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myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people5 months ago

There is no specifications about this and different people have altogether different opinions.Though legally there is a minimum age certification and medically there is a maximum age limit.But what do you think is correct age of marriage and when did you get married.My parents got married when my father was 27 and my mom was 25.And looking at their experience I feel 27 to 30 is very correct age for men and 22 to 25 for women is the best age for getting married in my opinion.So what do you think people??


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ckyera (2298) response was accepted on 10/16/2009.
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tags:  marriage, setteling down, right age, get married, age
 
1. myLot reputation of 77/100. spicysweetie21 (1284)   ranked 1,241 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

I have been thinking a lot about this the last couple of years when i have been with my boyfriend, he is older so I know that its going to be sooner rather than later....but based on both of our feelings. I think 24 or 25 would be a good time to get married, thats 2 years from now but I should have my career going by then and so we will be more secure, but I will still be at a good age that a couple of years after, we can start a family


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

That is nice.That is why I thought of age 24 and 25 for females as by then their career would be somewhat stable and they can go for the marriage.Anyways thanks for your response spicysweetie..I wish you all the best for your future.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. ami2007 (103)   ranked 7,159 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

i'll get married when the right time comes, when the right one comes.no earlier than25 no later than 30.i guess it would be a perfect time.well,if i don't get marry till 30.it is ok with me.but i am not sure my family think it the same way.so,i'd better work hard and meet the one of my life earlier.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

Good.I don't why but people in India too think that if you are beyond 30 you should be desperate to get married.However I happen to know a person who got married at 46 and is now happily married with a one year old daughter.Anyways I wish you get married when you really want it to.Thanks for your response ami...

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. yolanda19191 (666)   ranked 5,410 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

it seems i have pasted the best age to get married.lol
well,this is really an important affair in my family now. my parents are afraid of my
single without bf.but i do like being single now,haha
in my opinion, for the undergraduate girls, to get married within 30 is suitable. because after graduation,they need some years to develop the career,and also need some years to scrape up some of the family expenses. we,this generation female certainly wont totally depend on the males.lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

HHmmm.You look like a very confident female to me.I hope that you do well with your career and also get married at the age you want it to.I just wish all the girls wish the same way and both men and women can contribute equally to the nation's development.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. ckyera (2298)   ranked 481 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

i think those age are good but what matters most in getting married is your readiness to accept commitment and responsibilities...you have to be physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, financially prepared! and of course make sure to marry the one that you really love and be willing to spend the rest of your life with her/him...! and that i think will be the best time to get married!
as for me, i get married when i am 24 and my husband is 31...both of us are already finished college, have our own work, we feel that we are mature enough that time to get married and besides we've been bf/gf for 5years before that marriage!
now we are happy with each other living a peaceful life... happy
but our marriage is not perfect, we still encounter some problems which i think is just normal in all marriages...and we are just thankful that we overcome those problems and we keep on holding on...
marriage is such a wonderful gift from God...as long as both of you knows how to value it and appreciate it!happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

HHmmm.Thanks for sharing it all ckyera.I was kind of expecting this from you.You are right.This is not only about the age but also there are lot of other factors involved as well.Thanks for your response..


myLot reputation of 99/100. ckyera (2298)   ranked 481 out of 35,119 in people  3 weeks ago

thanks for br shames... happy

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. DanielleA (978)   ranked 5,972 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

I think I agree with you. I mean I don't like the fact of me, personally getting married at like 21 years old or younger. Seems way too early. If other couples have managed well then that makes me happy to know. I have never really thought about marriage. I am 18 years old. I never really thought about it when I was younger cause I didn't like pretending or playing games or even thinking about growing up.

I find nowadays being a bit grown up that it would be wonderful to get married with someone who really REALLY loves me and can have a happy and healthy life. But I wouldn't dare making that type of commitment now or in a few years time.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

Hhmmm.So you feel like you are growing up?I am 21 and still I sometimes feel that I am a kid unless people around me make me realize it.Anyways I hope you find the right person.And thanks for your response Danielle...


myLot reputation of 97/100. DanielleA (978)   ranked 5,972 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

Yeah I really do feel like I am growing too fast and I hate it. I would rather spend more time acting like a kid than a grown up. I will act my age when necessary of course but otherwise I still like to play kids games etc. It is cool that you still do it. I mean, why not? Thank you very much for your comment and same for you. Hope you have a great day. Thank you heaps.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

HEHE.You are right.There is nothing wrong in doing that.Men never grow up.And men will always be men.You too have a good time out there.

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6. megha_gupta (81)   ranked 31,237 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

My parents got married when my Mum was 21 and my Dad was 23 and I seriously don't approve of that. I mean it was way early. I seriosuly don't want to get married this early. A person should first grow both physically and mentally before taking such an important decision. Besides these two things a person should financially sound as well because you don't want yourself and your spouse to live in pain and hardships all your life. You want a good future for your children. So I believe people should first get settled in their streams for their career and then take a decision to get married. I guess for girls it can be 25 - 29 and for guys 28 - 32.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

HHmmm.I am so happy that everyone in this generation feels this way.And you are right.We should not take such huge decisions before we are even prepared for it.We should take our time and make the move in the right time.Thanks for your response megha.

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. kapitu (720)   ranked 2,354 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

I never consider this thing.since i don't have a boyfriend.and i don't hope to get married too early.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

Why is that so?Its OK that you don't have a boyfriend.And to speak truth I don't have a girlfriend either.But I don't think there is any harm on thinking about it.However I respect your opinion and thank you for responding and being honest in your post.

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8. myLot reputation of 82/100. milkmaid (345)   ranked 4,466 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

I got married at 21, and we are still together. Um, I am a bit older than 21 now.

I think it really depends on the people- if they are too young or immature, they will change as they get older in ways that may make them no longer compatible. With my husband, I just knew.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

HHmmm.I am really happy that you two are doing good but that might not be the case with everyone.But I hope if people get married at such young age they should love each other no matter how much things get worse.They should prove themselves that what they did wasn't wrong.And thanks for your response milkmaid.

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9. Juordis (54)   ranked 31,280 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

I will get married when i will dind my true love:D


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

HHmmm.That was very honest and simple answer.I admire you for that.I hope you find your true love.But what if you don't find your true love even after crossing 30.Will you look forward to arranged marriage??

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10. TristanSamuel (22)   ranked 31,277 out of 35,119 in people   5 months ago

I think a marriage is not depending of our age, but it has depend of our readiness. I was marriage at 27 and my wife is 27 too. The readiness and maturity is the important think before we chosee to be a marriage.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1312)   ranked 125 out of 35,119 in people  5 months ago

Yes but sometimes we are misleaded by our instincts.We feel we are ready where in reality we are not?So I think even if we feel we are ready we should wait for some age to make sure that in fact we are really ready for it..

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