If you can go back and change things you have did in life will you do it?

a lot of times i've thought of changing things in the past but i'm not where i am now if i did and i won't be the person who i am right now if it wasn't for the things that i did in the past. I believe that everything happens for a reason.

i used to get tensed a lot and i ve blasted all my friends for no reason. now i feel what they would ve felt so i would go back and ask sorry to everyone of them and apologise for my mistake .

hmmm maybe i just let the things that had happened to me still to happen,especially all the mistakes that ive done..because i learned so much from that...what i am now is the result of my past...all the bad things that had happened to me,,helps me to be a better man now..if i have not been with all that,i think i will nver leran things that i need to learn now..i believe that certain things happen to us for a reason..and that reason is to teach us things that will help us in the future...

I will not definitely change even one piece of it. I don't say that my life is perfect today, but this life i have now is what life has for me. I learned a lot from the past, and i am sure that if I change anything from it will change the way I am living right now. Past is past, we just all have to think of our Future. Save the best for last.

Absolutely!!! There's so much to change and I wish I could do it right this time. I've done so many stupid things in life and when I think about it, it makes me very uncomfortable. Better not think of it then I guess.

Sure would do that, if it were at all possible. Boy, what a difference i would make. Yep, lots of things would be changed. ha ha

i would't like to be born:)

well if given the chance and i could turn back the time, i would be very cautious in relation to making decision this time, i had been through a lot heartaches due to irrational and untimely decisions, things that i regreted having done.

I would take the opportunity to do what I have not done or wish I had done it sooner. Since I have been through it, I would know how to make better use of my time and make more money. Is this possible? It is but a dream. I can only look to the future. lol.

Hi silverstone, Thank you for a good discussion, but no my friend even if it was possible I would not change anything in my past. There was a time when I would have said yes but that was before I realized that everything is interconnected. Everything that happens in our life has a purpose and there is a reason for it. Sometimes this appears hard to understand, and certainly when some terrible thing happens in our life or that of a loved one, we would be willing to give almost anything to be able to prevent it. As time passes however, we are able to see why this had to happen in order for other things to fall into place. Sometimes it takes years to understand and certainly almost no one understands at the moment. Also, remember that we learn something from every experience. The lives of your family and friends as well as people you haven't met yet are intermingled with your own. Give it some though. Blessings.