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can you TRUST A STRANGER? has MONEY gone to your head? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money5 months ago

Why give your email address to a perfect stranger? w00t
Do you know what they are going to do with it?

How the heck can you trust a perfect stranger offline - so why do it here? confused

I have just been looking at discussions on here offering this much and that much in exchange for your email address - and so many users are posting their email address in the discussions seemingly unaware that they are now ALL OVER INTERNET as myLot discussions come up in searches shocked

Please note that in the Terms here it says:
'Please choose carefully the information you post and the information that you provide to other members on myLot.com. myLot prohibits any of the following items to be posted: telephone numbers, email address, street addresses, last names,... '

Would you trust a stranger offline? Did you trust one on here?

 
 
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41. myLot reputation of 99/100. ckyera (2310)   ranked 5,861 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

hi mysdianait!
no, i didn't give my e mails to anyone...
i have 4 email ads and i use them for the sites that i am joining...and i have one that is just exclusive for my friends...
yes that rule is clear to me and so, i think even if there's no rule like that, i think i will not give my emails to a stranger...especially if i just met them online...except for those who have become my friend but just for any promise...no!
have a nice day ma'am!happy


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

Hi there ckyera!

I think it is clear to all users who stop and think about it for a minute and it is obvious that you have got yourself well organised thumbup

In PMs we can exchange things with those who become our friends but strangers, never and definately not in public on the discussions.

I saw you also commented above. I hope our friend stops and thinks about what he is saying before he gets back to us again. I hope he will realise that to get the best out of myLot he must also do some reading happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. ckyera (2310)   ranked 5,861 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

yes, i hope so...maybe right now, he already realizes it but just shy to admit his mistakes...hehehe
well people who do not want to be corrected or reminded did not worth our time...maybe that's one thing he also didn't realized yet, that here in mylot we should open ourselves for changes and learning new things and just have fun...
coz if our main reason here is just for earning...well i think we can't enjoy this site to the fullest...
by the way thanks mysdianait for the comment and what i know here is just i get from reading your posts and replies to other mylotters...
thanks!happy

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42. myLot reputation of 53/100. anulakshman (110)   ranked 9,806 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

i won't trust the stranger in offline as well as online.

i may give the email address to the stranger online, but not the one which i use regularly.

i have created separate email address which i use for signing in some websites. Also one important think i do is i won't keep the same password for both the emails.



myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

Oh yes that is another thing that can help too - never use the same password for all our email addresses (just in case) thumbup

You are very well-organised too and I'm sure you would never post yours in discussions either! happy

Welcome to myLot anulakshman and I hope you will have fun!

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43. myLot reputation of 83/100. Anandhh (338)   ranked 13,793 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

hi ya usually i dont give my mail ids to strangers...but if tat person is trusted person i ll give him/her.but not here.....


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

Welcome to myLot Anandhh!

Indeed if we trust the person then that is fine - through PMs but not in discussions as you say! thumbup

Happy Lotting!

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44. Suffertree (8)   ranked 21,123 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

Giving away your e-mail address isn't close to anything like trusting a stranger in real life. There isn't THAT much someone can do with your e-mail address, unless they have plans to access it for themselves. Assuming you keep your e-mail address well secured (there's measures you can follow for this), then that shouldn't be a problem.


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

Welcome to myLot Suffertree!

I wonder if you read through the responses before responding or whether I should suggest that things that are not immediately obvious. The Terms on myLot tell us not to post personal information in discussions for our own benefit. The discussions are picked by search engines leaving us vulnerable to hackers, spammers, scammers and the like but ALSO to all the evil creatures out there who bait youngsters for many of the things which do not immediately spring to mind. According to your profile you are also under age and therefore you probably forget such things. We have private Messages which can be used to exchange personal details and they will remain private.

Please take time to read here:
http://www.mylot.com/o/mylot.aspx
so that you can be aware of how to get the best from myLot and avoid mistakes which could cause you loss of posts and earnings.

Happy Lotting and have fun!


Suffertree (8)   ranked 21,123 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

First of all, just because a person is "underage" doesn't mean they forget things. Just because someone's young doesn't mean they're stupid. I know the dangers of the Internet quite well.

More to the point, my original repsonse didn't question the ToS of MyLot at all. I was more responding to the statement you made in your original post.

"How the heck can you trust a perfect stranger offline - so why do it here?"


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

No-one is 'stupid' but we all tend to under-estimate certain situations.

I now see you answered that part and there was another too:
'Would you trust a stranger offline? Did you trust one on here?'

I respect your view but reamin convinced that there are many perils which are there and not considered at all sad

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45. myLot reputation of 97/100. GardenGerty (20193)   ranked 8 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

I do not post any of that in my MyLot discussions. I do, on rare occasions trade e mail addresses with people I have come to know on the site, but it is not public. If I happen to also know someone's address, I certainly do not give it out online.


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

Me neither ever! thumbup

I have never disclosed emails belonging to others and always hide them if I'm forwarding mails too. Better to be safe than sorry!

 
46. tonythetigerx (13)   ranked 25,946 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

You have to smart about it. Yes I would give my email to a stranger but not my personal email, I would use a secondary email for that. You have to make sure that you don't give out personal information if you aren't sure about it


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

Indeed because anyone could be watching and waiting to read so it should all be done in private.

welcome to myLot and happy Lotting!

 
47. myLot reputation of 98/100. Porcospino (2613)   ranked 1,676 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

I would never ever give my private email to a stranger or write it on an online forum, but I have created an email account (my junk email) that I use when I am communicating with strangers. It doesn't contain any personal information like my real name, and I use it as a kind of "filter". When I get in touch with new people they always get that address. When I get to know the person better, I might give them my private email, but they never get it straight away. If I get a lot of spam or other bad things just I close the junk account and open a new one. I am very careful when I open new mails, I don't want to get a virus or something like that. When I am in doubt I just delete the mails without opening them.

I wouldn't write my junk email in a discussion though. Even if we were allowed to do it it wouldn't feel comfortable about it, but I am not afraid to give my junk email to people I don't know for instanse in a PM.

 
48. myLot reputation of 86/100. iamsolucky (1178)   ranked 3,453 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

Its not safe to share important informations like that all over the internet or to one stranger on net. It can be used and access illegally, and this world knows that a lot of people are doing that already so beware and take care.
For me, i only give my email address to people i know. i also give it to legit sites. This is a world where illegal doings are now in higher rate. there are lots of emails that i recieve stating they need money, they can deposit it to my account and so on. One word to remember, just " delete" it. Just ignore it, never reply anymore.
For personal and important informations like, bank accounts, home address, they are actually the most sensitive information. So keep them safe online.
happy mylotting and smile always!

 
49. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (9499)   ranked 3,965 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

I use my instincts, trust them, have given my e-mail addy out to some friends here, on Yuwie and Multiply. So far I have not been disappointed.


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

My sixth sense doesn't let me down either Dawn wink

We are very lucky to have it thumbup

 
50. myLot reputation of 88/100. marinarovi (702)   ranked 2,744 out of 27,399 in make extra money   5 months ago

Hi Diana!
long time no see...
I usually don't trust online and/or offline strangers. But anyway I use a different email account for mylot than the one I use for friends or work, and this one doesn't have accurate personal info anyway.
anyway, what can they do with your email besides spamming? I'm not really sure how dangerous it might actually be, I just try not to publish it everywere just in case, you know.
see you around, take care!


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11885)   ranked 419 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

Oh Marina! Good to see you again! thumbup

In the responses prior to yours there are many examples of what can happen if the wrong indivduals get hold of our emails. Have you any youngsters who are using internet for example? confused

Keep it to yourself or send it to friends through PMs that's the best wink


myLot reputation of 88/100. marinarovi (702)   ranked 2,744 out of 27,399 in make extra money  5 months ago

Well, I read a lot of "I never give my adddress" comments, sorry about that.
No, I don't have any youngsters... I'm a youngster! (ok, not so young anymore, snif)
and I have my junk email for this kind of people, and still I don't publish it everywere or give it to everyone that asks.

 
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