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If you can go back and change things you have did in life will you do it? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life7 months ago

Hi great myLotters!! How is everyone? happyI hope you are enjoying my discussions and send me a message when they become too much or boring lol I would like to ask you that if you can go back in time and change things you have done or things that happen because you did something will you do it? or you will just continue and forget about the past?

Thank you for reading the discussion, have a great day, and I will of course as usual read/rate/comment every response. thumbup

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 76/100. nightfall14 (123)   ranked 13,071 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

I will do it!! There are just so many things that I wished i can re-do that I have already lost count of them. I tend to wonder about how things will work out if I handle the same situation in a totally different manner, so I'll definitely do it if i am given the opportunity to do so=D


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi nightfall14, yes I want to do the same and imagine the same thing happens even if we re-do it lol I would like to thank you for your response and have a great daY!happy

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2. myLot reputation of 80/100. deepzholic (187)   ranked 32,433 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

i will do it......i would not go too much but only couple of years.....when i had a fight with one of my friend.......that thing completely my friendship with her....whenever i think of that day i feel that if i had a time machine then i would go back to that day.....and would change everything......because i said something to her from that we both are still friends but our friendship has changed a lot.....now we are just friends......


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi deepzholic, oh I see yes it happens with many people and if we had a time machine then I think everyone will use it. Thank you for your response and good luck. Have a great day! cool

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. syankee525 (3538)   ranked 2,943 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

i often ask myself that, i would have to say no to 95% of them. because of what i did i would have learned the leasons that i learn, and i would have been able to help many others in the way i have done.
the only thing i would change is i would have spent more time seeing my mom then allowing people taking up my time from her.


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi syankee525, happythis is a great and different answer and I really like the way of thinking because if we did not do wrong things and make mistakes in life then we will not learn anything. Thank you for the great response, have a great day, and good luck. Happy myLotting!thumbup

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (2950)   ranked 5,388 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

If I could go back and pick and choose what I wished to change and keep of my life and know what I know today...then of course I would. I would not try so hard to get my parents back together when they divorce and I was just 5. I would not have blamed myself for all the things I had no control over when I was just a child.
I would have made a different decision when my father kicked me out of the house at 16 and went to college like I planned on from the earliest times I can remember.
I would not have married my first husband. I thought I had to and had no other options.
I'd still want to have my 3 children but things would have been so much more different and better. They would not have the father they did and we would not have been on our own for so many years struggling. Their father and I would be together even now.
I would be a scientist like I wanted to be. I would not have just settled for all of the things I have all my life.
I certainly would not have been with a man that abused me every chance he thought to do so. I would have figured out what to do when my father was abusing me and my brother instead of doing the wrong things to try and fix it even though I was young I'd still know what to do and how to do it.
I would have had more options open for me all of my life if only I had known hat I could do. Or found a way to do what I wanted to do.
When all I wanted was to be happy, be in love with the same person that loved me, have a career and my family. A nice home and vehicle that would not break down all of the time.
I had simple but not unrealistic dreams. That if I had known the things I do now...things I wanted could have been accomplished before I got older.
I would have been able to retire early and enjoy my older years and my family.


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi moondancer, oh I see I am sorry to hear but and of course you were a child so you did not have control and could not change anything. I wish you good luck and you do not have to go back to change things but you can change something as soon as they happen. I hope you have a great life and I have many dreams waiting to be fulfilled. Thank you for the response. happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. moondancer (2950)   ranked 5,388 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Thank you dear, you are so sweet. I hope your life meets your dreams and asperations and that you find much happiness.
I have lived a great portion of my life and yours is just starting.
My life is about as good as it can get this late in life. I'm happy and I've been married to the man I love for almost 20 years.
Many blessings to you.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. TrvlArrngr (1235)   ranked 2,322 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

I might change a few minor things like what I said to people during my life. For the most part I am satisfied with how it has turned out. You have to take chances in life or you will always think what if?


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi TrvlArrngr, this is a nice answer and you have a point especially about the what if thing, because we will not learn if we did not take chances and try things. I would like to thank you for the response. happy

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. jezzmay (775)   ranked 1,093 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

I have thought about this,and at times
I would like to change somethings I have
done.Then I realize I would not have the
experiences of the things those things
that make me what I am today.


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi jezzmay,happy this is a nice answer and you a have a point and as I said earlier we would no have learnt and have more experience in many stuff if we do not make mistakes in doing them. I would like to thank you for passing by and responding. You always have good responses, have a great day!!thumbup

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7. venisa_yu (3)   7 months ago

Hi... I just sign up today... I like your topic. Really I was thinking about this, if I can go back I would like to change somethings... but someone told me, when you back you will to do somethings like before... so no need, I think my life is like that... now just continue and try to do best... life is beautiful...


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi venisa_yu,happy oh I see welcome to myLot you will love it here!! If you need anything regarding this website about earnings or posts or anything I am free to answer as soon as possible just message me. This is a nice sentence and yes maybe if we go back we will fall in same mistakes, it is nice to think of life that it is beautiful I think of it the same and always try to move forward. I would like to thank you for your response and have a great day!thumbup

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8. myLot reputation of 75/100. latsmom (693)   ranked 2,682 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

I have to say that I would not change a singl ething, I have made mistakes and had some bad times but they are all things that have made me the person I am today. Without having amde mistakes and had bad times I would not be able to enjoy the good things in my life like my children, family and freinds.


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi latsmom,happy this is a great answer and yes I think if not for mistakes we would not have the same personalities we have today. I would like to thank you for passing by, have a great day, and good luck in your life. thumbup

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9. rohitha123 (72)   ranked 17,555 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

hi silverstone this discussion is really interesting but i really feel depressed and become sad whenever someone asks me such questions because i really would like to go back and correct the mistakes what i have done because of which i am suffering today but the fact is that that cannot happen and u have to continue with the future whether u like it or not.but i really hope that atleast i get accustomed with the present and take it as a challenge to succeed in life


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi rohitha123, sorry for making you feel sad. Just forget what happened and move forward you must not live in the past! Thank you for the response, have a great day, and good luck in everything you do!happy

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10. myLot reputation of 64/100. jaisundar (194)   ranked 19,911 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

Yes, it will be really great if we are able to alter our past. But gone is gone, nothing ahead to alter the past. Better let us live the life today in good manner.


myLot reputation of 90/100. silverstone131 (553)   ranked 917 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Hi jaisundar, this is a nice answer and of course it will be amazing to go back and do things or undo things we should not have done, but this is life and we have to keep moving forward. Thank you for the response and have a great day!happy

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