Why girls are like this?

i dont think girls are all like this. there is always a challenge for a couple living separately to keep up and stay in a relationship. there are moments that one longs for the presence of the other. being separate does not help in fulfilling those moments. technological advances may have helped in bridging the distance between two persons, but voices and pictures are no match to actual and real hugs and words from someone. i feel your loss and i wish you to find a match for you. goodluck

Look friend, first of all all girls are not like this. But some are. and I can well understand your state of mind as you were already in love with your would be better half.

What she was doing was chatting with you and was playing with your emotion. Now my good suggestion is you are saved and forget the whole episode as a nightmare.

Well you have been ditched for that I feel sorry, but believe me everything happens for the best, may be someone far better is waiting for you who would not only restore your faith in women but also will become your soulmate. So hope for the best and think positively because what you think materialises in a persons life.All the best for your future partner.

Dude, what you have is a long distance relationship. I'm sure if you find someone who's closer to you like a friend or an acquaintance, and she's in the same city or even country as you, then your relationship might blossom. Don't forget that one important factor for a relationship to work is exhibiting the sense of touch to your partner. I guess she just long for someone to hug and kiss..

All girls are not same. I am a girl I Can say same thing about guys too.
I think that girl had options and her parents chose you to get settle down with her, may be that was the reason to say yes to you. Later she realized that person currently she is living with in same city is compulsion and more important for lifetime she chosen him rather than you. It happens do not feel bad about it and feel relaxed that she said it before your marriage. she could lie to you and may had extra affair later too. You are safe and feel blessed rather than feeling cheated or sad.

First off, I am very sorry to hear of your situation. That was horrible of her to do that to you. She obviously has no concern or care for others feelings, other than her own. Some people are just heartless it seems.But not all. All girls are definitely not like this one! I have had my heart broken before by a man and I know how it feels therefore, I would never do the same.

Knowing that she was to marry you she should never have been talking to this other person to begin with!
One day, you will find the right person for you. The right person will be kind and FAITHFUL! And, I know you are feeling hurt now but remember, this pain will pass to and you will feel better again!

She had her chance with you and she chose another. While she did play with your emotions, you shouldn't assume that she did so maliciously. It sounds as if she may have just been a bit of a coward when it came to telling you about the other man, so she procrastinated and didn't tell you until she absolutely had to once she had made her choice. By doing this, she caused damage. She didn't handle the situation correctly at all and let her own fears affect her judgement. She most likely was afraid of ending up alone, so she led you on in case things didn't work out with the one she is going to live with. Either that or she didn't want to hurt your feelings or dissapoint your families until she was sure she'd be taken care of and able to take care of herself.

Anyone who is that uncertain when making decisions for themselves, to the point where they drag on and on like she did before finally making her choice, is not someone who is ready for marriage. My condolences for your loss, but things likely worked out for the best.

I am sorry for your suffer.
I don't think that all girls are like this. Yes, everyone has the right to choose their life partner when they are single. But from your discription, this girl kind of cheated on you. Maybe she was not sure about her relationship with that guy before,thus, didn't want to lose you. This is selfish, involving with two men at the exact same time. She doesn't deserve your love. Cheer up! You will find another girl who turely loves you and will spend the rest of her life with you.

Hi Sudhibus, I'm sorry that this has happened to you. I have to say that not all girls are like this. I bet you are really hurt right now because of what happened. I guess life is like that. Atleast as early as now you know that she is that kind of girl, that she does not love you enough. Somehow its a blessing in disguise that you were able to find out now that you hadn't married her, that she is not inlove with you. Its better this way, than you marrying her and then finding out that she has another guy. Its best not to rush things. open your doors to everyone you will meet. The girl that is meant for you is just there. I know she is:) Now you have to move on. You can't force the girl if she doesn't love you as much as you love her. I hope everything will be fine with you. Stay happy and continue to believe in love!

First of all I would like to say that not all ladies are like that.=D well, I can't blame you because of the traumatic experienced with your ex-fiancee.

Long distance relationship is a big challenge for couples because it is a matter of love, trust and assurance. Ladies also have their needs just like men. We, woman, are weak in terms of emotions, we need someone who is always there for us, someone to talk to; to love, cuddle, and care. Maybe she got tired of waiting and found someone that is always there by her side every time she is longing for you.

Technologies for me is a big help but it cannot replace your presence...