold wet nose and vanishes for a while, then returns with tail between his legs.


myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9491)   ranked 4 out of 261 in raz  1 week ago

Well if he wouldn't vanish for as long as he does then his tail might still be wagging and not between his legs when he returns

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