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myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,676 in relationships7 months ago

i have a problem how to face a girl that act like child, since she is child of my parents friend and we have meet about 1 years ago. I already tell her that i love her, and want to make a serious relationship and soon will getting marry. But my problem is, she act like a child not like adult people who falling in love and want to make a family. Both of our parents is already agree. Can you suggest me what should i do, to make her understand and act like adult people, i'm ready to get marry:(

 
 
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strawberrychocodahi (2471) response was accepted on 7/3/2009.
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tags:  forget getting married, no one can change anyone, she'd never be your equal, life, childish
 
1. myLot reputation of 57/100. kerriannc (3233)   ranked 291 out of 2,676 in relationships   7 months ago

What do you mean by she act like a child. Some persons has childlike behaviour but when it comes to the matter of the heart and doing business they are very serious minded. I believe that you need to set her down and see if she wants to indeed marry you. What you and the set of parents want don't necessary be what she wants and so she is doing things to turn you off.

My advice is to see if she indeed want to marry you. happy


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

i mean acting like a child (childish), she never thinking when she having child, and how to be a good mother or something like that. Right now she still playing around with her friends and mostly spend time with her lappies. I want her like adult women, think about the future having children and so on.:(

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2. myLot reputation of 83/100. hiccup (6675)   ranked 1,307 out of 2,676 in relationships   7 months ago

Have you given thought you may be ready for marriage but the Girl may not be.

And for some they force their wants on others and the other side is drowning as they have no support to say "I am not ready for this to happen to me".

You don't want to hear this, I know but you seem pushy here, I not sure what she wants, If she acts like a Child maybe this is her way of saying "I'm still a Child I am not READY".

HICCUP/

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. clutterbug (821)   ranked 1,240 out of 2,676 in relationships   7 months ago

Try to be very patient with your emotions right now, she might not be ready. Can you possibly wait another year or two before marriage? It may be better to wait to see if she can be mature enough for such a commitment.


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

i'm 30 years old now and she is 23-24 years. I think we both are ready to get married*lol* yeah may be you're right but i don't want loose the time and i don't want my son call me grandpa*duh*

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. JamieRose (118)   ranked 134 out of 2,676 in relationships   7 months ago

Hi logaritse:) I'm no expert when it comes to marriage because I am not yet married. Although what I can tell you about it is that, it is a serious thing. And you cannot force anyone to marry you. If that girl loves you and wants to get married with you, I believe she will let you know. If you don't feel that she does, then you cannot force her. Talk to her parents and tell them what you feel. And most importantly, talk to her straight and tell her what's bothering you:)

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. Ritchelle (1891)   ranked 650 out of 2,676 in relationships   7 months ago

you can never change anyone. only they can change themselves. and this goes out for you too. if you cannot change the way you take this slight turn off of her forget getting married. no offense. peace surrender.

p.s. she wouldn't deserve the fights that would ensue because of this. and to tell you the truth, whatever she'd do once she gets married would be wrong in your eyes. she'd never get to be treated as your equal.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. busky5 (2032)   ranked 2,309 out of 2,676 in relationships   7 months ago

I think the differental age are a part of differental behavior, so you should really talk to her sincerely about loving for her, you must brave to smooth talk to her that " We will change to join together. I think, although you may married with same age, but everybody in treat different environments are hard to stay together by smoothly. Depend on you and her will adjust yourselves to join together. Wish good luck to you.


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

Yeah, i think i would do that. Talk to her smoothly and may be discuss about marriage and the future:) nice advice, i like it. Thank you busky5


myLot reputation of 97/100. busky5 (2032)   ranked 2,309 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

Your welcome.

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7. myLot reputation of 81/100. kindy198636 (377)   ranked 2,064 out of 2,676 in relationships   7 months ago

I think you should make sure if she love you, maybe she just don't want to grow up, and don't want to face so many adult problems, If she love you, I think she should understand you, you can talk to her seriously, and tell her what you are thinking about.


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

I do, i give her all of my attention and i fullfill what she need:) Yeah sometimes when we sit together, i trying to talk about marriage, having own house*i already have* living together and so on. i think that things i can do best for right now:)


myLot reputation of 94/100. MAllen400 (228)   ranked 1,783 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

But what about Romance?


myLot reputation of 81/100. kindy198636 (377)   ranked 2,064 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

Yes, romance is very important for girl, I think every girl love romance, maybe you can try this, good luck for you, hope your dream comes true.


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

i'm a romantic guy, but my girlfriend love gadget things. I think she didn't like chocolate or flowers stuff*duh* but good suggestion anyway:)

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8. myLot reputation of 56/100. Hucheng (136)   7 months ago

First of all,your attitute about love will scare your potential lover away.You bkow before a girl marry you,she should know you clearly about your every detail.Second,Why do you wanna marry?Enjoy your single life.


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

I want to get a real life, having own family and child also*thats my parents wish too* and until now this is my 3rd true love and i don't want to loose her because i love her so much. Both of our parents give permission, the only problem is her*duh* and i'm 30 years old i think it enough to enjoy my single life*lol*


myLot reputation of 94/100. MAllen400 (228)   ranked 1,783 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

You say "3rd" did you treat the other two the same way? If you did you have the answer but if you are treating this girl different then maybe you have a chance. She is not just for a baby making machine though


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,676 in relationships  7 months ago

my 1st and 2nd they are already grow up and thinks the future, but we didn't make it because we are in long distance and this time we are so close, even our parents is so close. Her father like me much xD, may be i must more patient to wait her and tell her about our future.

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9. myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16451)   ranked 29 out of 2,676 in relationships   7 months ago

It is going to be one sided. it is difficult to change her attitude. May be she is by nature like this. there are also some people who like this childish behavior.Talk clearly about the matter before marrying.

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10. myLot reputation of 80/100. deewinc (3085)   ranked 707 out of 2,676 in relationships   7 months ago

you ready to marry a child? oh! i mean you ready to marry someone behaving like a child? how did you coart her? but you havent told us how she behaves either! it is tough,.may be she plays with dolls or she toddles around..please explain further..

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