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myLot reputation of 93/100. darkangel079 (967)   ranked 234 out of 35,448 in people7 months ago

Throughout the years this topic has been debated, argued, rejected, tolerated and talked about over and over again.

What I'm here to discuss isn't here to say if homosexuality is right or wrong, but will give you a broader view to really think about.

For man or woman that chooses to have relationships of their same sex is their choice. Of course for them it is fine with them, they accept it and so they do so. It's obvious they share their love and devotion to each other.

Now somewhere in the line, tracing back in history, it was said, written and spoken that homosexuality is considered an abomination. Throughout history, it was recorded that it wasn't mankind that came up with this statement or command, but said to be a God, higher being, whom they call the Lord -- Of course those that speak of the Bible. The Bible many claimed from mankind that it's just a book from man and not from God. Some consider it silly and just a fairy tale. Despite of various translations and versions, the book itself speaks differently from what mankind says.

From what is said that, there are two sides, one is mankind which is us humans. The other side is a spiritual side, that being from a Spirit or that spoken from a God in His own saying and interpretation. Since the beginning, homosexuality has been around tracing back for how many thousands or even millions of years. It is stated that from the Spirit of whom they call God, that homosexuality was forbidden, an abomination since this God created male and female to produce more of their kind -- human population. It was said that this God called it wickedness and perversed. Therefore, this type of knowledge and saying traces back of wisdom from that God, not by humanity.

Now, us humans have our own way of thinking. We make choices, given free will, we live life with common sense and avoid of what we call good or bad. We have our own knowledge and our own wisdom. Of course it differs and is foreign to the knowledge and wisdom of whom they call God. It's obvious that homosexuality is accepted from our saying. Therefore, mankind allows people of the same sex to have their own relationships and own lifestyle. They don't think wrong of it, to them they love each other as if a male or female love each other.

Now, here's more of a twisted side but in all honesty of how this works. Since homosexuality is accepted, let's say that every person in the world is a homosexual, then how are people going to produce a population? They can't! Only way is if males give their sperm in a tube and if the woman is willing to offer one of her eggs to clone a child or have that sperm inserted in her from that male. Twisted isn't it? But that's just how it works for them if they choose to have children.

So then homosexuality is only considered right in the minds of people who live it, but it leaves out religion and spirituality since it is rejected by God. For me I don't say it's wrong because it's their choice. However, if homosexuals want to debate or argue to one who does say it's wrong will only waste their breath to people who say it's wrong. It's just better to bring out the subject to the One that said it was wrong to begin with.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. daneg33 (1007)   ranked 3,809 out of 35,448 in people   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 93/100. darkangel079 (967)   ranked 234 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. vanilla_28 (131)   ranked 2,280 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

I totally agree with daneg33, homosexuality, bisexuality or heterosexuality is NOT a choice. Our sexuality is a continousoly developing process, and we do not have any power to change it. Everyone has to right to live freely as long as it does not impinge on other people's rights, so live and let live.


myLot reputation of 99/100. cbeee3 (889)   ranked 4,597 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

I have to agree with daneg33 on this one. It is not a choice, even though some people still think it is. Just as most of us are born straight,people are born as homosexuals, transvestites etc.

It has a medical explanation behind it and anyone who knows it will never think that it is a choice a person makes.

In very simple language, when the foetus is being formed in the womb,certain hormones are produced that are needed for the brain development. Variations in these levels can cause the brain development of the foetus to change. This is what finally decides the sexual orientation of the person.

@darkangel
As for your friend, he was either experimenting around or he is bisexual.
And for the record I am straight and not biased...lol:)

I strictly believe in the policy, live and let live. Life is too short.
God bless and happy myLotting!:)


myLot reputation of 94/100. OreoCookie3 (18816)   ranked 402 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 72/100. DarkEclipse (177)   ranked 22,088 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. reckon21 (2338)   ranked 3,395 out of 35,448 in people   7 months ago

Homosexuality is something that I had a hard time understanding.
There supposed to be only two kind of people on earth if you based
on gender. Obviously, it's a man and woman. Then how come there's another
third party or fourth party. happy


myLot reputation of 72/100. DarkEclipse (177)   ranked 22,088 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

Hey, homosexuals are not another species! Gays are men and lesbians are women. Funny you!
And for your information, homosexuality is a sexual orientation. Not a gender! And definitely NOT a "kind of people"!

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. Citychic (1992)   ranked 2,858 out of 35,448 in people   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 93/100. darkangel079 (967)   ranked 234 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

This topic is not about religion or about God. What you're saying yes it only discerned of a spiritual aspect, yet only foreign to humanity.

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4. sanwhy (73)   ranked 17,022 out of 35,448 in people   7 months ago

whomever a man and a woman chose to be with it their choice, but the rest of the world should not b pressured in accecpting his or her choice, just becuase they feel someting somewhere and may feel its love...

its their choice but dont except others just to acccept u. rememeber everyone is entiled to their own opinion so dont be offfened if they are not on the same page as they aRE.

just deal with it as we try to deal with thier choice


myLot reputation of 93/100. darkangel079 (967)   ranked 234 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

I'm open to everyone's opinion for one. If you have read my post then you realize I have nothing negative to say about those who choose or don't choose to become homosexuals.

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. OreoCookie3 (18816)   ranked 402 out of 35,448 in people   7 months ago

For me it is not a matter of religion. I tolerate it because it is politically correct to do so. If we don't tolerate it we are being hateful. I'm not being hateful, but I can not for the life of me figure out why someone would want to take something in an exit only orifice, in the case of male/male homosexuality... and woman/woman is just the same for me... I just don't understand what the attraction is... but I accept it because I must.

Everything is upside down in sexuality and politics.. right is wrong.. wrong is right.. left is right.. right is left... that's politics for you. With enough pressure you can get anything passed. What will be sexuality of the future? We must move along with the times because they are changing. One day people will be marrying robots instead of humans.. they will be manufactured to specifications, and the people will have to like it, because the more liberal states will mandate that this is the new age of sexuality. We must move along with the times.

To each their own.... more power to them.


myLot reputation of 93/100. darkangel079 (967)   ranked 234 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

Thanks for sharing. I found this post very interesting.


cconrad (28)  7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 72/100. DarkEclipse (177)   ranked 22,088 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 94/100. OreoCookie3 (18816)   ranked 402 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

It will become the norm, but I don't think they are there yet. If the concept of homosexuality were so normal, it would be normal to be given in marriage as they should if it were considered normal by the ones who set the laws. It will get there though.. just give it time.

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. mizcash (578)   ranked 1,599 out of 35,448 in people   7 months ago

It is our nature to be sinful and cannot do other wise without God's guidance. Homosexuals maybe born that way because of some genetic malfuntion in the brain and they cannot help themselves.Only God can help them through something like homosexuality.


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7. cconrad (28)   7 months ago

I find it funny that the same people who say "homosexuality is a choice" will ALWAYS say "I am straight" instead of "I choose to be straight." You know deep down what you are and who you're attracted to, yet you don't seem to think it's possible for that feeling to exist towards the same gender, for other people. I'll give you a hint: it's possible.


myLot reputation of 72/100. DarkEclipse (177)   ranked 22,088 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

Right on, Cconrad! And might I add, homosexuality is not a phase either. It's not always about living in denial. At a certain time and point in your life, you may simply look beyond the gender and choose to have your needs being fulfilled regardless of which gender fulfills them. I think that's why some gays end up marrying a woman or a lesbian marrying a man.

 
8. myLot reputation of 89/100. saffrondreams (375)   ranked 2,535 out of 35,448 in people   7 months ago

let's say that every person in the world is a homosexual, then how are people going to produce a population? They can't!

Let's say that every person in the world is a nun, then how are they going to produce a population? They can't!

Only way is if males give their sperm in a tube and if the woman is willing to offer one of her eggs to clone a child or have that sperm inserted in her from the male. Twisted isn't it?

No, not really. Please enlighten me as to why assisted reproductive technologies are twisted. Infertile couples routinely use the same techniques if they want children.


myLot reputation of 72/100. DarkEclipse (177)   ranked 22,088 out of 35,448 in people  7 months ago

I couldn't have said it better!:)

 
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10. myLot reputation of 72/100. DarkEclipse (177)   ranked 22,088 out of 35,448 in people   7 months ago

Did you hear the One say it with his mouth that homosexuality is wrong? Or did you read that from a book (= Bible)? We can't really tell him to change his statements that he made hundreds of years ago, now can we?

What if we consider the Greek mythology instead. Some Gods are known to have relations with other Gods! Just like some Gods also commit infidelity towards their Goddess. Zeus is certainly NOT the most faithful God! Heck he even rapes humans by taking different forms! So since homosexuals are "banned" from Christians, I should start a new belief that homosexuals are Greek Gods reincarnated! That's awesome! Maybe in 2000 years, straight people will be at the mercy of homosexuals! Who knows!

Because we don't know who God is! Something higher than man kind needs to "exist" so that some humans can hold on to life and give a meaning to theirs. Instead of taking responsibilities for your actions and for who you are, blame it on God! God has a plan! God works in mysterious ways! Yeah... and what else!?

Commandments: Such "rules" are created simply to allow humans to live peacefully among themselves. Because us humans, we have wicknesses and we are not afraid to destroy our own kind to get what we want. If we stick to the basics of the 10 commandments, we'd be fine.

But nooo. Someone had to come and define more and create new rules. Years later, you got the Criminal code!

Anyway, I have so much to say about this that a post is not enough! I'm out!

Peace!

 
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