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myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2979)   ranked 506 out of 19,496 in questions & answers7 months ago

...because I am a guy and like most guys I don't have a clue how y'all's minds work about some things... blush

Why is it okay to look at a girl/woman in a skimpy bikini on the beach, where they are runnin' around lookin' fine...but the same girl/woman would raise hell if you walked in and all she had on was her bra and panties? confused

It's like one of my cousins came out of the bathroom today and I quickly looked away because I thought she was in a shirt and panties. She started laughing and said it was her bathing suit. I said "well, your panties cover more than that" and she started reading me the riot act because she thinks I was spying on her or something (she was changing in the living room once and I walked in and quickly walked back out).

So what IS the deal here?

Many of you walk around in bathing suits that are barely there, but are embarrassed if someone walks in and you are in your bra and panties.

I am hoping for a logical explanation here...




...but I am not expecting one... whistle



...because female logic and male logic are two entirely different things.

*mykl runs from discussion before the women get here*

 
 
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21. myLot reputation of 78/100. whiteheather39 (13443)   ranked 3,545 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Our unexplainable female logic is what make us such interesting mysterious creatures. How boring life would be if everything we did or said could be logically explained.

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22. myLot reputation of 98/100. James72 (6971)   ranked 577 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

A logical explanation? You want the ladies to provide you with a logical explanation??? lol Oooh, get the cure for cancer out of them while you're at it will ya?

* James runs from the room and heads straight for the medicine cabinet to counteract the heart attack he's probably about to have from laughing so hard*



myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2979)   ranked 506 out of 19,496 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Now THAT'S phuquing funny fer sure. lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. mtdewgurl74 (10363)   ranked 116 out of 19,496 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Cute.. lolNow where did I put those cuffs..girls we gotta cuff him..then tickle him with a feather till he begs forgiveness..


myLot reputation of 98/100. James72 (6971)   ranked 577 out of 19,496 in questions & answers  7 months ago

I'm up for that! Shall I bring the feather? w00t lol.

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23. myLot reputation of 97/100. Ingkingderders (1069)   ranked 456 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I think the ladies who gets embarrassed when you see them in their undies, are those that are wear those grandma panties and ugly ugly bras. LOL. I think if they wear a nice lacy lingerie, then they wouldn't be bothered if you "accidentally" walked in on them.=)

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24. myLot reputation of 98/100. steflane (1240)   ranked 2,618 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I definitely have to agree with betseyrae on the first page. She knows her stuff. I would always be embarrassed when someone saw me in my underwear rather than in my bathing suit because (1) I wasn't prepared at the time (on an emotional level) (2) Bras and panties are considered 'private' or intimate attire and (3) because my body wasn't prepared to bare itself for everyone to see (on a physical level). Maybe my skin was really pale or I've got the case of body-laziness and didn't shave for a couple days...lol.

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25. myLot reputation of 93/100. caroll30 (1099)   ranked 201 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

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26. myLot reputation of 82/100. debrakcarey (1351)   ranked 272 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I'd be embarrassed either way....I quit wearing skimpy bathing suits after my first baby...LOL!

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27. myLot reputation of 93/100. thebohemianheart (2736)   ranked 245 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

How old are you, again? And, you still haven't figured out that women are not logical beings when it comes to things like this?

I don't get it, myself. If you are going to show as much as you do in a skimpy little nothing of a bathing suit, why are you going to get all upset because someone sees you in your undies?










OH! Maybe because the panties and bra covers MORE than your bathing suit? Is that it? You don't want to be seen in moreclothing?

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28. myLot reputation of 87/100. shalli17here (534)   ranked 2,480 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

hahahaha..interesting topic lol..

but i dont think i can really answer this one very well, coz i never wear a bikini lol..but i do agree with the 1st person's answer. when u at the beach wearing bikini, no one gets shy because every girls wear the same suit, and it is the dress code lol. women will get embarassed if they wear a gaun or dresses at the beach lmao.

but when a woman in a fitting room or maybe restroom to change her cloths, it means it is private. it would be annoying if someone sees us while we're changing, eventhough our panties or lingeries not much different with the bikini. i guess it's about the comfortable feeling or not lol

well..women are confusing hahaha that's why i don't date women lmaooo..

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29. myLot reputation of 92/100. mommyboo (3404)   ranked 253 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I have no logical explanation because I wouldn't care. I can't pretend to know what is wrong with other women because I'm not a prude. I'd be perfectly fine if we all woke up tomorrow and people decided wearing clothes was passe and silly. I guess I would venture to GUESS that the outrage comes from a desire to look modest and to react the way society expects you to. There's also the issue of how some people believe that looking equals touching as well, and clearly there would be a problem with that, I don't want some guy grabbing me, but who cares if he looks?

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30. myLot reputation of 65/100. JodiLynn (522)   ranked 2,465 out of 19,496 in questions & answers   7 months ago

This is easy... In a swim suit, we buy them to MAKE US feel sexy. In day to day underoos, we go for function over form.
Bathing suit= sexy by choice
basic Undies= not sexy (u guys do know we keep those extra special super huge and ugly grannie panties as a deterrent, right?)

I paid to much for my rack, so I don't go without my "over the shoulder boulder holders":)
(although I COULD, and that's always nice to know)

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