How long before you say 'yes' to the guy courting you?

This is a very interesting question. Actually I finally said yes to him (my husband now) after 5 years later. As when I started to know him, I was broken up with another one and I was quite sad at that time. So I just needed to have peaceful days and waited until my heart was mended. I am serious to the relationship. This is why I hardly said yes. As well as you, when I said yes, I also meant it.

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it depends if i knew him very well..so its ok ill say yes!hehehe..and if he proves that he is really sincere and and true to his self. most of all i must introduce him to my family if my parents approve it. so i say go!go!lol!just like my husband we had our relationship just for 6 months then we dicided to get married...now i never regret about it!take care friend!

Hi there laydee!Ü

Relationships are really worth treasuring.Ü I am happy on how you view it. I usually say yes after 2 years of getting-to-know each other. Yeah, pretty long huh? I guess i just want to have someone who has the patience and someone who can prove me that i am his only one.

i don't court to guys and well i don't let my yes drift that long. because if i love and like the guy that much i would directly say yes. and that means i am true to him not just kidding around. but it always ends up me being fooled around. well that's life right? but i don't stop loving and give myself chances that maybe soon i could find the right one.

jhelai