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myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life6 months ago

I know many will say they are always positive in life or so. It is not for them to think they do not want to live. But in general, at times do you feel you do not want to live anymore?
I have experienced this situation quite a few times now. Just currently all due to negative facts in life, I am just tired of being alive. I was thinking yesterday why I was not killed in the near fatal accident 2 years back?
I had come out of it with stay in ICU for 7 days, ling operations etc. But I am alive. Many thought it was miracle. But why this happened? I am now experienching the tough time in life.Its so hard to find a project, so hard to find anew job so that I can switch and so little money.
In your life do you feel ever you don't want to live any more?

 
 
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4mymak (1443) response was accepted on 7/6/2009.
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tags:  life, live, death, die, suicide
 
1. myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 1,921 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

It is totally normal to feel so as I believe. Once I was really down because I was the only one to get reffered in a paper in my class when I taught everyone who did not know and they all got a pass so I was so frustrated that I wanted to drop everything and I was always thinking negative things.

But I realised that if we think negative we will always be negative in life and no matter what happen, life continues so I shall not stop as time will not stop for me so I just continue with what life had left for me, I had done the exam again and luckily i even passed.

So since that day I have encountered many experiences like this one and It is just a challenge for me now. If you let time go then it will be you who will lose but if you challenge time and work to if then life will take you back. So always remember to give what is required only instead of giving your best always.


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

Always given my best but they are never recognized.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. seymiss (459)   ranked 6,354 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

Yes ive had this experience before this sensation,this feeling that i just wanted to die.I keep asking myself why these things have to happen to be all the misfortune have to be on me.But then i found out that its not only me that is having these problems that thier are people also in the same shoes as iam and people in worse but the fac still remain that when these things happen that feeling comes naturally eventhough tried hard to be positive and all.These feelings are just natural.


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

maY be there are people in worse condition, but my pain sometimes in unbearable

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. sunny0806 (209)   ranked 10,438 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

Be alive from nearly death you should cherish yourself. There are many idioms to encourage someone to be alive. Such as:
You'll have a very happy life if you do not die in a heavy disaster.
If we have the green hill we are not afraid of having no firewood.
Everything miserable will go in some day.
Good luck for you.


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

I am alive from nearly death just to suffer more.It is what i feel

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. 4mymak (1443)   ranked 3,489 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

you really should stop thinking like that..
there must be some 'divine' reason, that you survived that fatal accident 2 years back.. it just wasnt your time to die yet,then.. and it is not the time for you to give up now.. if you believe in God, you must believe that He knows best - and He will abandon you, as long as you believe and pray for His help and guidance..
furthermore.. you always mention that you have parents who rely on you..
how can you think of giving up on life, and leave them behind..??
i know life can be really difficult and very depressing - be patient and strong..
look for the good and positive, be thankful for what you have that others may not..
good luck!!


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

yes its true. But at times its seems too much to take anymore.

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. underdogtoo (8736)   ranked 1,807 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

Of course, I have had this feeling but I have also had the feeling that I should just survive this pain and I will be alright again. Cheers!!


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

same as me

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (2608)   ranked 1,029 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

Everytime I have a problem I ask my self if anything can get worse than this. And then some other problem comes up that seems to be worse than the previous problem. But that is life. We have to learn to be brave and tackle all our problems. I too am at present going through a very bad phase in life and there are problems that I cannot even discuss about to anyone. But have to just put on a brave front and face the world.....be brave.....God is with you and you are always in my prayers.


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

its nice to get a nice answer from you.i need the prayer.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (2608)   ranked 1,029 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

Dont worry .....someday your pain will ease.....and sadness will be replaced by sweet memories......

 
7. myLot reputation of 72/100. tundeemma (806)   ranked 9,346 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

i hate falling sick and those are the times i wish the sickness could kill me but i try to be positive minded and i always pray silently that i survive those sickness, sickness is one of the most terrible things that can happen to mankind,it is even much more painful than death and that is why some people wish they can just die


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

falling sick make many people feel so.

 
8. myLot reputation of 94/100. vivianchen (940)   ranked 1,351 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

I have this feeling not long ago when i can't fix the realtion between my mom and my boyfriend. It's out of my limit to suffer, i was so painful that i think death is just so easy to solved all the things. No pain for ever. But i've been educated, so it's not that easy for me the die and besides, i think die actually can't slove any of the problem, if i die, i am just being selfish to my family and my boyfriend, i can't do that. So i live, now the problem is resloved, i believe that as long as you are alive, noting is impossible!thumbupthumbup


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

yes as long as we are alive, solutions are supposed to come. But for me many time it comes the disaster instead of solution.

 
9. myLot reputation of 85/100. kling2388 (1513)   ranked 5,570 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

before i attempt to commit suicide but i got scared. i always think about my son. i still want to see him grow up. life has its ups and downs and i know sometimes when our hearts cant no longer carry the burdens we have, we think of ending our life. some say that is cowardness and i guess they are right. life is wondefull, dont lose hope.


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

I do not think about suicide but it makes me think live no mor

 
10. myLot reputation of 99/100. elemental69 (1023)   ranked 305 out of 38,338 in life   6 months ago

You cant carry on thinking like this sweetie... Your family and friends love you and are there for you. I felt like I didnt want to go on with life anymore when my mother died, but I had my family to think about. I couldnt bear to think about the hurt that I would cause if I wasnt here anymore. Please, please, please visit your doctor and get help for the feelings you are having. With your doctors help you wont be feeling like this for much longer.


myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 2,068 out of 38,338 in life  6 months ago

yaa all the doctors and all are good advice. But the problem is getting worse.

 
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