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myLot reputation of 57/100. November21 (180)   ranked 11,271 out of 26,919 in people 3 years ago

Hi Guys I wana share with you something about chat rooms which is really they make me feel angry. I have never been to a chat room full of Western, European ,American people and they were nice to me. they are always talking in a way that you feel you are insulted.I know that i dont have to care about what they say but I'm wondering why? this really makes feel that they are junk people and they are non Academic people because I'm sure that there is a difference between them.

I'm an Arabic person what I say that Arabic people in Chat rooms or Even Asian people from all over the world never do what Western usually did.

Is this because they don't like people that from different cultures and the better way is to insult them .

What do you think?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 83/100. deewinc (3064)   3 years ago

i never get to know why they hate on other peoples cultures..but those are the few people who just are spoiling for others making other people look bad! i just ignore those people and head out of the chatroon and do my biz.

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2. myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1340)   3 years ago

from my experience of chat rooms i just don't think they like newcomers. they are all set in their little cliques so if someone new comes in they behave in a way that's likely to discourage that person from staying and returning.

i used AOL chat rooms for a while. some people in the rooms were welcoming but most didn't speak or when they did they were rude in order to get a laugh from the rest of their clique. i persevered as i wasn't going to let these small minded people beat me and eventually i stopped noticing them and just chatted with the decent people.

don't give these idiots the time of day, just ignore them and they will eventually become bored.


myLot reputation of 57/100. November21 (180)   ranked 11,271 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

Thanx robert i actually do ignore them and I believe that my time is more precious than to waste it with some losers.


myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1340)  3 years ago

you're right, they're not worth wasting your time with. just laugh at them because they're idiots lol

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. YazEid (527)   ranked 1,210 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

Hello November
I have a stupid keyboard , and this is the third time I write the response !!!
what I wanna say that I agree with you , am an a Arab too and I face the same problem sometimes , even with Asians , as soon as I tell my name and my country they don't chat with me anymore


myLot reputation of 57/100. November21 (180)   ranked 11,271 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

lol I think that they have some issues. lol
or why they didn't talk i this is only because you are different. you know Asians have another problem which is that they only want to socialize with people like them from the same country, race. Maybe they hate the feeling that they are talking to a stranger.


myLot reputation of 93/100. YazEid (527)   ranked 1,210 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

Nooo , I think that they wanna chat with western people because they think that western are better than us

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4. myLot reputation of 81/100. bird123 (3484)   ranked 9,808 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

All western,european,american people are all alike. All arabic people are all alike. People see arabic people on the news as nothing except terrorists. No wonder they are angry. The mistake is that people are never all alike. We are all different and until a person is willing to be open and give the benefit of the doubt, bad judgement calls will continue. When you receive anger and hate, give love and kindness. Who knows someone might think all arabic people are alike loving and kind. Personally, I will argue a point with anyone of any nationality but I would and could never hate anyone.


myLot reputation of 57/100. November21 (180)   ranked 11,271 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

you are saying that all Arabic people are alike but I'm saying that this is misjudgment because as we always say 'not all your fingers are alike'.

I think that means each one think in a different way that we don't suppose to think like other people way of thinking. Not every one suppose to follow other people ideas such as all Arabic people are terrorists.
we call that normative assumptions. Some Western tried to build it so it can arrive to the stage of world view.

Actually,We as Arab people build some sorts of this normative assumptions about Westerns but as soon as we study or acknowledge the reasons behind their attitude
we pull over these assumption .Unlike Westerns they can say the TRUTH IN FRONT OF THEM but they STILL believe their friends.

Then the same people talk about peace, and they will argue that they are not even racists.


Have a nice day Bird123,

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