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myLot reputation of 93/100. caroll30 (1107)   ranked 201 out of 19,534 in questions & answers7 months ago

Okay now this could get to be a bit crazy here asking this question, but I was just sitting here thinking how glad I am to be a woman. I mean being a man you have so many standards to live up to. One is working all the time. Now being the wife of a hard working man I know. He works from morning till night, rarely does he just sit in front of the TV and do nothing. He gets in his baseball games, but work,work, work is just not for me. I am happy around here cleaning the house doing laundry and makeing meals. I lost my job six months ago. So are you happy with your gender, or would you rather be something diffent and if so why?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 67/100. diamania (1785)   ranked 2,423 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I'd rather be a woman than a man ( which I, sadly, am). For a man, women are way to difficult to understand and so they confuse us. This confusion, is something we experience as being annoying and hard to cope with, at least I do... rolleyes
I believe women are better on social aspects though... happyOfftopic: My Social Science teacher told us how Americans find it weird to bring kids to school and do things around the house and such... Seriously if you'd say to your wife here: "NO, I am not going to wash my clothings" then she'd say bye bye to you immediately. Here a man is supposed to help with those kind of things as well, not only the women. wink

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. stanlee81 (328)   ranked 1,329 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I am a male.As for the gender selection,i think,both are not bad.Each of them have their own responsibility and priority.You could not simply say which one is better or not.This is predetermined and should be respected.Actually,some stranges change their gender by plastic surgery.Those maybe the guys do not like their original ones.Anyway,just be happy and try your best whatever you gender!

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. Beertjie (726)   ranked 1,321 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

You are one of the rare woman who happy doing the homework. Lots of woman complain that it is harder work than having a regular job.

I am a man and I am very happy with that. Woman have to many things to do before going somewhere, make-up, hair, nails, toenails, having difficulty deciding what to wear, etc. No, I want to stay a man, pick something out the closet, put it on and watch sport on tv while the woman gets ready.

I am glad to see you enjoy homework and have sipathy for your man who is working so hard, you must be a good wife.

Blessings


myLot reputation of 93/100. caroll30 (1107)   ranked 201 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Thank you beertjie i consider myself a good wife and I also consider my man to be a good hubby. We are happy thats what matters right?

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. derek_a (5185)   ranked 2,751 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I think I am quite happy with my gender now (male). I have done the working from morning to night regime for many years. I have always been self-employed. I started off working as a musician (piano/keyboards), which I loved. I worked most nights usually in a night club. Then back in the mid 1970s things got slack in the music business as "canned" music took over from live musicians as a cheaper alternative. Then there were many musicians chasing too few jobs. I went back to college and re-trained as a psycho-therapist whilst I continued working freelance in the music business, doing session jobs etc. Then I quit the music business and found myself working even longer hours, seeing clients and running groups right up until around midnight sometimes. I didn't notice the hard work, because I loved the work so much. I have slowed down a lot now and do get to watch TV most nights, which when I started doing so around 5 years ago, was something new to me, as strange as that may sound. I am happy with what who I am, but if I was to be re-born as a woman, I expect I would be OK with that too. I am quite an adaptable sort of person, I guess. happy - Derek

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5. myLot reputation of 58/100. infinite_zoom (104)   ranked 3,484 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Very interesting question. I am male and i am very happy that i am. It may be because here in India, women dont get much freedom. They dont have as much opportunities for personal development. So the choices are less. But i think that situation is changing now. May be if i were in a different society, i would have felt different.

There is one thing that i ve always envied women for: multiple orgasms...

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6. myLot reputation of 70/100. hanah87 (1597)   ranked 1,187 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Yes,i am happy with my gender as a female.It is easy to live as female than man.Many man feel and get sick of hard life.They need to follow all bad stlye or fashion if not other people will think they are like woman.I am pity to man but it's their own decision to follow or not.To be a man,e have many responsibility to hold and cannot live easy like woman.


myLot reputation of 88/100. HelloMickey (1096)   ranked 2,988 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

I know what you mean, I feel the same as well, sometimes I feel men's difficulties in life and feel sorry for them. Being a man is not easy, and in my country a man would better not cry when they felt sad or despressed. I think it is quite poor that they have to hide their emotions from others.

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. 4mymak (1449)   ranked 5,096 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

i am totally happy and proud to be a woman..
simply because - if i was not a woman, i will not have the pleasure and privilege of carrying a baby in my womb and giving birth to a child.. and i have 5 beautiful children.. wouldnt want to trade that with anything..

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (10373)   ranked 118 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Part of me is not totally OK with it, I guess, or wasn't when I was growing up. Let's just say I'm reconciled to it.

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. carolbee (6809)   ranked 13 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I am very happy being a female. Males have quite a responsibility to support a family, atleast this was the lifestyle when I was growing up. Today's generation usually has both husband and wife working and share the household duties. I do work part time and keep busy babysitting one of our grandkids also. I can stay home and do nothing if I choose but get bored too easily. I'm at a content point in my life.


myLot reputation of 93/100. caroll30 (1107)   ranked 201 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

that is awesome you are at a content point in your life, enjoy it!

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. notlistening2 (11044)   ranked 4,558 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Yes I am very happy the way that I am, I wouldn't chaged a thing about myself, I just to work around my apartment, come here to the library everyday to Mylot, and answer discussions from all my frineds here in Mylot, one thing I don't understand is how men can want to be a woman, dress in their clothes, and I see some women who act and dress like men what's up with that. happythumbuplol


myLot reputation of 93/100. caroll30 (1107)   ranked 201 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

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