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My friend said this: I Am Now Convinced I'm Destined To Remain Single Forever! email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2539)   ranked 137 out of 32,575 in mylot.com6 months ago

Read the story so you'll know why she said those lines "I AM NOW CONVINCED I'M DESTINED TO REMAIN SINGLE FOREVER!!!...

I took a trip to MN and while en route back, the service representative who helped processed my boarding pass and I briefly chit-chatted and flirted somewhat. He told me he's been working for the airline for 18 years and never been to Hawaii. I offered him my tour guide duty if he ever chooses to visit the islands. He delightfully accepted. We exchanged emails and phones (I got his business card while he got my name, email, and phone on a piece of paper) before I headed off to drop off my baggage at baggage check-in. As I was looking around for the security check-point, he called out to me to the counter again and asked for my boarding pass. He then printed me a new boarding pass explaining to me he had upgraded me to a more comfortable seat with lots of leg room, not that I needed any, for my long flight. I thanked him, but didn't bother checking my new seating assignment. I just though he upgraded me to the emergency exit row.

Sure enough. He not only made sure that my flight was comfortable, he booked me first-class! And as soon as I arrived home, I wanted to email him and thank him, but I couldn't find his business card anywhere. Everything from my flight paperwork to the boarding stubs were in my bag except his business card!

Arghhhh!

Now that you've read her story and her real life experience, would you believe she's destined to remain single forever?

 
 
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mysdianait (12173) response was accepted on 7/1/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12173)   ranked 2,547 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

Now why would she say that? Surely there are more fish in the sea and she can meet up with someone else? I can't help wondering what fate made her lose all the information though doh

The same story appears here too:
http://members.lovingyou.com/showthread.php?s=16378c6fee527a4b870075f78fac8915&threadid=242681


myLot reputation of 79/100. mathss1 (777)   ranked 2,050 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2539)   ranked 137 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Yeah, she's actually that friend of mine who shared to me that experience!


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12173)   ranked 2,547 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Oh! And she didn't tell you she found the business card?


myLot reputation of 79/100. mathss1 (777)   ranked 2,050 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Azcher Is an old and highly rated user she may be right
Who knows?


myLot reputation of 79/100. mathss1 (777)   ranked 2,050 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Sorry typo it's archerz blush


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12173)   ranked 2,547 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Right about what?

I have no doubt the story is the same. Surely her friend could have also told her she found the card though, just to add a bit more too it.


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2539)   ranked 137 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

she didn't find anything after the meeting - so that's why she's thinking it will just end up there. They're not really to meet again. not anymore.


vipersworld18 (63)   ranked 7,081 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

But in the story on the other site, she said she found the card and sent him a thank you email.


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2539)   ranked 137 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Let's put it some thrill here... Let's not end the story first.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mathss1 (777)   ranked 2,050 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Right about not finding the card that is what I meant but it's not valid in the present circumstances just ignore my comment
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2. vipersworld18 (63)   ranked 7,081 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

I don't believe in fate forcing anyone to be alone forever. Sometimes things are just harder to accomplish to prove how bad you really want something. If she really wants to find love, then she should continue searching forever if need be. If you want something bad enough, it is always possible to reach that goal!


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2539)   ranked 137 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

I don't believe in fate forcing anyone to be alone forever. - Correct!

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. incredibleDNA (1088)   ranked 2,391 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

Oh no, that is the question that can't be answered. It all depends on who they meet. They might just not be into dating and is waiting for the right person who they feel can form a relationship with.

Tell your friend to be more open to people, go to a singles bar and wait if she can. As a last resort, find someone online?


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2539)   ranked 137 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Tell your friend to be more open to people, go to a singles bar and wait if she can. As a last resort, find someone online? ---> I will tell her this for sure.

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4. myLot reputation of 69/100. jt1981 (113)   ranked 21,166 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

if he really likes her, he will email or call her i bet. if not, it's not meant to be. this doesn't mean she'll be single forever. everything happens for a reason, and maybe she lost the contact info because he wasn't right for her anyway.


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2539)   ranked 137 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

There will always be ways and means if it's true love. You'll always end up finding each other no matter what. Yeah, I believe you.

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. khayshenz (1093)   ranked 1,844 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

I'm sure she'll find it when she's not looking for it. Isn't that always the case? When we're looking for it- we can't find it. But when we're not looking for it, it just turns up! It's weird like that. Tell her to give love a chance - it ain't over til' its over. Or til' the fat lady sings, I guess. Whichever one you prefer.

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. jlamela (2809)   ranked 3,564 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

No.I don't think so. We cannot judge our destiny by just one circumstance. We just cannot convince ourselves that we remain single just because that man is no where to be found. Maybe he is not the right person for him and her destined man is different. Keep on hoping and everything will just fall into place.

One inspiring story I have read was that of a writer who eventually found her prince charming when she rushed to the nearest bookstore. She said "eventually it found me". Love comes from the most unexpected places and unlikely circumstances.


myLot reputation of 97/100. archerzbaby (2539)   ranked 137 out of 32,575 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Love comes from the most unexpected places and unlikely circumstances. -- I like this! Thanks for the response!

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. jules67 (1929)   ranked 3,563 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

Hey girl you are only 27-years-old. There is still more to come to you. Still very young, new experiences, new friends to meet. What ever you conceived in your mind sometimes becomes a reality. So, think of the positive. I am way pass your age. Most of my friends from school wish that they have not married at all, and they envy me. I am not embarrassed at all that I am single. I feel good at myself. Just think of it like they way you think of mylot. Don't think so much of the earnings, think of what you can contribute here. So, enjoy. happy

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. thhoon72 (172)   ranked 4,608 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

Hihi=)
Tell your friend don't give up and resign herself to destiny or fate so easily. Who knows, she might meet him again. Cos it really happened to me=) During my younger days, I happened to meet a group of guys when I was clubbing with my girlfriends. A guy, James from the group was interested in me. We exchanged contact numbers and he sent me home on that night. I was actually interested in another guy, Nick in that group. Think they have some kind of unsaid agreement among themselves - they cannot approach the girl if any of the guys already shown interest in her. I went out with James a few times but our relationship did not develop further. After a few months later, I saw Nick in a bookstore. OMG, both of us were VERY surprised and happy to see each other again. I can still remember that day very clearly in my mind. We hit it off immediately and we dated for a couple of months. There was clearly chemistry between us, but Nick is not my Mr. Right. So, tell your friend don't give up. Nobody is destined to be single. Cheers>o<

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9. myLot reputation of 80/100. deewinc (3085)   ranked 899 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

its funny that she met this guy at an airport who was candid enough to buy her a first class air ticket& she lost his business card? i thought she wrote her contacts on a piece of paper and gave the guy! if he needed her he ought to contact her anyway! huh

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10. myLot reputation of 87/100. sophie_dfuss (2072)   ranked 2,535 out of 32,575 in mylot.com   6 months ago

Your friend seems to be not an open-minded person, as she is thinking that way. Life is a matter of choice and not just by destiny. Life is not like a fairy tale that we need to wait for our prince charming to come to us and to live happily ever after. She will not live single forever if she chooses to mingle with other single guys and go out dating. I also somewhat have the same experience with your friend. I met a nice guy before and we went out for drinks. I gave him my business card before we separated. He lost my card so he didn't call me but after a year, we got connected again through an online social networking site. We met again but it just so happen that we are not meant for each other but we became good friends though.

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