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myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2979)   ranked 509 out of 19,534 in questions & answers7 months ago

...because I am a guy and like most guys I don't have a clue how y'all's minds work about some things... blush

Why is it okay to look at a girl/woman in a skimpy bikini on the beach, where they are runnin' around lookin' fine...but the same girl/woman would raise hell if you walked in and all she had on was her bra and panties? confused

It's like one of my cousins came out of the bathroom today and I quickly looked away because I thought she was in a shirt and panties. She started laughing and said it was her bathing suit. I said "well, your panties cover more than that" and she started reading me the riot act because she thinks I was spying on her or something (she was changing in the living room once and I walked in and quickly walked back out).

So what IS the deal here?

Many of you walk around in bathing suits that are barely there, but are embarrassed if someone walks in and you are in your bra and panties.

I am hoping for a logical explanation here...




...but I am not expecting one... whistle



...because female logic and male logic are two entirely different things.

*mykl runs from discussion before the women get here*

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1420)   ranked 73 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Here we go again... you and boobies! gosh you outta be looked in a room filled with a million boobies and perhaps you would get so bored with them that you will find another hobby! lol

But to answer your question, its pretty simple really.. beach time everybody is allowed to see what they want to see because I'm sharing it all with you.. in the changing room, its only me that's allowed to enjoy the privileges of being a woman so you just pouncing in without knocking really disturbs the "me" time with "me, myself and I only"w00t


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

That would never happen lol.


myLot reputation of 99/100. mtdewgurl74 (10363)   ranked 119 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Maybe getting a prosthetic pair would help him out in not being so excited about them if he seen them and felt them all the time.

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. sparkofinsanity (3542)   ranked 699 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Myky, come back! I may be a woman, but hell, at my age if some dude looked at me twice in my bra and panties (one of which I never wear by the way), I'd be grinning from ear to ear! ROFL


myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2979)   ranked 509 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

You don't wear panties? confused


myLot reputation of 82/100. sparkofinsanity (3542)   ranked 699 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

You wish!winkwink


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1673)   ranked 1,512 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

ninja

Hey we share a dress code!


myLot reputation of 82/100. sparkofinsanity (3542)   ranked 699 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

LOL
Good to know.....


myLot reputation of 85/100. prashanthalva (1087)   ranked 2,531 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 85/100. prashanthalva (1087)   ranked 2,531 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

When can i Feast my Eyes on that Bald Booty of the oldies ................ HeHe ......................... I Want them firm ok ............................ HeHe .............................. No Harm Intended ....................... Chill your Life a LiL...............


myLot reputation of 92/100. Irishfrndly65 (7469)   ranked 1,229 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

blink....alrighty then................ whistle


myLot reputation of 82/100. sparkofinsanity (3542)   ranked 699 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Irish.............my sentiments exactly! LOL
Tell me, is there a neon sign on my forehead that flashes "Pick Me, Pick Me"?*sigh*

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3. myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

because.


myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2979)   ranked 509 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Zappa? Huh? blink


myLot reputation of 82/100. sparkofinsanity (3542)   ranked 699 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

BR to this one. Makes perfect sense to me!
ROFL


myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1673)   ranked 1,512 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

yeppers.


myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

no, not zappa, just because.

lol


myLot reputation of 82/100. sparkofinsanity (3542)   ranked 699 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Really myky, female logic is SO simple! We can reduce it to ONE word. What more do you want!!!
ROFL


myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

maybe you don't understand because you don't really want to understand, 'cos if you undestood there wouldn't be anything left to question. confused


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

oh god, a one word answer like that is a bad one mykl lol.


myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

because dj. lol


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

eeek


myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

lol

every guy likes one word answers.


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Well the idiots maybe lol.


with a guy fine means everything is alright, with a girl fine means everything is not fine and you better remember what the hell you did wrong lol.



myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

fine.


lol


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Lol, ahhh but I have not done anything wrong.


Though damn im conditioned lol, my heart started beating faster hehehe.


myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

no, you haven't done anything wrong.

well-trained, huh?


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Hehe yes maam I am, my mom trained me well hehehe.


myLot reputation of 82/100. sparkofinsanity (3542)   ranked 699 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Every man's favorite one word answer is 'yes'. Every woman's is no!
ROFL


myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

lmao!


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

yes


lol


myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

yes. i mean, no.

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. TLChimes (1673)   ranked 1,512 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I try not to be caught in less then jeans and a t-shirt because I feel like an ugly mutt. blush


BUT I feel that if you can wear a skimpy little bikini that is made of a string and a peice of nothing then don't think twice about being seen in a sports bra and panties.

As for men understanding.... I'm a lady and don't always understand other women.

rasp


myLot reputation of 82/100. sparkofinsanity (3542)   ranked 699 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Say what?confusedlol


myLot reputation of 92/100. Irishfrndly65 (7469)   ranked 1,229 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

I understand very few women. LOL!blink


myLot reputation of 85/100. prashanthalva (1087)   ranked 2,531 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

I Can Understand A few Men But No I cannot understand women ................... You Cant ................ It Isnt Easy ...............


myLot reputation of 99/100. mtdewgurl74 (10363)   ranked 119 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Men think we are all mystery..yeah we are even to ourselves sometimes. I know the feeling of nothing understanding myself thought process at times.

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. betsyraeduke (1227)   ranked 486 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Because we are expecting to be seen if we are in a swim suit but we are usually are not expecting to be seen if we are in bra and panties. Usually with the latter it means we were caught off guard and unprepared. Getting caught in such a state off guard can be embarrassing.


myLot reputation of 94/100. betsyraeduke (1227)   ranked 486 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Yay! I was able to post that! I'm excited. w00t Yesterday I couldn't post replies, start discussions or pm anyone for some reason.


myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2979)   ranked 509 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Uh...there must be something wrong with your answer...it actually makes sense>

Oh my God, am I becoming a woman?blink


myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2979)   ranked 509 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Well, I am glad you weren't banned or anything. happy


myLot reputation of 94/100. betsyraeduke (1227)   ranked 486 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Me too. I was getting a bit worried there for a while. happy

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6. myLot reputation of 92/100. Irishfrndly65 (7469)   ranked 1,229 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I completely agree. I, personally, don't get it myself. Can't help it, never did. It's exactly as you say. What's the diff? I don't wear "kinis", so I don't care.;runs and hides with mykl; heeeeee


myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2979)   ranked 509 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Does that mean I can stares at ya in yer bra and panties without getting slapped?whistle


myLot reputation of 92/100. Irishfrndly65 (7469)   ranked 1,229 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

IF you can catch me in just that, yea have at it! HA!


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

*watches and waits*

Hehehe:D

ninja


myLot reputation of 92/100. Irishfrndly65 (7469)   ranked 1,229 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

;pats jedi; Good luck! LOL!

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. tamarafireheart (12640)   ranked 2,694 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Hi MYKL,



I am a bit older and if I have to wear a swim, it will be the that covers all, all in one, i have one but have not worn it for a long time, but the little skimpy bathing suits the young girls wear are a bit thicker then their bra and panties so that is why they kick off, logicaley I do agree with you, don't know why the have to wear so little.


Tamara

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8. myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,532 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Mykl. You are playing with fire because you brain isn't wired to act as a receptor of female reasoning.

Your brain may get the benz...

See ya! I'm running for cover.

This discussion fits in with I don't like guys at the bar looking at me that way... But these same girls dress that way. blinkconfusedblink

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9. myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 68/100. miamilady (2498)   ranked 1,105 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

I once saw a t-shirt in a store. Written across the chest, it said "my eyes are up there^^"



myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Hehehe ive seen that before. At work a couple of months ago a girl that sits across from me was wearing a shirt that said something she was standing up and so was I and I looked and was trying to read it and well with her boobs it was a little hard to read lol. She looks at me and says what are you doing? I said oh trying to read your shirt, nothing else, honestly lol. She goes oh ok. That time I was telling the truth lol.


myLot reputation of 99/100. mtdewgurl74 (10363)   ranked 119 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

We dress like that because it makes us feel sexy. But sometimes to much attention can make us shy away from it. Like to much of a good thing can be bad for us..We like the appreciative looking,the whistling and such..it's just the ones that stare to long and you know that they have had the blood rush from the brain to down south somewheres. And they get that disconnected look for a few..


myLot reputation of 67/100. catarina_rg (236)   ranked 1,638 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Come on now it's not so bad.

We enjoy dressing up in a sexy way, and if we see you like it and think you find us attractive we're ok, and even happy about it.

We only get upset when you start looking at us as if we were a piece of stake and you a hungry dog...

If you don't over do it, you can look.

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. sconibear (2568)   ranked 474 out of 19,534 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I get the strangest looks from men AND women when I go out in a bra and panties, so yeah.........I know what you're talking about. confused


myLot reputation of 70/100. cannette1 (1409)   ranked 3,942 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

lol


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

What? But you live in Vegas, isnt that like normal there? Lol.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sconibear (2568)   ranked 474 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

not on my side of town dj. whistle


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Ahhh I see lol. You mean there is more then just the strip? Lol.


myLot reputation of 75/100. mike1976 (1100)   ranked 1,231 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Who is strippin w00t


myLot reputation of 89/100. sconibear (2568)   ranked 474 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

yeah....you go a block away from the strip in either direction, and it's just your average ordinary crime ridden over populated city. shocked

I live about 8 miles from the strip........we got gang bangers and shopping cart people over here..........with the occasional crack head thrown in for comic relief.

and then there's that damm bear walking around in his bra and panties. wink


myLot reputation of 62/100. darkjedi (4380)   ranked 2,498 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Wow who would ever have thought that there is an actual city there lol.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Irishfrndly65 (7469)   ranked 1,229 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Bra and Pantie Bear!!!! heee heeeeee heeeeee


myLot reputation of 99/100. mtdewgurl74 (10363)   ranked 119 out of 19,534 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Now that I gotta seew00t..think missybear would take photos and share??winklol

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