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myLot reputation of 76/100. MYKLJ999_VERSION_2 (2981)   ranked 507 out of 19,473 in questions & answers7 months ago

...because I am a guy and like most guys I don't have a clue how y'all's minds work about some things... blush

Why is it okay to look at a girl/woman in a skimpy bikini on the beach, where they are runnin' around lookin' fine...but the same girl/woman would raise hell if you walked in and all she had on was her bra and panties? confused

It's like one of my cousins came out of the bathroom today and I quickly looked away because I thought she was in a shirt and panties. She started laughing and said it was her bathing suit. I said "well, your panties cover more than that" and she started reading me the riot act because she thinks I was spying on her or something (she was changing in the living room once and I walked in and quickly walked back out).

So what IS the deal here?

Many of you walk around in bathing suits that are barely there, but are embarrassed if someone walks in and you are in your bra and panties.

I am hoping for a logical explanation here...




...but I am not expecting one... whistle



...because female logic and male logic are two entirely different things.

*mykl runs from discussion before the women get here*

 
 
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31. myLot reputation of 99/100. mtdewgurl74 (10354)   ranked 116 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Why run? I know what you mean though..maybe it is just a mental thing you know? Because we been taught it is not right to walk around in our bloomers and bra. I have seen some barely there bikini's and swim suits and so maybe it is just a reflex reaction that is uncontrollable..

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32. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (10178)   ranked 119 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Bathing suit, underwear, what's the difference? Not much to me, but I am a fairly logical woman. Still, I wouldn't go outside the house in my underwear. Not so much because I would feel uncovered as what other people would think of it.

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33. myLot reputation of 67/100. catarina_rg (236)   ranked 1,634 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

There IS a logical explanation, well, off sorts!

There are a couple of reasons:

1- when we are on our bathing suits we are aware that people will see us

2- when we use them, to go to the pool or something, we usually made an extra effort to look good, so when you guys look at us, it is a compliment

3- getting caught in our underwear is embarassing for one of two reasons

1- we are wearing our granny panties or loose bra and are ashamed of you seeing that, cause it ain't sexy...
2- we are using nice lingerie which is only meant for someone special to see, when the right time comes.

4- when you catch us on our underwear it's those times when we think we are just by ourselves, so we're caught of guard.

Does that make since?

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34. myLot reputation of 77/100. drknlvly6781 (3165)   ranked 3,535 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Well, I don't have this problem, because if there is something I don't want to be seen in, I don't go around people when I have it on lol. But anyway, I believe the logic for this is, when a woman puts on a bathing suit, they expect to be seen in the bathing suit by whoever's on the beach. However, with a bra and panties, that is only supposed to be seen by their lover. Doesn't make much sense, since like you said, there are bathing suits that cover way less than some bra and panty sets, but meh, who knows lol.

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35. myLot reputation of 83/100. jb78000 (1841)   ranked 469 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

to be fair, you probably feel more comfortable in swimming shorts than your boxers even if they're practically the same thing, same goes for us girlies

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36. myLot reputation of 98/100. Opal26 (10080)   ranked 10 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Hey mkyl! I really can't speak for all the women out there,
but I do know where you're coming from! It is kind of strange
that some women can parade around on the beach with next to
nothing on in bikinis, but yet if you catch them in any other
stage of undress will totally freak out on you! And no, I
don't quite understand it either! It makes no senses to me!
Some women's underwear covers them way more then their ity
bitty bikinis yet they freak if you see them in their underwear!
So, I have to side with you on this one and don't know what to
say! Those women are just full of shiit! They want the attention,
but only when then say it's alright! Just don't even try to
figure it out!


myLot reputation of 93/100. mrghill (1982)   ranked 923 out of 19,473 in questions & answers  7 months ago

ninja Hmmmmm!

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37. myLot reputation of 91/100. qiao522 (284)   ranked 5,134 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Different time, different rules!
The only thing you have to work out is to figure out what time is it. and by what time, I mean when timing is approriate.

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38. myLot reputation of 55/100. Riptide (1456)   ranked 3,205 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Because........when we are at the beach we choose to be seen by the public in skimpy things, but when we are in the privacy of our own home, we don't expect anybody watching us.
It's all about choice.

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39. myLot reputation of 93/100. mrghill (1982)   ranked 923 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Well M, I feel your pain. I can't understand why the women in the Victoria Secret dressing rooms get so upset when I see them in their bloomers, but they are buying a two piece bathing suit with less fabric. I guess it may be the brown railroad track in the britches factor that may be the thing that is so embarrassing.

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myLot reputation of 91/100. Rosekitty (4803)   ranked 422 out of 19,473 in questions & answers  7 months ago

I like bloomers...Hi Mrghill!!!!!wub


myLot reputation of 91/100. Rosekitty (4803)   ranked 422 out of 19,473 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Would you believe I've been adducted to Facebook? well i am stuck there playing those silly games..and you and Michael may look..hee hee

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40. myLot reputation of 91/100. Rosekitty (4803)   ranked 422 out of 19,473 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I'm sorry i'm late i was changing my clothes from a bathing suit to nothing..then back to a bra and panties..then saw someone looking in the window and went out to say hi..Was that you?


myLot reputation of 93/100. mrghill (1982)   ranked 923 out of 19,473 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Where the H**l have you been? I've been so worried about you. Besides not getting my regular supply of special brownies, you have been badly missed here. Yes, Yes that was me and Myklj watching you change from britches to bloomers, I must say it was wonderful.


myLot reputation of 93/100. mrghill (1982)   ranked 923 out of 19,473 in questions & answers  7 months ago

So, you are "adducted" to FaceBook are you? Well take a look at Myklj's friends and see if you can spot me. I'll like you to be on my friends list too. Don't be surprised if I send you a few quizzes and games. Giggitty.

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