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What are the temptations MARRIED people can't resist?  email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2534) 3 years ago

It doesn't matter if you're married or not but it would be better if it's coming from your own or someone you really know or is close to you - who experienced this particular temptation/s.

What are the temptations that MARRIED people can't resist after having promised to be loyal and faithful, in sickness and in health, thru good times and bad - that is in front of the eyes of God and the people as witnesses.

Mine would be:

Married people can't resist to:

- CHEAT even if they know it's wrong (they still choose to do it as long as they are still not caught but when caught the doer would really "deny" as much as possible)

For you, what else, what do you think are the temptations people can't resist?

 

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1. nraisor (50)   ranked 17,081 out of 19,195 in relationships   3 years ago

I think its hard for married people to resist keeping a lot of the old habits they had when they were single. Going out with the girls or the boys. That annual trip you always take to somewhere. Old habits die hard.

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. onesiobhan (1240)   ranked 3,850 out of 19,195 in relationships   3 years ago

I think taking their partner for granted is the biggest one. Assuming you don't have to do anything to keep the relationship healthy because the other person is always going to be there.


JRoberson (48)   ranked 11,348 out of 19,195 in relationships  3 years ago

I agree, people have to realize they should be who they are from the start and don't do anything they aren't willing to keep up, cause once yo no longer do those things your part will feel that you changed and that you are taking them for granted. I started out slow with my husband and told him that I wouldn't do anything that I was willing to keep up and I asked him to do the same. People really needs to think, it takes more than saying "I do" to keep a marriage going on the right path. I learned over these few past years that it makes the relationship stronger if show appreciation in different was so your partner knows you aren't taking them for granted. So you brought up a good point because the other person won't always be there if they feel that way. You have to continue doing what ever it took to begin the relationship with that person and more.


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2534)  3 years ago

Good thing, ever since day 1 up to now, my hubby hasn't changed. I don't know why but he's always been all that up to now. From being such a gentleman to being so supportive of me. And in so many ways, he has never taken me for granted at all. Not like other men who would promise and change after a few weeks, months or after getting married. He isn't the best man in the world but i'd say he has a lot of good ways toward me.

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3. JRoberson (48)   ranked 11,348 out of 19,195 in relationships   3 years ago

I think people shouldn't get married if they feel that temptation could/would cause them to cheat. Like you sad when you get married you make that promise/commitment to that person in front of the eyes of God and all the other people there, it's life changing and should not be taken lightly. If someone feels that they may cheat due to temtation the should stay single until they are completely sure.


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2534)  3 years ago

True enough! - yes, they should have thought about it like so many times before considering the very main reason why they're getting married with this person.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. sid556 (18600)   ranked 1,169 out of 19,195 in relationships   3 years ago

I was married twice and never cheated. I date and don't find cheating hard to resist. If I do...well it tells me something about the relationship i'm in. If I love someone...no desire to cheat. Its all pretty simple.


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2534)  3 years ago

Wow! honest answer! well said!

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5. kizzzmo (29)   3 years ago

What are the temptations married people can't resist? I think his or her partner. If you are a Girl you would still think and doubt if he is really the ideal man for you. Now if you are a Man ..at the back of your mind ..there must be girl out there who is far more cool and gorgeous and kind. Things like that. It's hard to conclude but sometimes it happens.


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2534)  3 years ago

yeah, you got the point. it does sometimes.

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6. myLot reputation of 92/100. reckon21 (3482)   ranked 5,621 out of 19,195 in relationships   3 years ago

Talking to their ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend.
I know of a friend who still had communication
with her ex lover. The husband found out about it.
Heated arguments followed because of jealousy. I
confronted my friend about it and she said that he
is a closed friend even before they got in to a
relationship. They are not doing anything wrong at all.wub


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2534)  3 years ago

This is not good at all. If there's something from the past that you can't fix and forget then probably there should still be feelings left behind.

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7. myLot reputation of 86/100. clutterbug (818)   3 years ago

When my brother-in-law worked out of town weekly for 2 years, only to see his wife on weekends, he had an affair with one of the women he worked with. I believe the temptation that comes with being away from your spouse too often can cause big problems. I learned that the 'other woman' kept coming on to him, and kept complaining about her own husband to him. After being caught, my brother-in-law said he wanted the affair covered up, but at the same time it was killing his conscience. He got found out when the 'other woman's' Email to my brother-in-law was found by her husband. So, I think being out of town too long can't be good for any relationshp.

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8. myLot reputation of 59/100. marites31 (251)   3 years ago

others may be in the form of MONEY. because there are couple who are both working while married but still are doing things individually for themselves and this includes money matters engagement. It may or may not result to dishonesty and keeping each other not aware of what is happening in their individual lives.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. I_LUV_U (1081)   ranked 2,632 out of 19,195 in relationships   3 years ago

SPACE! I have never been married, but something's compelling me to say that they strive for personal space. Whenever they see a bachelor basking in his carefree existence and rejoicing his "me time" practically every normal day of his life, they are bound to feel envious. It's natural, inevitable, right? Any particular lifestyle, regardless of whether you are single or married, is destined to become stale, groovy and taxing after a certain saturation period and that's when the grass-on-the-other-side thingy starts kicking in. When you've reached this saturation point, it's about time that you either dumped your partner, or as most people painstakingly do to look nice to others, "rediscover" and "rekindle" the love dying down.

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. Ithink (1502)   ranked 3,560 out of 19,195 in relationships   3 years ago

I believe anything can be resisted, it is called self-control and if you really love the other one you are with and are treated right there is no reason to stray or to be tempted by anything.

It is when there is something missing is someones relationship I think is where the temptation can start to work on you. In that case you need to decide then or there if you want your current relationship or not. If not break up and move on. If you do then talk to your S/O and work on what you want.

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