Do we test if someone loves us or not?

Does this mean that we should check ourselves first? If yes, then what for?

When you point one finger at your prospective lover remember three are pointing towards you.Love should be unconditional or if you say that you will love a person only if he loves you then its just business.So do not worry if the other person loves you enough if you are looking for relation.If it is for business then its better you test the person.

When I followed whatever you said I was about to die. Love should be from both sides. You cannot workout with one hand. In a family husband and wife should be co-operating each other. I have seen many families getting divorced due to this. What went wrong actually then? Didn't they love each other unconditionally? Can my life partner beat me to death and still I say that he loves me or I love him? Shouldn't I love myself as well? A few more questions in my mind.

Hi again!You are right that peace of a famly is ruined when one of the partner is not coperative.But what is love?Its just wishing the other one is happy.And it definately is not expectations.Expectations bring sorrow.When we love someone do not expect that it should be reciprocated.When you do not expect something it will not hurt.That is why I said ask yourself whether your love is true.If your love is true you will not expect anything in return(not even love) but accept the person as he/she is.And whatever you feel can be transient.Maybe you love a person today but you will not tomorrow.Change is inevitable sometimes.So if a person loves you with all heart it is not compulsory that he should do so forever.It depends on situations.
In a family life love alone is not enough.It needs compramises.There might be lot of love between spouses but the life can be hell at the same time there can be no love but mutual understandings and compramises which can make the family life better.If you love a person initially and the just because he becomes voilent afterwards you fall out of love.So do you call what you felt as love?No,it was just expectations .So, when you can 'fall out of love 'with this person you should realise that things depend on circumstances.How can you then have a reliable test for love?

Yes this is what I wanted to say. Playing around or not really understanding what love is. Many people say I love you and they all run away when tough time comes.So does that mean tough times do not come to test the love? They come and love grows more and more when we pass those testing.

Yes once the relationship is built there are tests made by nature to test a husband and wife, however, even before making a relationship I feel that we should test each other so that we should not fall into any wrong relationships.

What you said is absolutely correct. Fake people won't response you and run away with your money and belongings. What should we do then? Let them go along with our belongings?

fake people will run away with our money, i think they wont touch and get into our belongings, even if they take our belongings, we should let them to go, do u know why, elder people advices to do so, because the fake people are like saturn, once if they take our belongings, we should let them go, even if we chase them and get back our belongings, it will not stay with us, it will go in some other ways, so its better to let them to take wat they wish, ..

Oh! that means what is ours will always remain with us and what is not ours will no way be with us. That is true. What others have stolen from me is not getting setup for me, not getting stored, it remains and what others have given me with freewill is not ending up, means it is not getting finished. You are true, we should let the saturn go forever and let the sun rise in our life, for unless the saturn goes sun will not come. This is what I have done today, I let the saturn go and thanks to your post since I felt that now I will get what I exactly wanted. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS WHAT NO ONE HAD EVER TAUGHT ME..

good!!! Have a new and fresh start...Enjoy life...we have a long way to go!!!!
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