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myLot reputation of 80/100. tskmjk55 (419)   ranked 1,524 out of 2,909 in be happy5 months ago

When somebody shouts on you in front of everybody, most of us tend to be hurt and feel sad all the day. After 10 years of slogging, I found that feeling sad makes things worse by reducing your self confidence. So,I opted for "Take it easy policy" which states that you should take whatever comes in your stride. You should make your surroundings happier to be yourself happy.

Today in my office, I was blasted by my superior for a security lapse. I take care of Applications and we have a strict security policy around as the projects we undertake tend to fall in highly sensitive. But one day I eased out and gave full permission to the guy whom it should not be given. I accepted my fault but I thought I should be let off by giving a lite warning. Anyway, I regained my happy demeanour after 14 minutes as usual and started having a blast.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. magicalangel (470)   5 months ago

Good policy to stay happy forever. But mind you should stick to that slogan. thumbup Various ups and downs comes in everybody's life now and then, most important is you should not lose your coolness and approach towards life.


myLot reputation of 80/100. tskmjk55 (419)   ranked 1,524 out of 2,909 in be happy  5 months ago

Thanks for your comments..there were some bad days in my life where I lose my cool and tend to be over agressive. Now I have calmed down to a greater extent and put my life in the top gear.

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. underdogtoo (8736)   ranked 52 out of 2,909 in be happy   5 months ago

I agree with you that constant shouting can undermine your confidence and I have decided to shout back but it did not make me happy so I am rethinking my strategy and maybe it will be somewhat similar to yours. Cheers!!


myLot reputation of 80/100. tskmjk55 (419)   ranked 1,524 out of 2,909 in be happy  5 months ago

good decision..Shouting back will make things worse as in my case...I used to be too aggressive...you can shout back when things are really out of control and you have done no wrong..You should not allow others to hurt your self pride. That is too dangerous.

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